I can't describe the situation without people saying I'm cocky or what not.
It's not like that AT ALL.
Because when I'm high people want to lower me.
When I'm low people say I should be high
Is it really me?
Or are all people really fucking shitty human beings
*only serious inquires**
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Not enough information to provide a good answer. Make an analysis. Grab a paper and pencil and draw two columns. On the left, write one of your actions or behaviors in one row, another action / behavior in the next row, etc. And on the right, write how people reacted or behaved. And see if you can find any patterns, relations, anything that stands out. Maybe go onto some professional psychology or health sites to search for more information on that. Listen to podcasts. There are plenty of resources.
“I literally have to work 10xs harder than everyone else….”
Everyone else?
Shit like this makes people not like you.
Why because I'm slow?
No. Because you minimize their efforts by declaring that nobody works as hard as you do.
Ew that's not what I meant.
I clarified with you that I'm slow. I'm a very slow learner. and many people who I work and learn with make fun of me because of that. I wish I was like everyone else who grasp things faster. In no way shape or form am i minimizing anyone's effort. I'm big on team work. And I congratulate others. I dont understand how it always becomes a "me" problem
Prime example lol
I can definitely understand what it’s like to come across differently than you meant to. In high school, I was always in told I came across as a snob. In reality, it was social anxiety. 🙄
You might want to consider the words you choose to express yourself. If multiple people come away with the impression that you are cocky, you are obviously doing something to contribute to that impression.
If you really want to understand, I’d say pay close attention to how YOU are interacting with the people around you. Maybe you’ll notice something you haven’t before.
Assuming you work with adults, nobody should be making fun of anybody. That’s not acceptable in any setting, especially a work setting.
That's the same thing with me. I just ignore idiots. They get jealous that I have it easy in life. But I dont have the time to waste with them.
I dont think my life is easy. Nothing gets handed to me much. I literally have to work 10xs harder than everyone else considering I have a learning disability