Is my feelings valid or am I wrong?

[bbhhgirl]

I feel really sad and very upset. Me and my boyfriend now have a 9 month old baby and because of his teenage daughter who doesn’t like me which she leaves in June but still we basically can’t live with each other until then because she’ll be unhappy with me. So when I leave and have our baby with me I get really depressed and upset with him because nobody should have to have a child they didn’t make on their own by themselves. I don’t tell him I’m upset I just don’t talk to to him as much when I’m not there.

[Staximus]

I don't know why you would have a kid with some guy you don't live with. You should make better life decisions. He needs to be a man and not a bitch boy, and tell his daughter "sorry if you don't like it, but you're not in charge. Time to grow up and accept that your mom and I are done."

[bbhhgirl]

First off we did love each other but I moved out because his daughter made everything awkward and it caused us issues and I was tired of it.

[bowenw]

You cannot help how you feel and should not feel bad for how you feel. It is normal to want to be with your boyfriend. Explain to him how you feel. Hopefully the time will go quickly so it will be June soon and you can be with him all the time.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
All the best to you.

[jahaims]

You are immature and don't know how to communicate. You got with a guy that has a kid half your age. When you make stupid choices you get negative consequences.

[bbhhgirl]

Shut up

[fish5505_87]

You need to express this to him, your boyfriend as stated by the last post, needs to lay some ground rules down with his daughter. Family therapy might be a good avenue if you have insurance.