Why can't I stop shoplifting?

[Anonymous]

Though I only do it once in a while and it's usually small items such as lipsticks, candies or cheap accessories.

When I was a kid and during my early teen years, I was only caught twice by my parents. Obviously that resulted in the old-school punishment.

It only reduced the frequency of it but I became sneakier and still continue doing it over the years (just not as often as when I was younger and always making sure I wasn't caught...) and the last time I did it 2 days ago. My parents still think they fixed that long ago. They don't know I'm still doing it at age 27.

Honestly how do I stop this shoplifting urge? It has caused me to even come late to a date, all because I just wanted something new. Why can't I just stop doing it?

Updates

8 mo

Well at that time, I faked an apology and made my parents believed I've learned and will never do it again. I only said that to stop getting punished and go back to doing it when I was sure I wasn't caught.

[D_Bone_Steak]

My first impulse was to ask you to look in the mirror and check if you're black... but after much deliberation I have determined that you might not be, but still prescribe to that culture.

My advice is that you stop listening to rap music and find God.

[Hardon-Collider]

how likely is it that they will understand where i was thinking from, and restore it?

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Hardon-Collider Lolz... pure gold!

[Hardon-Collider]

yeah, there someone started ranting about muslims and nazis out of the blue. like they conspire against the jews. i believe that gagger is a jew. i guess he also saw the trending shit about israeli prime minister:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xxe1zdXcZyA

then i disputed it with the video of muslim chechens castrating a nazi ukrainian in 2022 (FAFO for the nazis, months earlier their health minister announced castrating all russian prisoners), which he thought is not a contradiction because allegedly nazis and muslims both love trannies... not sure about that, but jews do.

then he went on about biden's health secretary (who i believe is a double tranny. F to M and back to F) he posted a news clip about some controversy when an old speech of this secretary surfaced,

i think it was all dumb nonsense, but here is a funnier clip that was recorded 4 decades ago (ai verified to be true) but sounds almost as if it was made today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BST65vtg_lU

[Hardon-Collider]

of course he shut up after i posted that video. normally, he makes bursts of at least 5 replies, and always is the one ending conversations. i think it proves he is a jew. he still hasn't replied to me whether he is circumcised or not, i asked him because he sounds like he is.

These people also disappear when you literally shove receipts in the face, of a jew billionaire funding antifa, everyone knows it is happening every day but jews, the liars that they are, pretend it isn't:

www.opensocietyfoundations.org/.../past

x. com/sunrisemvmt/status/1798368263682072658

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Hardon-Collider Wonder if it's the same guy I was questioning about the so-called "white" status of Jooze. He admitted to being Jewish, so I just started asking questions in a non-advisorial way. I took note of how he recognized mixing and which Jews had the intelligence factors, but still categorized them as non-white. Like white, but a special class basically.

Soros and his open society foundation has to get dealt with. That's what's behind all these retarded gay NGO's, funding of the Democrats through Act Blue, as well as funding ANTIFA. The connections were made long ago, and Trump is just now starting to speak on it publicly. "They need to be looked at" type of stuff. If he's going to finally defund ANTIFA, he's going to have to deal with it.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Hardon-Collider I got to say I have the highest hopes that I've ever had in my lifetime. They shit all over the left's slush funds by shitting all over USAID, but he's still got to deal with funding that comes from outside the U. S. via the Soros/Open Societies route.

Once that's out of the way... defunding the propaganda wing (media) has most of the work done. Funny how the Democrats are threatening Gov shutdown over re-funding media and the Republifucks just go on vacation to ignore them. A shut down just enables Trump to fire more useless Government workers... those commies can go get fucked.

[D_Bone_Steak]

https://youtu.be/YbftG9RhnOc?si=GdDh3HB0knWnx5EM

I just woke up so it's time for me to watch my news. lolz

[slatyb]

Get professional help and sort this out before it leads to severe consequences.

[Asker]

Yeah I needed help all these years. I'll always wonder if my parents would've communicated and gotten me help instead of physical punishment at the time, this issue would've been solved already.

[Asker]

I blame them for the nonstppable urge to steal from stores. They failed me.

[slatyb]

Physical punishment -- that's a euphemism for abuse.

[Asker]

It is. It never solved my issue with stealing things. All it did was decrease the frequency out of fear of getting caught again but eventually doing it again when I had the chance and they got fooled with my fake apology. I became sneakier

[jazzy34]

……. Either you’re a troll or you need some serious help.

[Asker]

I'm anonymous in case anyone that knows me used this site and finds out about it. I would like to stop doing it though and this time it isn't because of being afraid of punishment as when I was a kid or teen but because it's causing anxiety whenever I stop doing it for a longer period and feel it's affecting me.

[Ninania]

It's an addiction, you should get help.

[Abbycado]

You’re a degenerate

[Asker]

I don't do drugs and don't drunk much. I don't even like parties. I just can't stop the urge to shoplift.

[Abbycado]

So, you’re a degenerate.

[Asker]

I would like to stop thought. I wish I could fight the urge to shoplift.

[Anonymous]

Take some anti-shoplifting pills.