What would you do if you found out your 18yo daughter is doing OnlyFans from inside your house?

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If the day after your daughter's 18th birthday, you discovered she set up an OnlyFans account and started livestreaming erotic shows from her bedroom in your house, what would you do?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Lmao this a min by min hard question because every time I read one of your options, I thought about it for a second, And after I got to the very end I said wow. I would have done the very end one first.
The next one I would have told her she could stay as long as she deleted her onlyfans. I thought about the ones where she had to contribute are pay a percentage but that's not teaching her anything good right there and two wrongs don't make a right.. And then I would have said how come I spent all this money on College and you want to do this. And then I would explain to her look I can't tell you what to do. Or what not to do. It has to be your choice I would rather you not do it. for so many different reasons. And it would be hard for me to accept you doing it. So I would ask her just think a out it for a half an hour or so and then I would like to know what she decided to do.. and in half an hour if she told me she wasn't going to do it I would give her the biggest longest hug ever and tell her I love her and I'm proud of her. And then if she told me that she was going to do it I would just look deep into her eyes I would walk towards her how to put my arms around her and I would say okay like I said it's your choice and I would try to Guilt Trip her and say so this is who you choose to be in life it's okay I don't have to like it I don't have to respect it but like I told you earlier than life I will always be there for you no matter what. I would squeeze her to death LOL hold her tight and I would just say I love you and I would walk away and I'd walk out the door and if I did not hear from her within five minutes I would go back in and say hey how about this. I know something do you might want to take a look into if you're going to do something that everybody can see you then why don't you do it like this and I would explain and there's another way to make ten times more the money not showing any parts of your body naked you just have to talk to your camera is if you talking to one guy and you have to kind of flirt if the lesser of two evils so I guess but I've explained to her what it is and let her make that choice I think she would do the option that I was talking about I would hope anyway I have two kids a daughter and a son. I have never yelled at them I've never hit them I've been a little bit angry at them but nothing out of control because no matter what that's a teaching point but I've always let them make their own choices knowing the outcomes I've never had to discipline them or put them on restriction are restricted from anyting because that's holding them back that's how we all learn is to experience Explorer make the wrong choices make the right choices

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

First thing I'd do is cancel any mobile contract I'm paying for and change the WiFi password. I wouldn't throw her out any more than if I found out my son was downloading porn. But I'm not going to finance it.

My son's only 3 so I've got a few years before I'll be dealing with sex stuff (I hope). I'm doing what I can to raise him to be a good, strong and respectful man in every area of his life. Frankly if I can be half the father my dad was to me I'll be happy.

But he's my son. I'll never abandon him. Just like if I had a daughter I wouldn't abandon her. But if I found out she was prostituting herself online (or if my son was for that matter) I'd want to sit down and talk about it. I'd be very upset that my child thought so little of themselves.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If I could I'd make her stop. I want her to build up marketable skills that don't include making men (many of whom would be WAY, WAY too old for her) horny and allowing them to view her as little more than a sexual object they are owed as a result of their money. Moreover, she's a lot less likely to get in an actual relationship with a great guy who is good for her if she's doing only fans. The kinds of guys who do that are often not the kind you'll want your daughter to date and/or marry.

I'm sorry if this is offensive to some, but I'm just being honest. I love my daughters too much to just be OK with them having an OnlyFans account. I'd be OK with some woman I don't care about making money off of OnlyFans, but not my daughters.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd still love them. What they do after 18 is not any of our business. It's their decision, & their body. And at least I'd know my child is SAFE... I wouldn't judge them for doing what they enjoy. Also, you aren't entitled to ANY of their profits from onlyfans, so that's a dumb answer. I mean yeah, charge rent. But not 50% of what they make. That's silly.

truthmatters716 · Answer

I would support it 100% for the following reasons
1. I watch porn like every other man on earth so it’s hypocritical to not support it
2. Thankfully society is moving towards the opinion that 18 year old girls deserve the right to do things like this if they choose, which i am so grateful for. The world is so much better when you have as many beautiful young 18 year old girls with tight bodies becoming whores
3. I can’t wait to have a daughter, I will be the best dad and bring her up as best as i can because your kids deserve nothing less, but if one day my daughter tells me she’s decided to enjoy her life by having as much sex as she can with as many men as she can, or she’s going to go into porn and spread her legs on camera for the whole world to see, then i will tell her that she’s made the right decision and i am so proud of her.
Women deserve to chose how they live their life, men should support whatever they decide and if they get the chance then they should encourage their daughters, wives, friends etc to be total whores
4. The best way for a girl (over the age of 18) to be truly happy is to give up all self respect and become a whore for men. She will love nothing more than the feeling of how turned on she gets when she is treated gently, with total respect and love in public and then degraded and fucked like a worthless slut by men who don’t give a shit about her. If anyone is interested in hearing more of my opinions then let me know

Kaneki05 · Answer

She's 18, she has free will to use her body for lewd acts. Therefore i wouldn't do anything.
Obviously if it became a viable job which i don't think it would tbh, to many people doing it likely hood of it getting big for her not so much, i would then say well you have a job now, so rent time.
If she wants to work as a stripper or something that's fine by me too, her life. I would raise her to know how to be safe ages before this anyway and taught her to always think about consequences beforehand. Then choose within your own judgement. If she chooses wrong that's a learning process for her.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Both me and my ex wife would ask what she was doing and why she felt she needed to.

she's 18 and her choices in life, we can advise but everyone has their own life to live.

it definitely does not mean we suddenly stop loving her and kick her out, that is just some seriously nasty stuff and these types should not be allowed to be parents.

The key concerns would be she’s not being coerced, no blackmail, no threats etc, that she is doing of her own free will and that there is no underlying mental health issues she is coping with.

After that it’s her safety and well being.

being there for her at all times no matter what it is.

CHadwww · Answer

I'd talk to her about finding a job that doesn't need her to prove herself, and I'd introduce her to employers I've worked with in the past.

I'd toss her out if she didn't comply, because I'd never raise a child to believe it's okay to be an internet prostitute and make her feel like she's only good at being exploited online as a sex object by desperate losers.
But I'm not sure how I'd feel about abandoning my own child. I'd just give her enough money to rent an apartment for a month and let her do her thing there, and if it doesn't work out financially, we'll talk about finding her work.

Dragonpurple · Answer

I told my daughter leading up to her 18th birthday that her choices would be her own, she'd have to live with the consequences. I also asked her not to do anything I don't approve of in the house.

Please respect that, but as she is an adult if she wanted to do it somewhere else. That would be her choice.

My parents asked all of us kids the same thing, please don't have sex in the house or disrespect it. Even though that just meant going out to the field and doing it there... but at least it was respecting my parents wishes and their house.

If my daughter did that, I would let her know she violated the rules and that would be the only warning... next time she'll have to move out, because she doesn't respect us.

Even so, I'd always be there for her.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I honestly don't care what my adult daughter does with her body but I won't be having random strangers she met online come into the house. I personally hate the thought of Onlyfan but unfortunately it would be hypothetical to shame women because they literally live in a world where there physical appearance tend to judge the most and those video girls do get good payed.

But doesn't mean I have to be happy with the thought but considering I regularly watch porn, which is literally just about naked women that would be hypothetical to entirely judge my daughter job. And no I don't need rent money if I am really desperate for cash I just work for it like my daughter but I definitely wouldn't do the sort of job my little girl is into though.

What would you do if you found out your 18yo daughter is doing OnlyFans from inside your house?

Ninani · Answer

I'd have a talk with her about the consequences of uploading certain material online and how to at least be more safe about it if she wants to continue.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I mean, eh...

It's work and if she feels comfortable enough with her body then fine as long as she is over age of consent. If I start seeing gifts come to the house though I am ending that REAL quick. I don't care if she wants to do the work, but I am not having strangers show up to my door like that.

I also don't need rent or anything like that. I am not trying to take a cut of her money she earned, especially if it involves her body like that.

dragoblack · Answer

Honestly, i would sit and talk with her to find out how old the account is (for obvious legal reasons), ask her to let us know when she is starting, so we can avoid hearing anything, make sure she isn't using her real name, help sound proof her room, and let her know even though I am uncomfortable with the idea if her doing it, as long as she is being safe about it and making it to where people can't find or identify her, she can do what she wants... but she will have to pay rent and make sure she uses a VPN when streaming and using the site

Miristheiss · Answer

If she is doing nudes and sexual stuff. I'd kick her out and I'd no longer have any contact or relationship with her.

If a girlfriend were doing that (when single) I would have broken up immediately.

If my wife did that I'd immediately see a lawyer and begin divorce proceedings.

jshm2 · Answer

Hypothetical of course.

But I would be going to Dignitas, as I am clearly losing mental faculties in not knowing what is going on in my own house and what people are up to.

I mean, even a crack house owner knows what is going on in their place.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Gotta get this dude in to save the day…

tatianamay · Answer

She will delete that godawful account of hers. She will not be allowed to do all these sorts of things in my house. My house, my rules. Don't give a fuck even if she's an adult.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

I don't want her doing that at the house but I don't want her doing it anywhere else even more. At least at the house it's a familiar environment and I know where she is. Thats safer than if she tried to do it somewhere else alone.

If I can't convince her to stop I'd recommend she keep her face covered at least, but at 18 she should mostly be deciding things for herself now.

Angie221994 · Answer

All these guys saying that this stuff has no room in their home yet they watch porn... where someone else’s daughter is in that porn. 🤔 Oh, the hypocrisy.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

I would demand much higher rent. 30% of her OF income.

Jay3344 · Answer

I would discuss with her why she felt she needed to be on that site. Get her opinion and try and have a productive conversation about privacy and intimacy, or exploiting ones body for money. I would hope a daughter of mine would have a conscious reason for doing something like that and would be able to articulate the series of decisions that lead to onlyfans.

nowrinklebrain · Answer

I'd do none of those things and this would never happen in the first place because

1. I wouldn't have any children or
2. If I did have children, I'd raise them to have self-respect and not rely on sex work for a source of income.

ChiPaPa · Answer

This

Guardian45 · Answer

I agree. NOT in my house. So there would be a frank convo.

t-8900 · Answer

i'd take out my failing as a parent on myself and let her do what she wants but close myself off to her

BlackSkinSex69 · Answer

Being a Black man such as Myself, I do not have this problem. My only suggestion is to teach her that the Black man is so great at sex that she cannot even possibly handle His presence without her loins beginning to froth… this would surely work the best. Also, make sure that you also teach her that the Black man is so sex that she must search for Him on her quest to find the real domination she has so seeketh. Also, give her money. Also, give me money. This should work.

Nomina · Answer

I would tell her to delete it immediately and seems like I would have to do a better job at instilling certain values in my children if it gets to that point.

Spookydood · Answer

Id say it's likely not a good choice to make, and probably bad for your mental state, but by 18 you're gonna make your own choices. Rents due by Friday.

genericname85 · Answer

tell them to move out or delete their onlyfans. they are 18 and can do what they like. but since they are 18, they are not entiteled to live in my house anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't have a daughter so I'd be excited to get an early peek at her curves

Rachelspiks · Answer

I would ask her, "Hey, can I join in? Seems like fun".

Kicks98 · Answer

She can have her own money  But i prefer if she would continue due Don't show her face And give me at least 25 percentage

fonduegirl · Answer

I'd forcefully delete the account. You see, hookup culture is okay. Safe sex is a straight yes yes. Abortion is fantastic. Revealing clothes are cool too. Onlyfans... Nope

boobliker · Answer

good on her be safe is what I would say, so better at home than some other place.

PAcc92 · Answer

I'm not funding a whore, and I'm not taking a cut from her whore earnings. By whoring herself she has admitted she has no value as a human being.

Interstate · Answer

If she is hard up for a roof over her head, she won't argue.

blended_ninja · Answer

I wouldn't let her have sex in the house, and I'd charge her rent.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

As long as she contributes to giving the household money she earned on that App it would be fine and she can't meet any guys at the house

J2ohhhhh · Answer

Would it be exploitation if I subtly mention that it ain't cheap to maintain a house and contributions are highly appreciated and welcome?

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Don't make too much noise, and no bringing in guys into my house.  Girls allowed.

20yearsolder · Answer

That shit ain't happening in my house

noohair · Answer

If she is working she needs to contribute money to the household. You can save that money for her until she has enough to move out. Then she is on her own.

corny_cooter581 · Answer

I'd be a bit disappointed but ik it's an easy way to make money so I wouldn't care.

siseñor · Answer

by decree i'd have to sacrifice her to restore the honri imbalance of nature

Anonymous · Answer

Make her believe you're starting an OnlyFans too, share the account on her feed, see how she will feel LOL

Quigly · Answer

Get a router with parental controls if you don't already have one. Set up parental controls on the router to block access to that website.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Tell her to take it down and if she refused I would kick her out because since she wants to be grown she can have her own house

Pillarofhell · Answer

30% of females and 20% of males on here would be epimps for their daughter 😂

Anonymous · Answer

She's technically an adult now, so I can't tell her not to. But she better be giving rent money to me and I am going to keep a close eye on her earnings. If she gets to a point where she could easily live independently I'm going to ask her to leave.

Rangers · Answer

Take her phone away and don't give her a new one until she's 21

TallAnon · Answer

Delete it or you're going to have to find another place to live within the week.

Nazgol · Answer

Would get really mad at her and tell her to stop immediately or else she'll no longer be considered as a daughter to me

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'd express to her this isn't something she should be doing but at 18 she's grown what can you do

PSYLVR69 · Answer

I'd slowly hint a question about incest to her and see what she would say. if its a good response I would hint that someone in her family likes what they see and would like an in person experience...

Anonymous · Answer

Tell her to get a real job? And read up on the news because only fans isn’t allowing that soon

TheAfrikan · Answer

I would be mad About it, Icannot entertain such behaviours.

Iron_Man · Answer

Then I will take her out the house I don’t have whores in my house

PenkWing · Answer

I don’t get it. Why is none of the answers “I acknowledge and I offer my support”? Should I either profit personally or react with anger? 😕

Cutiepiee · Answer

i wouldn't say anything but i would be very disappointed 🙁

GoldenCage · Answer

I'd be glad I dont have kids

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

She's can't live in my house and engage in such activity. Either she quits or she has to go.

Anonymous · Answer

If she wants to do a job that provides nothing of value to society, she can do it outside of my house.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

I would think "where did I go wrong in raising my daughter"

rapfan107 · Answer

Id feel like i fail as a parent !! Id be extremely dissapointed and i won't tolerate that in my house

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