How many times will you allow a person to bail on you?

[DishLady]

Whether it's a friend, a family member or an SO, how many times would you allow someone to bail on you?

[HawkPerception]

Twice for people I don't care too much about. For loved ones, it's kind of unlimited. It would frustrate me if they consistently bail, but they're my loved ones. The more you consider someone a loved one, the more leniency they tend to get. If it's your mother, brother, sister, son, daughter... you're most likely going to give them an unlimited amount of leniency. There are other more important factors for cutting someone out. Like how toxic of a person they are.

[Ironco]

Three times...

First time, I don't even catch it...

Second time, I'm like ok shit happens...

Third time, go fuck yourself...

[DishLady]

I’m like that too. 3 is the standard limit. Sometimes if prompted I’ll try again, but my heart’s not really into it.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Once or twice if there’s a real reason.

After that, it stops being a mistake and starts being a pattern.

I don’t stay where reliability becomes optional.

[OlderAndWiser]

This is America, and three strikes means you're out!

[Spencer10]

Hmmm... when getting to know a person maybe once. @nd time and its over.

[worldscolide]

Never. I stand on my own. Now, if I'm in a situation not of my doing, meaning it's impossible for it to be my fault, I may accept help.

[exitseven]

i don;t know but after a while I ge tthe message.

[MicahRaine]

Maybe a few times a year, if there are good reasons.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

1 time then im done

[CubaPirate]

Once bitten twice shy

[ryanrhino]

0 times.