How would you feel if you found out that your daughter was doing OnlyFans?

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What do you think your reaction would be? What would you say to her? Or would you disown her?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

OF is one of the greatest scourges of the 21st century. I HATE hate hate it. Because it’s enabled 100s of thousands of women who would never do porn otherwise to prostate themselves and not have any real “skin” in the game. Pun intended. It’s extremely anti feminist too. Instead of doing legitimate work like men do all these worthless hoes can make a quick and easy buck taking their clothes off

It’s beyond pathetic how many millions of men have enabled this. You can watch porn for free or get an escort for the real thing. But OnlyFans you are paying money and don’t get to do anything. It’s the worst of both worlds for pathetic men and the best of both for lazy ass women.

EzraIsShy76028 · Accepted Answer

Pretty bad but at the same time I know if she really wants to do it she'll do it anyway regardless of what I do or say. The day she turns 18 and moves out of the house is the day I lose control of her legally. Same applies to if it was my son doing something stupid.

HawkPerception · Answer

It's insane how many women say they would embrace it. This is why you need men in society. We're more logical and know the difference something to be proud of and something considered a disgrace.

For me, it would be a hard hit for me. I plan on home schooling my kids and part of that education would be how porn and OF is basically selling your self respect and your parents pride. It's an insult to your parents. If you choose to have kids in the future, it affects them as well because anyone can find your nude self online. Kids who have mothers on OF get bullied damn hard once it's known and there are cases where they commit suicide.

The vast majority of women who go into it regret it and want it removed from the internet later once they're done with it. Examples are Mia Khalifa, Lana Rhoades, and Riley Reid (a quick Google search showed that). They publically stated they want all their content removed from the internet. It's almost like actions have consequences. These women have zero accountability. Did they not know what they were signing up for?

You also lose a lot of value in the dating market to attract men that have any self respect at all. No self respecting man wants to be with a girl who's shown everyone the goods, and is the "village bicycle."

I would be utterly devastated, and think of myself as a failure of a parent, and I'd disown my kid. Love is not unconditional. Not even with kids.

ohsheeT · Answer

I have a daughter and a son and the way that they were raised they know that they can come to me and talk to me about anything in this world they also know that I'm not going to judge them they made a choice and now they have to live with it either they learn before they live with it are they learn as they're living with it and they will adjust or adapt to whatever it is that they're doing I would never disown my kids ever it doesn't matter what it's about I would never and they know that they know that if something happens I will be right there with my hand out picking them up and if it happens again I will do the same thing put my hands up and help them but if it happens to third time they're going to have to get up on their own

lilBigPotato · Answer

I don't know. On one side I'd be disappointed if she didn't tell her myself and I found out by chance or through someone else. On the other side, if it's something she really thought through and wants to do, I'll support her. But the vast majority of people doing OF don't make much money and throw their reputation out if the window for not much in return. If I ever have kids, I just want them to trust me and ask me for guidance and then whatever the decision is I'll try to support them to be happy.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Honestly, I would be more sad than angry and wonder where did my wife and I go wrong.. I wouldn't disown her though.. I come from an already fairly unhealthy family dynamic unfortunately.. I would just make sure she knows the fear of the Lord..

Lliam · Answer

I would punish her with a hard, bare-ass hand spanking and fucking. (Just kidding. I was picturing a porn script)

I would be shocked. But it's better than being into hard drugs or having promiscuous sex with lots of guys, or being trans or mutilating her body. At least she's heterosexual and is comfortable in her own skin.

I don't consider it prostitution unless she is having physical sex for money. Stripping and masturbation isn't prostitution even if it is exhibitionist. OF is just visual, and it's possible to remain anonymous. It's kind of harmless like before internet when women could do phone sex on toll numbers and get paid per minute.

Sexuality only upsets religious people.

Young people experiment with all kinds of things. They learn their lessons and grow out of it.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I would not be happy, but it’s her right if she’s over 18. I would not disown her. I would still love her.

Abbycado · Answer

I would not be happy about it. like 95% or something don't make money anyhow, I read. So it isn't worth it in my opinion.

_Jenny_ · Answer

I’m not sure because I used to have an onlyfans account myself. But I don’t have a daughter so it’s really irrelevant

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Tell her to take that shit down.. but luckily my kids have religion so I doubt they will do anything so stupid since they don't even like to wear shorts.. plus we make fun of women who dress provocative, since shame is needed in society to keep people in line.

xawyx-3 · Answer

If I had a daughter, she would be a martial artist, so I don't think she would be interested in OnlyFans.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for me I would be Really Fucking Surprised because I didn’t even know I had a daughter. On the other side of things if I found out she was doing OnlyFans as long as she is legal I wouldn’t care & hopefully she pays for her college & the rent I’ll start charging.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I'd be disappointed and worried that she was setting herself up for a huge fall later in life by wasting her prime years on easy money rather than getting her life and career on track. But I'm certainly not disowning her or anything. As others have noted here, if she's an adult, she gets to choose her path. Like it or not, I cannot control her choices.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Love my daughter, but I would be pissed. I wouldn't disown her, but we certainly would lose any support from me and it would seriously strain our relationship going forward.

Keithscatch · Answer

I would feel like I failed her as her dad. That I did not instill enough virtue and morals in a Christian home in her. That maybe I myself did not live the talk enough for her to have a genuine fear of God. it would break my heart and I would never support it. I would pray for her salvation and return to Jesus.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I'd blame myself more than I'd be upset with her because I failed as a father.

Nik1hil · Answer

I wouldn't be happy about it.

But as long as she is in Control and in her comfort zone!.. I will learn to be okay with it..

I know how evil and hard this world is and I won't judge my Daughter to take the Easy way out...

However, I will try to make her financially responsible and give her a house of her own, so she doesn't needs to resort to such ways in the first place. Her doing this is not her failure but mine 😔

FreyaRed · Answer

I would wish her lack and success because she will definitely need it because she will be excluded in testament,

aceleon · Answer

disown her at the spot. i didn't raise a prostitude.

Anonymous · Answer

That depends. How smart is she? And how much is she making?

I mean yeah, she's a wh*re. There's no two ways about that. But if she's really dumb and she's making bank you can't fault her for making use of her, "talents". But that goes next level. What is she doing with her income is ahe investing it. Like some dumb dunt! Like a professional athlete you only have so many years you can do that. And there's always a new furburger waiting in the wings.

Jewelmyth · Answer

I think I would be angry at myself for not being able to teach him anything.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Firstly disappointment that we didn't raise her properly to have more self dignity, then try to get her to stop. If she persists I'd disown her.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Obviously hurt but my kid will grow up to highly respect herself so most likely won't happen she becomes a whore and showing her nude body to strangers for money.

Eiram5 · Answer

I’d be in jail because if I had a child, it would be CP.

fantasticass · Answer

If my daughter lived at home, then we have a problem. However, if she lives on her own at a different address, then she can do whatever she wants. They know the danger, but refuse to accept it.

Anonymous · Answer

I think people who don't have a lot of money in their family and have a pretty daughter can assume these days she's doing OnlyFans or Chaturbate or something.

postaldudePL123 · Answer

I definitely wouldn't encourage it. If she's an adult, I can't stop her, but I would certainly advise against it.

I'm an antinatalist, by the way. But let's say, hypothetically, I were still to have kids I would make sure I had enough financial resources so they wouldn't have to make such choices!

Smashingdoozy · Answer

I have absolutely nothing against it if its just an interim thing. Getting some extra cash to do something special. I would have failed as a parent if thats what their goal was in life

fishbone77 · Answer

She wouldn't be. I'm my daughter's dad and I'm involved in their life.

DragonDan444 · Answer

I don’t have a daughter so I don’t know what I would do. When you have kids they have free will but I’m sure I would be disappointed

Anonymous · Answer

I would try to understand why she felt the need to do that. Also I would be worried why I found out instead of her telling me.

Taranis_Thunor · Answer

I'd destroy all of her computers. Phones, PC's, the whole lot. If I had a daughter ideally she wouldn't be living separate from me until she got married.

lunabtrous · Answer

i won't support it at all actually i would abandon her

Agape93 · Answer

Long as she's 18 when she starts it, I dont give a shit

loveyouoak · Answer

If she was making a lot of money from OnlyFans, I wouldn't care. Because these days, without money, you're nothing and useless.

dragoblack · Answer

I wouldn't care as long as she is being safe and keeping her identity anonymous.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

My first reaction would be surprise that I had a daughter. I wouldn't enable her, that is for damn sure.

elizamichale1 · Answer

If i had a daughter n she did it i wouldn't mind

MrChinaski · Answer

I don't think it would be a good life choice. But it's her life.

Kelly6 · Answer

Depends on her age. If she's adult, then it's her choice

Eempriyanka · Answer

I would delete whatever filth she did.. Ask her to do something to ask for forgiveness

Mark_Est · Answer

Totally would kick her out.

Miristheiss · Answer

I would disown her.

Huntsempire · Answer

First how old? If she 18 I’m gonna let her know to be careful and support her and hope she find her sexual identity

Anonymous · Answer

Not my daughter anymore

kinks1951 · Answer

It is her life to live,

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

Talk to her about leaving it.

Darthskywalker6969 · Answer

I'd be disappointed

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