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Should I disown my family?

I am 21 female and my family was an odd, family It is easy to say I'm the black sheep. to someone looking in, they would be nice as pie then the second they leave the room they would slag them off, I wasn't able to go out after 7 pm when up until I moved out at 20 And if I was already out I had to be home at 9 pm or I was terrified of going home. So up to the present day I am no longer living even close to them, other friends and family who have seen the side of them are telling me my mum is a control freak. So I live in a very old but well known place and they come to visit from time to time and when I see them all hell breaks loose I get slay little remakes like I have since I was a kid. So stressful and I went through a bit of a bad break up but I live in a shared house with my ex and his dad and a really close friend but my mum told me if I got with my new partner she would break my legs and that's not a joke she probably would try. And I really like this person but she's never met him and hates him just because he's older than me but she got pregnant at 15 with my older sister with someone 27 years older than her so she can't really say much. I would just cut my mum off but I couldn't she would turn my dad, Nana's and little sister (not really that little or young she's 20 in September) but I have no freedom even tho I don't live with them (nana can be the same)
Should I disown my family?
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