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If you have proof that shows one parent is not a good parent, can you get them deemed unfit and get them removed from having any sort of visitation?
Let's say you have video evidence of them being impatient with their baby (yelling/raising voice when baby is crying), spanking them (infant was getting "spanked" for "misbehaving"), taking their bottle away from them, you have pictures of them texting while driving with their child in the car, you have proof that you pay for 99.9% of the child's needs (can provide receipts and things that show your purchases), you have proof where you pay for all the costs of childcare during work hours, you can prove you are the only one who has medical insurance for the child and also are the only one who takes the child to their checkups and gets them help when they are sick, your pediatrician has ONLY you listed as the child's guardian and has the other parent as the "emergency contact", you have a lot of non-recorded documentation written down (abusive remarks the other parent has made, threats the other parent has made towards you AND even the child, etc).
Would that sort of thing be enough to win in court and get sole custody and be able to not allow the other parent around the child? What if other family members wanted to argue and show the court a few "good moments" of the other parent with the child (like a picture or video of them interacting positively)? Would your strong evidence be enough to out weigh the few "positive interactions" and still be enough for the court to rule in your favor?
What about banning the other parent's family as well? If they are equally toxic and abusive and again, you have documentation of where they have said abusive things, made threats, etc, can you also get them added to a ban list where NONE of them are legally allowed to be around you or your child?
The other parent would not react well to you fighting for custody and is likely try to get violent. Same with their family.
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Speak with a lawyer, usually consultation is free (don’t know if money is an issue or not) and at least you could get sound professional legal advice.
Then don't take away his kid if you don't want him angry... simples.
So you'd rather the child be in an unsafe situation? Wow. That's lovely. Did you know sometimes the parent (s) is (are) the worst people/person for the child to be around? It's sad but true.
God no. I think the child should be with the dad.
When HE is the abuser? Lol that's intelligent.
Says you
Says evidence. You're probably a male just like him. Yikes. That's sad. I pray for anyone you're around.
Why? You wanna hurt me too?
You really are a sad little troll. Domestic violence is nothing to take lightly or joke about and it's awful you think it is. I haven't heard anyone. Why would I?
Oh, I forgot, women are angels. Fucking miss me with that shit.
No, unfortunately there are some very unfit mothers out there too. NO ONE should be abusing their children or their partner. It's just not ok at all. Children need to be removed from whichever parent is unfit and abusive. If that does happen to be the mother, well, so be it. I actually know a couple females like this. Awful, awful women. The type that breed like rabbits but want NO part of actually caring for their kids. The one on particular does fall into the abusive category too and yes, she lost her kids finally. It's sad. I am NOT an abusive woman. I am BEING abused.
Well, I'm glad you can give some accountability to other women. But from my perspective, you come in here spouting off about how you perceive everyone who doesn't agree with you to be the problem. But rather than ask for suggestions on how to work with your BD, you ask how to remove him completely. Some would see that as abusive.
I explained the abuse though. That's why I don't want to work it out. He will not listen to any form of communication attempt to fix the behavior.
I. e. I know best and I can't get him to do what I want. Welcome to being a parent. But his job isn't to be a Mom. The only part I agree with you on his lack of financial support. But honestly, if you're controlling the decisions there too, I'd tell you to cover the cost too.
Call child protective services
And they could help grant one single parent the custody and keep the other parent away?