It’s perfectly fine to not want to talk to people who are indifferent?

[Anonymous]

I’m specifically speaking on someone I was interested in we all know how you can get labeled and called a weirdo around town for nothing. Honestly someone talking to you or speaking to you only when it’s convenient or because the other intended person is not around. Is something I don’t want to be a part of anymore because it seems like that’s the only reason they even say hello to me. I was told I was emphasizing her actions because I want her ok fine and that i should except her kindness. But I don’t want it to be forced I understand women understand it better than us and that she isn’t interested but in real life this is what I experience. Why not let the person know and give them the peace of mind you will leave them alone you have nothing to worry about anymore. It’s just for my peace of mind to move on honestly I can talk but I know myself as a person I don’t really want anything to do with people who don’t like me. No more awkward greetings or trying to avoid eye contact with this person because you don’t know if they want you to speak to them. It’s who I always been don’t know her personally not that deep but just rather move on from them instead of trying to be friends.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She’s afraid if she rejects you, you’ll kill her. A story women are told a dozen times over from a dozen different women’s deaths.

[Asker]

Yeah but why can’t she tell I’m trying to avoid eye contact so I don’t have to speak to her and I’ve never tried to ask her out. So what’s wrong with her I don’t go around her at all I don’t even look in the direction if im on my phone looking down just walk past. Instead of letting me know you are there and saying hi trying to lead me on just want attention I really don’t understand the problem I am causing by keeping my mouth shut.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

How is she supposed to know that? Do you have a sign plastered on your body detailing your intentions at any given time?

[Asker]

I don’t have any intention but to stay away from her what do you suggest?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Leave, put as much distance between you and her as possible

[Asker]

Oh ok I will