When did you realize it was time to distant yourself or even cut ties with close friends?

[Bkay123]

I only have two friends. My one friend, let’s call him Jim, always has excuses for everything. Excuses for trying to get out of stuff like driving. I also think he might be a user too. He got mad one time because I wouldn’t drop a piece of equipment off to his house while I was at work. He could have drove to work and picked it too but he didn’t want to.
My other friend, let’s call him John, never reaches out. I’m always reaching out to him to hangout. Before his girlfriend it would take hours to hear back from him. Now when I text him it takes days to weeks for him to get back. I know his schedule is hectic. He works nights. I haven’t seen him in over a year. I’m thinking of distancing myself for both of them. Maybe even cutting ties. If you need more information I’ll be glad to answer.

[HusamRocks]

If you find them by your side when times are going tough on you, keep them
Don't look at the title, look inside the book

I kinda have the same friends as yours but I know they're there for me when times are hard 👍🏻

[Bkay123]

My one friend is selfish. I’ll try to see it that way. But sometimes it’s hard to deal with the lies and being singled out.

[RageBabe]

When maintaining their lies was more important to them than our relationship.

[Bkay123]

Yea Jim too would always lie. One time he couldn’t look me in the face when he said him and his wife went camping with his wife’s other friends when it was others he was with. And maintaining his excuses it more important to him.

[RageBabe]

Sorry. 😞