What's a not so obvious sign someone has survived a dysfunctional family but is wholly unaware of it? A belief? Process? Mannerism? Reaction? X?

[DrPepper12]

[Hellraiser1984]

I come from a very dysfunctional family. There been stabbings. We all hate each other and none of should ever see each other again. Im staying in the state I'm in until my mom dies. Then I'm going to Washington State. I have no relatives that live there.

[Likes2drive]

Probably the way they act and not trust anyone or paranoid

[DrPepper12]

True. Good observation

[Anonymous]

[DrPepper12]

Couldn't have hoped for a better answer 100 💯

[exitseven]

My wife used to tell me that the way i was when we got married was because I never saw a real loving relationship/

[DrPepper12]

Your wife & mine should get together. Heard the SAME thing!!

[exitseven]

that is a scary thought indeed.

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Belief and mannerism

[DrPepper12]

Examples?