Why does everyone hate me?

[Anonymous]

No one likes me and I can’t stop being bullied. How can I live like this? I am being myself and trying to improve.

[RandomGirl42]

It doesn't really matter why. It matters what you do about it. I really hope u find support and understanding but I have found asking about serious concerns such as bullying and low self-esteem on social media sites is usually not the best place to get help.

[Asker]

Ok but some people think I could never have kids or date a neurotypical guy because of my mild intellectual disability and call my mental age like a child and a guy shouldn’t date that. Are they wrong for saying that?

[RandomGirl42]

People say a lot of things but I don't believe it matters who is right or wrong. It matters how we live our life.

[RHK36]

The only opinion that matters is your own. Improve yourself. Consistency and accountability are key. Focus on yourself and you'll attract the right people. Stop focusing on negativity because it doesn't do anyone any good. Don't complain too much because it'll rewire your brain and make those negative thoughts reality. Instead maintain a positive outlook to make those reality.

[OneViewpoint]

What are the odds that "everyone hates you" and you have no responsibility for any of it? Go have your pity party somewhere else until you are ready for some introspective thought and a little accountability.

[Asker]

They do they told me to my face and my disability is part of why and calls me names and don’t want to be around me.

[OneViewpoint]

OK, more information is good. What disability? Who is calling you names and shunning you. That's not a behavior I see very often from the majority of people.

[Asker]

The disability is mild intellectual disability and people that are calling me names are my own family and acquaintances. They say I should never have children or a guy that is normal won’t be able to put up with me because they say I have a mind of a child. I don’t know why they are like that and it makes me depressed and makes me reconsider my life. I don’t know what to do.

[OneViewpoint]

OK, now we're getting somewhere. Your family and acquaintances sound like assholes. Your writing seems to indicate you can compose complete sentences and communicate your ideas effectively and quickly. You aren't THAT impaired. Maybe you just need some new friends and a little belief in yourself. LOL, some men may find your child like mind a refreshing change from the usual cynicism and nastiness of "normal" people these days.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So everyone you have ever met, even total strangers hate you?

[Asker]

Yep they do. They do not want to talk to me and think that I am mentally challenged.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

How much do you want to bet you just hate yourself and project it outwards?

[Asker]

I don’t hate myself. People have actually said those things to me and it makes me upset. I’m not making this up.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So someone you don’t know, have zero connections to, and you have never spoken to before just randomly came up to you out of nowhere to tell you that they think you’re the scum of the earth and you should kill yourself in public?

[Asker]

They didn’t say I should kill myself they just said they think I’m cognitive impaired and say that no normal guy would want to date me and I’m like a child and they say I should never have kids

[Asker]

What do you think about that?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think you’re lying, because that’s extremely unlikely to happen

[Asker]

No I’m telling the truth. My boyfriend said he thinks I’m mentally challenged because of my disability and some people on other forums said I had a mind of a child. I’m not kidding.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So it wasn’t in public, it was online. You have a boyfriend, so clearly he loves you, which takes away from the whole “everyone I’ve ever met hates me” argument

[Asker]

Even my boyfriend says those things to me too. I don’t know if he says it out of anger but he says I act like a child and that he thinks I’m cognitive impaired. So strange

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

…I’m starting to see why people dislike you

[Asker]

Yeah but my boyfriend really said that I’m not making this up. Why would he be like this?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe it’s because you’re as egotistical and selfish as a child

[888theGreat]

What do they tell you?

[Asker]

They tell me that I have a mind of a child and retarded.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Have they said why?

[Asker]

They just said they think I’m cognitive impaired and say that no normal guy would want to date me and I’m like a child and they say I should never have kids

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well I think they are just being assholes, it's not worth associating with people like that

[Asker]

You are right!

[ChicoFromThe305]

👍🏼👍🏼

[Jeff51]

I dont.

[Asker]

You don’t even know me

[Jeff51]

Its ok. I don't hate people