Why is my taken manager acting so flirty and confusing with me?

[Anonymous]

I met him at a cafe and he brought me the coffee and it was so unexpected.. because we had an argument the day before he waited for me and drove me some days after this again we argued a little and he told me don’t be upset with me let’s met in the morning for cafe (i didn’t go lol I had a different schedule ) when I didn’t go he told me”I waited for you like a stupid” one morning again we met out nowhere and I was also very late I told him and he said “just leave at the time the schedule says” I was so in shock I don't know this man drives me crazy because he is taken and acting like this 💔💔

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If my boyfriend would’ve bought coffee for some girl I would’ve lost my mind tbh

[HollyK21]

I don’t want to sound discouraging or whatever by saying the examples you provided don’t sound flirtatious or anything of the sort, I’m sure there are other things that have happened. But if we play devils advocate and say you are correct about him being flirty, I’d tell you that “nice” guy does not always equate to “good” partner. You can be nice and all that as a person yet be shitty as a partner, and that’s for sure what he is if he is hitting on other women aside from his girlfriend/wife. You say you’d lose your shit if your man bought another woman a coffee (which I think is a bit excessive and insecure), but she may not even know he did that. That’s how cheaters get away with so much, because they do it when their partner wouldn’t know.

[Nikki1989]

This doesn't sound flirty or confusing.

[melnc]

Putting the question aside.. you're definitely kinda into him and probably don't even see it.

[Anonymous]

What is a taken manager? The manager of the taken department?

[Anonymous]

That's his personality