I’d love to say Im joking but this is mad annoying. I have never had anything against my dad, but I just never cared to know him like that. I was not the child to ask about a dad or to ask to visit him. I legit just care for the people I’m around 100% of the time and thats it.
As a kid, every few years, he’d ask to see me only for his family vacations where he wanted to showoff his kids to coworkers, friends, extended fam, etc. Throughout HS, i dont even know if i remember him being around unless his mother reminded him of when my birthday was. Again, I have nothing against this dude. I treat all outsiders the same. I don’t keep up with their bdays so I don’t need them to know mine. If i have never lived with you, don’t pop up on me.
All in all, he didn’t start popping up like this until his wife started having an affair and all his other children graduated and moved away. In February, he did this...
Would you give in and open the door for someone that you told not to come over?
Last weekend, tried to pop up again. Today, I get home from the store. I go to open the door to see if my snowglobe arrived and this mf is standing outside. I dodged him all the other times and intended to again. I keep asking him not to show up, especially uninvited and he continues to do so. And he never wants anything, just to say Hi. I say Hi/Bye through the door. Thats not good enough for him. He keeps busting in the house and not leaving when asked.
Today he had some ned the wino ass dude in the truck pumping him up screaming “thats your kid, bust in there.” Trying to impress his coworkers/friends as usual, he busts in and chases me saying I just want a hi, a hug, la fist bump! I said hi but i dont even hug the folks i like. I had to slam the bedroom door in his face til he left. I’m sick of it yo.
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