My boyfriend works 6 days a week and on his days off he spend it with his friends, am I wrong to want him to be here?

[Anonymous]

He has taken if and did not come back until 6 in the morning. He got home today after work and said he needed to go to his friends house to help him with something and he wouldn't be gone long... that was almost 4 hours ago. am I wrong to want him to be here?

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My boyfriend and I are having a issue with sharing. I will trust him enough to hand over my bank card or credit card when we need something. He will not let me know what is going on with his money and never has he given me his bank card. He tells me he wants to share finances but I feel like it is one sided. He knows exactly what amount I make eachmonth but with him he just says he is broke should I worry?

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Well... come to find out he was spending all that time getting stoned and hanging with his exes family. He was not coming home because he said he wanted me to hurt like his ex hurt him. And that his friend taugh him to lie so that is why he had to lie to me... Crazy...

[Anonymous]

If you're the sort of girlfriend who just adds to his stress, then yes. You're wrong. Because what you want is a boyfriend who is going to be fun and pleasant to be around, not one who is going to have a meltdown due to stress.

He needs to blow off steam with his mates, before he can be the sort of guy you actually want.

[Asker]

Hee falls asleep on people's couches and does not come home on multiple occasions. He tells me he was tired and just feel asleep. Why not come home and sleep if your tired?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe because you won't let him sleep? You want to talk/interrogate him?

[gonyr]

Is a stressful work week and maybe he just needed to blow off some steam and have fun with the guys. I wouldn't read too much into it. Is normal to want him there though but I don't think it's something to get mad over him about

[Asker]

He goes to his friends house almost daily... pls working the six days a week when am I avoid to get time with him and not sound demanding out not caring?

[allyjane11]

If he spends all his days off with his friends and doesn't have time for you, I would look for a different boyfriend. Id he does this occasionally and still has time for you - that's healthy and ok.