Do people naturally gravitate towards you?

[Simslover92]

I feel like people naturally gravitate towards me even though I'm very shy and quite a bit awkward at times. I don't understand it tbh. I don't try to be welcoming or inviting but people just seem to open up to me.

Is it the same for you?

[SteveSmith1985]

Yes. I do feel people naturally gravitate towards me. I don't know if that's actually the case, or if its just my perception. But yes, I have always felt that way.

I'll do you one better. I feel like GOOD people tend to gravitate towards me. (then again, that could just be my being good at weeding out the bad people, so it merely seems that way to me).

I have that reconfirmed at every opportunity. Every new job (and there have been a lot over the years). At every new school. Even in places where one is extremely unlikely to find good people.

I'm not shy, and love meeting people and getting to know them better. I've always seen it as a huge positive. I guess I might feel differently about it if I were shy. Do you find its a negative for you?

[Simslover92]

No it's definitely not negative. It's generally good people that gravitate towards me. But it can be quite draining at times because I find they usually want to dump on me their problems. I don't have a problem with helping others but sometimes it can become much.

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm glad that it's a positive for you as well. I can appreciate how it might become too much. I am not sure how I end up avoiding that, but somehow I do. I can only think of a handful of times when I've felt that way. Usually, I don't know... somehow that doesn't end up happening. I wish I had some clue as to why that was (so I could tell you how to avoid feeling overwhelmed some times)

[Simslover92]

Thank you for saying that. I appreciate that. I just have to deal with it I guess. It's not all the time. Thank goodness. But it is sometimes.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I’m a mysterious individual. I’m huggable, lovable & with all honesty I need help up stairs. As for me when I’m out & about I usually tend to keep to myself however that quickly changes & people seem to drift my way. In addition dogs seem to find me as well & when they run up to me they always want me to pet them. Babies seem to like me as well & the other day I stopped to get a turkey sandwich with fries & I’m eating it outside & the baby at the next table looks at me & I wave & the baby smiles & starts waving back. In the back of my mind I said don’t look at me I’m not your father.

Weirdos seem to fine me too.

[Simslover92]

Haha same.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Cheers to people however sometimes I wish they would leave you alone. Hahaha.

[Simslover92]

Haha yep

[OneViewpoint]

Yes! And I'm tired of it. Hence why I'm an introvert and don't encourage interactions from other people most of the time. Especially women in a dating context. I seldom approach and generally shut down any woman who approaches me pretty quickly. My entire life from about age 15, for some reason, has been friends, family, coworkers, and even strangers seeming to gravitate to me. And they all want help or advice in one way or another, money, a shoulder to cry on, house or car issues, romantic commitment. These days, I maintain a very small group of very carefully curated friends. And the peace and quiet / freedom is really nice.

[sage2021]

Yes!! Even when I am in line at the grocery store the other people in line start talking to me, and before I know it, everyone else in our line is having a conversation.🤣🤣 People even have told me about their sick child at home and that's who they're buying strawberries for. Then they describe the child's illness as well. ?
It's been like that since I can remember. No matter where I go. People in line at the stores just start talking to me. Young guys too. Older men see me coming into KFC or somewhere and open the door as wide as they can to let me in 🤷🏼‍♀️

[serious]

The answer is No. Given how I am, given my thought process there will always be more people whom I dislike as compared to people whom I would like so those people I like who would gravitate towards me will be very slim (if at all).

I am sure this works vice versa as well. Means more people will dislike me as compared to those who like me. It does not matter to me though.

[NicholasRedone]

@Simslover92 it's probably just the name and the avatar - oops was I talking just only about myself about myself 🤭😁😋😉 guess I'm a real Casanova - I do love condoms 🫢👀😅

[NicholasRedone]

@Simslover92 it's because you're an Elaine 🤭👀 do you like Seinfeld? I like Seinfeld lol 😂

[Simslover92]

I never really could get into Seinfeld but I do like a few episodes.

[NicholasRedone]

@Simslover92 so you are not Elaine? :) in any ways

[Simslover92]

I guess not... its actually my middle name

[ohsheeT]

All the time. Abd kids and dogs thing they need to be there right next to me what ever I'm doing...

But I don't mind it's better than there parent's or owners lol

[Jerre]

Yes, the same for me. When I go to our singles pub, I tend to attract a lot of attention from the woman.

[Jerre]

@Simslover92 Thank you for the Like

[Simslover92]

You're welcome

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, I get asked out all the time, invited to go places et cetera. I have to ignore most of it. I work 6 days out of 7.

[Gaylordslav]

No, people tend to avoid me and always treat me like the Devil Himself.

[Simslover92]

I'm sorry

[Gaylordslav]

If youve ever played Oblivion and you're a vampire the way people interact with you in game is a reflection of my existence

[Simslover92]

I've never played that but that's pretty sad from what I gather. Again I'm sorry 😔

[Gaylordslav]

I need dont your i feel bad for you, im just telling you.

[Shiprex]

You're a safe bet and trustworthy. I try to avoid that as I don't want to do other's issues or gossip.

[Bklynbadboy12]

If your spirit you have a good spirit. plus your always so positive I like that about you

[Simslover92]

Thank you. You have a good spirit as well!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks 😉

[Simslover92]

You're welcome! 😊

[Mynameisbobby]

I was abused when I was little. Kids seem to sense this and open up to me about what they have been through.

[Hellraiser1984]

I repel people naturally. Even in elementary school no one wanted to be around me. My whole family hates me. Nobody wants me around.

[dudeinohio]

Not really. I'm the shy type too; but i sort of hide in the shadows.

[PeterLegg91]

I suppose so as I'm easy to talk too once I start talking , tho I'm shy etc too

[DryGermanGuy]

„They‘re called boobs, Ed.“
- Erin Brockovich

[Agape93]

Some do, usually for the worst

[exitseven]

No, it is quite the opposite.