My mother disowns me?

[Anonymous]

My mother has openly professed that she disowns me, but thinks she's entitled to a relationship with my children after she abused me as a child even into adulthood..

I need someone to explain

[TakingitEasy15243]

My relationship with my mom was equally as bad. When we stopped speaking she didn't allow me to speak with my brothers. One day you might speak to her again. As much as you dislike her you shouldn't let the relationship with your children to be destroyed. You only get one life and it'll be better with her in it for your children.

[Asker]

Why would I want an abusive parent in my life who is abusing me mentally emotionally physically and spiritually - she should get therapy and get right with God

[Asker]

My mother disowned me I didn't disown her - I want nothing to do with her she is the root of my childhood trauma

[TakingitEasy15243]

Trust me I feel your pain, I understand abuse and childhood trauma more than most. It's completely taken over my mental and I struggle with it to this day. Yes she's needs to get right with God without question. But what would God think about you keeping your children from your mother? We have to be right with God more than the evil people because we HOPE to be with the creator. If your children care for her and love her theirs your answer. If they hate her theirs your answer. Don't let your emotions dictate this. Everyone including us will die, try to be better than her.

[Asker]

Why would I want an abusive parent around my children who belittles and talks down to me in the front of my children - I don't want my kids exposed to her dysfunction and hate

[Asker]

I'm protecting my kids from harm her harm against me - evil and abusive people don't get access to me or my children

[TakingitEasy15243]

Look, once again I understand the pain and resentment. If you choose to go this route then fine but you'll be a reflection of her hatred and wrong. I gave my honest opinion and something I think God would ultimately want from you given how he lived while here. Good luck

[Asker]

She isn't safe to be around my kids and would only groom them to hate me as she's been trying to do

[Asker]

Don't bring God into this and use religious dogma to justify abusive toxic people

[Asker]

Maybe you should get therapy for thinking abusive people should have access in your life

[TonyMetal___86]

Your mother is a heartless being...
She's only a mother who brought you to this world but has no sense or logic about what a true mother is!

[Asker]

I agree 💯

[Anonymous]

You should definitely explain why you let a woman who’s abused and disowned you have any entitlement when it comes to your kids.

[Asker]

She's not entitled to my kids I restricted her and she's not understanding why

[Asker]

She can claim my children, but she won't have a relationship with them

[Opinion Owner]

Ok because it sounded like she gets rights to them and that would just be crazy. I would just cut her off completely.

[Asker]

I have rights over my children she doesn't and won't

[Asker]

I am going no contact with her

[jazzy34]

I’m very sorry. What has your relationship been like with her? Why is she disowning you?

[Asker]

My mother never raised me and abused me as a child even until now - she's a narcissist and she has bad relationships with my father

[jazzy34]

Alright then. Since that’s the case, cut her off completely. Make it clear to her that she does not have access to you or your children. If necessary, put a restraining order against her. Protect your peace and your family at all costs. Take care. 🙏🏽❤️

[Daytoday79]

Ughh