Are my feelings valid?

Your feelings are always valid. But that doesn't mean you aren't over reacting.
He should be honest and say he likes the videos. Almost all guys watch porn. Almost no guys like to comment on dancing.
If I were you, I'd rather he watch tiktoks than message other women. One one hand, he should be honest with you and say he likes the videos. But on the other hand, I kind of don't blame him for trying to play it off.
My sister found my porn once. She came up and asked me about it. I said it was a virus, that bookmarkd a bunch of porn in a hidden bookmark folder. She obviously didn't believe me. It obviously wasn't true... But it's like, I wouldn't lie if you weren't going to flip out on me for being normal.
Years later, I saw my sister watching porn. I had the decency to not say anything and pretend I didn't.
That's honestly the right reaction.
The actual pope liked a semi provocative Instagram photo of a hot girl in a bikini, people lost their minds, and his response was basically "All people are beautiful, love everyone, God bless"
And I was just like, good answer.
I don't think it's something you should be concerned about.
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