WHAT THE HELL, people have to respect your boundaries even your parents. Ask them whether they enjoy seeing you hurt or stressed because clearly they do! You dont want to see that loser and thats final. You know what's best for you because its your life to live.
And to answer the question, NO. Dont ever open 💩 for an ex or anyone you told not to come over. Let them stay out there till the rapture.
I hope since they let him in he didn't come with his hands swinging. If he really needs to speak to you let the MF pay CASH, say your price. Only talk to him in public places where there are a lot of people and never go somewhere with them not even their car.
Whew this had me hot, like how dear them, ALL OF EM!
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Generally speaking I don't think it's safe to open the door.
My ex did that, banging down the door.
Another time he was sooo drunk and I did let him in to sleep it off. But I told him to sleep on the sofa or the blow up bed and at some point he tried to find his way into my bed. I was rather afraid. He actually thought this was code! Nah he was a mess and I worried for his safety going home in such a state.
He played me, knew I'd be embarrassed and knew I really loved him.
I'm not the best person and try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
But as a women you always have to think of safety first.
You know what's up!
Wow- your mom is a really shitty guard of her offspring.
As far as me, this is my policy: you better not be coming over to MY HOUSE unless you have a f*cking appointment! (And no, I don't mean a FUCKING appointment. Get your mind out of the gutter, folks.). I don't answer random calls, random texts, or random knocks. Let me know ahead of time; otherwise your ass is getting ignored!!
Oh, hell no! I hate when people do that shit.
Sorry, not sorry; you can stand on the porch and freeze to death. You're so inconsiderate that you ignored my telling you not to come over, so I'm gonna leave your ass out there. 🖕
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I feel for you. I can’t imagine living with someone who lets invaders like that into your sanctuary. I sometimes just want to be alone and have had people do things like lurk outside or put notes under my door. My roommate and I never let people into our space unless we both agree to it. That’s so rude.
My sisters, parents and I had each other’s backs when we lived together.
“I don’t want to see him’ means GO AWAY and there was never an instance where that wasn’t made clear to the jerk standing waiting for one of us.
I know I’ve screamed at nuisance guys calling on us telling them to get lost as have my sisters!"What you're doing, coming over here unannounced? You don't think you could get hurt doing that? You come in to see a fucking Broadway show, you call ahead first, see if it's okay with me."
- Detective Trupo, American GangsterSorry you’re going through this and yeah your moms is outta bounds. This is probably going to be a rough night to say the least. Again sorry I feel for you
I personally don't ignore people, I'll at least text them and tell them to go away, but I think your parents should respect your boundaries a bit more.
Nope. I will say something. And that's it. I'll keep my word, for better or worse. It annoys me how much the surprised pikachu face meme applies to people sometimes.
“Weakass” took me out 😂😂. But if I truly don’t wanna be bothered then I’d say I’m not home to begin with. No one can get inside my apartment complex anyways without the electronic key so I dont have to worry about that.
dont come means dont come , if they did it = either i kick their ass or call the police if its a girl (i dont hit girls)
There's no way I'm opening the door, even if I wanted to open the door I couldn't, mostly because I work many hours and come home tired and go to sleep very fast plus when I'm asleep I don't hear anything
Depends on who it is. For a family member, yes. I'm weak in that sense. For an ex friend I want nothing to do with, no.
Just out of curiosity. What is your mom’s excuse when she lets him in? And does she give you a hard time for not letting him in?
Good for you, by the way, for standing your ground.Nope not when you already told him not to come, now it's on him
I mean honestly chances are I wouldn't even noticed them since I'd probably have headphones in with the volume cranked up.
Girl, you’re a hot mess. Why would your father just show up out of the blue? Then your mom opens the door for him? Why does she have a key to your place? Set some boundaries for God’s sake.
Depends on the mood, if I'm pissed, I won't do it, otherwise I may.
Not if I specifically told them "no, don't come over!"
i'd ask my brother to get rid of them if that happened
If I don't want to see you I'm not going to let you in.
Nah boundaries are important. Give em an inch and they will take a mile.
If I told them NOT to come over and they come over anyway, I'm going into hiding. 😂
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