Is it wrong that I dislike my brother’s in-laws and just want my own family?

[Sugar100]

I’m 28, and I never had a boyfriend so I never experienced attending holidays functions with a boyfriend and his family.
so whole life I continue have to go to my brothers wife’s family functions. Be with his wife’s sisters and her sisters husbands and kids and me alone. No partner. Almost 30 no baby nothing still living with parents as no guy loves me and wants marry me.

His wife and sisters aren’t in my life, they don’t want be friends, they just like to gossip and be friends with their sisters only. Care of their own lives only. We don’t text. We don’t give eachother gifts.
my brothers wife gets jealous if my brother tries talk or sit next to me and only wants him with her family and make him avoid he with me and my mom and dad.

I wish I was apart of a bfs family and they love me and im part of their life 😔

[ohsheeT]

Ok so for what ever reason you dis like them sorry about that

But that's not going to get you what you are looking for


Everything on this planet vibrates everything on this planet is energy when you speak your words you are telling yourself something that goes up into your mind you're bringing your heart and you start to believe it and that's the way you live your life and project your energy


I don't know how exactly long it's been but I know for at least 3 years you have been projecting the same energy

Nobody loves me nobody wants me I will never have a boyfriend I will never have a child over and over and over you say those words out loud you save them on here over and over so in your subconscious you are programming yourself every time that you say that every time that you say it out loud you are making yourself believe something and become that something

If you want something different you have to do something different what programming yourself quit believing that quit even saying it

Instead say something like okay look there's a reason why I haven't met anybody there's a reason why I don't have a boyfriend there's a reason why I'm not married and I accept that now it's time to move past that when it happens it will happen but I am going to release it off from my mind my body my heart my spirit my soul and quit thinking about it I'm only going to have positive thoughts

And start living your life happy everyday become happier Leave the Past behind you leave all that behind you just live for today be a smart ass and say ooh look at that boy I like him just whatever but do not think about relationship or marriage or anything like that let it go because the more that you hold on to that all those negative energies inside of you that you have spoke for the last past 3 years are going to happen so get rid of it out of your system do something sexy do something hot do something naughty do something you wouldn't usually do

To get you out of that negative mindset experience something new like I said bring in a new world bring in something naughty have phone sex like I said change it somehow

I've been trying to tell you this forever so every time I hear now I'm going to give you a hard time about it say nope that's not working just stop saying what you're saying and change it let it go first do something crazy bring something else into that you can think about and things will start happening but it's going to take a little time and the more you dwell on things it's longer time it's going to take

[slatyb]

You are an adult. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.

[Nikki1989]

You are not obligated to like anyone.

[eagle1951]

not really

[Sugar100]

Not bad?

[Sugar100]

I don’t feel my brothers wife’s family like my family. It feels like it’s his family. I want my own family 😔 and wonder when it will come true.

Also is it normal for a sister in law to be jealous if I want talk sit by my brother?
She wants him for her family and makes him distant from us his own family.
they r my enemies.