Why my mom wants to live with me forever and ever and I never have husband or babies?

[Sugar100]

My mom never bought a house or went to collage so she can’t pay rent. She refuses to live near my job and I hate the far city she lives at. She’s a hoarder so I feel miserable in her studio apt. I have no room, have 1 year I can’t Masterbate as she comes home fast when I try. I have no boyfriend sexless love life.

my brother is married and owns a house and she gets mad if I tell her to live with him as I don’t have a house.
she gets mad and wants to bother me only. Not let me live my life. I want to rent a studio and she wants to live with me forever inn a tiny studio squished to use me to not pay much rent rather than split rent for a big 3 bedroom apt.

she’s mad as I said I don’t own a home to have her move in. She never bothers my married brother and it’s not right I’m 28 I never had a boyfriend never began my life yet having babies dating a guy.

Updates

7 mo

I deserve be happy live with. A man have babies not forever with mom. We fight daily I deserve have my own life. My brother shud take care of her not me it’s fucked up. She left the house like a toddler I don’t fucking care.

[ohsheeT]

Because she's being selfish and she's scared to death that there will be nobody to take care of her except for you and that's sad that she wouldn't allow you to have a family and still take care of her who's going to take care of you 1 day if you have no, kids. She has no grandkids

[Sugar100]

I’m also alone in life, don’t u think I get scared? I have no boyfriend no husband no family, I just have mom and dad. No friends. I’m all alone. She has grandkids from my brother but I don’t have any as I still never met guy that loves me. But she and I always fight as she don’t want me to have babies.

[Sugar100]

But y can’t my married brother take care of her, y she’s mad when I say go to him? The one with the big house rich should be the one taking care of her not me. I don’t have. Big house married yet.

[ohsheeT]

No she won't go there because he won't put up with her crap. And manipulation he won't allow her to control him

[DryGermanGuy]

I have said it once, I’ll say it 41 more times, get yourself a legal guardian. Apparently you are incapable of making adult decisions.

[Simslover92]

You're going to have to do the hardest thing in the world and that's seek independence from your mom and move. Get your own place and start living your own life. That's the only way.

[Sugar100]

She blocked me and disowned me. She’s never been this upset. But don’t u think it’s fucked up? That she gets mad and don’t want live at my married brothers big house? And since he’s the fav child she don’t want live with him but bother me? That’s fucked up.
She wants us live together forever in a studio sharing the Same bed forever so she don’t need pay rent use me. And not bother my brother that’s fucked up

[Simslover92]

Leave and get your own place.

[StephanieChick111]

She is your mom. Just leave and don't talk to her.

[Jerre]

I think it is time for you to do what YOU want to do. It’s going to be difficult, but YOU can do it. You’ll have a better life, a chance to go out with men and get a new life started.

[Sugar100]

My mom through a tantrum n left the house

[Sugar100]

It feels I can’t live my life as now she’ll want live in my new tiny studio and stop renting her studio and me forever with her no man no sex no babies

[Jerre]

Try not to worry about your mom. Worry about yourself!

[Sugar100]

Just take care of her forever n my brother happy

[Sugar100]

Y she’s mad as I say my brother shud be the one taking care of her? He’s the one with the big house.

[slatyb]

Connect her with social services and move out.

[Jmmmfi4]

That's fucked up