Would hating your neighbours be reason enough to sell your home and move elsewhere?

[thegreenyogi]

[NathanDavis]

hate is a very strong word... and it would take a whole lot for me to actually hate someone

but let's assume that it is such the case, and there's that much of a big issue for me to actually hate the entire situation because it is indeed, affecting me, lol

then, it would be about numbers, would it be one household of neighbors... two, three, more than four different households full of people I have to live with?

and, the closer they lived to me the worst it would all this be so, why does it have to be me moving out? maybe I would encourage them to be the ones who move out instead... lmao, is that an option?

[thegreenyogi]

Of course it is. A very smart move!!🤭

[NathanDavis]

lol... what about you? would you sell and move or just ignore them?

[thegreenyogi]

It depends on the circumstances but I would try to ignore and deal with it the best possible way. I'm not somebody that will typically run away and accept defeat especially if I love my home.

[NathanDavis]

well said... well, said

[tfan1]

Watch this 😛

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Cxo7o5Rv45I

[rosemilk]

no lol. it'll be hard to do anything in life if you just have to uproot your whole existence just because you don't like your... neighbor... because if you move, there's a chance you will also hate your new neighbor, or someone else will move in and you'll hate them... it's just ridiculous to think that your life will be better if you moved away from your crappy neighbor.

[Amy10223]

That depends on how serious the problem with your neighbors are. I have had neighbors that I was relieved had moved, because of loud music at music, and another half a baby that would wake up every night at 3:00am. The one I have upstairs where I live in a condo, sound like elephants when they walk.

Back in NJ I had a problem with an older woman who thought she owned the block. She had been there for 40 years or so, and was used to having her lawn maintenance men use my driveway, to get to her backyard. I'm not talking about walking on it. It was a long driveway and they used their ride on lawnmowers to get to a clearing where there were bushes and then go through there. I would come out to my backyard on the side of my kitchen, and there would be strange people in my backyard talking and making jokes, etc. I did tell them it was my property, and they laughed, and she of course would not hear of me complaining because she was used to having it that way with the older neighbors before me. So I decided to put up a fence all along the side of my backyard to eliminate that, and she tried to sue me for it. She said that the fence did not "allow the sunlight to get to her bushes and trees" and she called it a "spite" fence. The judge told her it was not as it if my fence (which was on my own property) was wrapped around her bushes. I said the fence was for more privacy, which it was, besides to stop the trespassing. I won the case when my lawyer said the latter. What a mess.

[SueShe]

It all depends on the reason for this hate.

If it is just because you don't like their character or their behavior, then no, it is not worth moving out. In that case, you would try to seek a conversation and try to figure out where the problem lies.

On the other hand, if that dislike is due because they have done something to you or your family, have tried to harm you or are mean and have deliberately caused conflicts, then I would definitely consider moving away from this toxic neighborhood.

It's the reason behind it that determines the action to take in this case.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for a neighborhood you can choose the house however you can’t choose your neighbors. As for moving it’s a part of life & one minute you may have good or great neighbors & bad the next or vice versa. I wouldn’t move if I liked the area & my neighbors can go pound sand.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s all relative.
My grandparents have lived next door to the same couple for 30 years, my grandparents believe based on nothing but the fact that they’re lesbians that their souls are damned and they’re going to hell. They haven’t moved, and honestly? Those lesbians are kinder to them than they deserve.

[Twodogs0525]

Absolutely, I watch a show called "fear thy Neighbor" and the problems between neighbors always ends in blood shed! Fortunately, I've always had good neighbors but if I didn't, it would suck because you have to deal with these people on a daily basis. @Beckybooboo You might like this question lol

[Beckybooboo]

Ha Ha... Yeah, one heated argument and I'm gone! I'll even leave the furniture behind 😂

[Nik1hil]

Yes, Especially if the Neighbours are Crazy, or Liberals or Time traveling from 1400 years ago!.

It's not Just Hate, But matter of Safety, when you don't share common Grounds with your Neighbour, It is a Potential Ground for Conflicts.. which can Escalate to Homicide & murder.

And Prevention is better than Cure, We humans are Nomads by Instincts and we need to Always be Ready to Sell and Move, to ensure our Safety and Survival..

[exitseven]

good question. There was a guy who built a house on the other side of the woods behind my house. It turns out he lived next door to a friend of mine, He lived there for many years but had a beef with the neighbor who lived on the other side. The situation got so bad that he decided to move. He bought the land behind me and had a new home built. Before the house was finished the guy he had the beef with moved out himself.

[Friendlybro79]

If it were really that bad I think it could be. I think this would need to be a really extreme reason. That would be a shame of course but if you felt unsafe or they were making it unbearable in a way that wasn't illegal, well, you only live once and deserve to be happy in your home.

[Anonymous]

Presumably you hate them because of something they're doing that ruins your experience living there, usually some kind of unbearable noise, in which case there is no choice but to move.

I once lived next door to someone who had their lawn mowed every single day, and I could not take the racket.

[DishLady]

"Hating" is a very strong word. I don't think I've ever felt that way about folks in my immediate neighborhood. I do have some annoying neighbors, but at the end of the day they're still ok.

[fantasticass]

Years ago my neighbor started dating a rapist released from jail. I sold my house and moved. He was very creepy, and the kids didn't like him either. So, we moved to a different city

[uzumymw]

If the reason for hating then is bullying or anything of the sorts it's probably enough to sue them or call the cops or them

I wouldn't move. I would start making their life hell

[ElenaSeluna]

If my neighbor is a problematic person and tends to target me, yeah I would move but I would rent my home not sell it😄

[Zack-Bann]

No.
That would be running away and backing down to a bully
I can’t do that


I’d stand my ground to the end

[LifeHitMeandRan]

Nope. I'd just make their lives hell until THEY left.

[queenofcardio]

No, that wouldn't be enough of a reason for me

[DryGermanGuy]

If you are in the same house with them, yeah, I can see that happening. I know a woman who did.

[slatyb]

It could be, but I think you will have a duty to warn potential buyers.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe. If I ever have to sell I am definitely selling all my properties and leaving California.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. I don't have patience for folks BS. I will end up murdering if they keep effing around with me.

I don't bother people so I expect the same in return.

[Phoenix98]

They'd have to be pretty horrendous neighbors for me to do that lol.

[douride2]

I have seen people sell & move for less then that.

[loveslongnails]

That would depend on how much you need to interact with them.

[AngryCarl3]

If I was considering moving it might be a factor.

[msc545]

No, I don't think so. I have some neighbors that I don't like, but I'm not about to sell my house over that

[dragoblack]

Nope. I would just ignore them unless they try something.

[Anonymous]

It would have to REALLY BAD for me to do that.

[Staximus]

Maybe. I would probably try to make them move out first

[Hagar88]

Depends what id causing the hate.

[HawkPerception]

It would definitely be a large factor

[Shiprex]

Not really. Just avoid them.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Depends how worse it is.

[Mike_Hum]

I guess. Depends on how bad they were.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Not unless they threatened violence.

[Agape93]

Nope

[White_Stain00]

Yes, it can be.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope

[AgentG111]

Nope.

[888theGreat]

Could be

[fish5505_87]

Probably not!

[qwerty2469]

Yes. Absolutely.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe!!!