Is it a turn on to tell him I want you inside me?

[Katie1212]

This guy and I have been friends for 4 years. We dated on and off but never slept together. We've been talking for awhile, he said he misses me, and cares about me etc and we talked openly & honestly about how we feel and mistakes we've made in the past. He apologized for things he's done. Anyone he told me "I miss you baby" and over the phone said he doesn't want to be friends, he wants more. He said he wanted to make love to me, he said he wants me sexually. I told him I want him too but I have to think about it.

Would texting him "I want you inside me"

or "I want to have sex with you" be better? I'm usually not so direct but he was direct with me.

[TexanCowgirl]

First one is a lot hotter but can I just say, DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM until he proves to you that he wants a relationship and not just your pu**y!

And do not text this to him until both of you are in a long term committed relationship. Men see women 2 ways: women they f*ck and women they marry.

If you text this to him, sleep with him before you are officially his girlfriend and in a committed relationship, you will automatically fall into category one and never do you magically move onto category 2.

So first response is hotter, but you should not text that to him. Simply tell him you want to date him and see how things go, SLOWLY. Once you two establish that you guys are good together, then you can sleep with him. But I wouldn't advice doing any of this before then.

[NoOneListens21]

I'd be careful with that. Guys can sometimes have an angle so it's best not to put all your sexual desires up out front until you personally established what you want and if you want to be with him then you can get together and be in a relationship and maybe say that but if you just want sex then sure say that.

Personally I believe the first one is a MILLION times hotter than the second one.

[evenlift]

"I want you inside me" would be a big turn-on. Any words or actions that show a girl really desires would turn me on, especially if it's unexpected.

[ksysoup]

well - just say you want the take teh relationship to a new level

[Billlewis]

I'd go with, 'I can't wait to feel your cock inside me... and your balls bouncing on my ass...', etc.

[JPresidente]

If you wanna turn a man on, that is at the top of the list. You whisper that in his ear or even through text and see what happens. 😏

[Oddfella]

You're 39 years old and you're having to ask the Internet this? My advice is flip a coin

[BoopBoopBeep]

THe first one is way hotter.

[sheikalana]

It will be a huge turn on for him.

[Robotic]

YES

[najekim]

First choice.

[Curvesalot]

very much a turn on