Why do I feel so worthless and unloved at 21 despite everything?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I am worthless; truly worthless. I have no human worth; I do not even have the value of an object. If you were to place me somewhere as a flowerpot, I would have no value even then.
I’ll be turning 21 in December. I’ve never had a male best friend. I’ve always hated guys who were friends with girls—because they could be friends with them, whereas I was treated like an animal; and even an animal has a certain value.
None of the men I loved and valued ever loved, valued, or respected me; they didn't want me and cast me out of their lives.
I never got to experience the excitement of being a young girl; a huge part of my life was stolen from me, while those who stole it simply went on with their own lives as if nothing had happened. I was the one who paid the price; I was condemned to a life filled with my own pain and forced to carry this wound forever.

[MrChinaski]

I can't pretend to know your life experience. You are valuable. Maybe there are resources you can connect with that will help you on a path to a happier future, counsellors, etc. Many find their GP is a good first person to talk to.

[DonaldDarko]

Why on earth would you put such value on the attention of men? Do you think with your female parts? I avoid women because it gives me peace.

[Asker]

You never understand me.

[DonaldDarko]

You sure? Seems pretty plain. You feel worthless you have no attention from men people abused you and so on.

[Anonymous]

Not having had a male best friend is not an indication of value at all

[Asker]

This was just a small example.

[Anonymous]

Despite everything? It sounds like it's because of everything.

[slatyb]

Probably because that´s what you were told when you were growing up. See a therapist if possible, one helped me.

[TonyMetal___1986]

If you try to become my friend, you'll completely change your mind and i'll teach you how precious you are...

[Asker]

Who are you, and what can you possibly do for me?

[TonyMetal___1986]

I'm just a random man living in this world...
What can i do to you? Well i can be a friend and treat you as one...

[AngryCarl3]

You have a lot of thought distortions going on there. I can't diagnose your mental conditions but I'm guessing you need professional help.

[radiomechanic]

You are very young. Plenty of time to meet someone. Get some good life experiences

[Anonymous]

Mental illness. Seek help.

[jahaims]

Because your parents failed you