Yeah this guy sounds like he liked you and you rejected him by saying the friend thing. If you want to ever have a shot with this guy in the future you'll need to tell him your true feelings otherwise things will never change. You already rejected him once, so he won't try again and he's also not a mind reader and can know you didn't mean what you said. If you're serious about him then yes, tell him. He can reject you but then at least he knows how you really feel and in time he may start getting feelings for you again and then it will be easier to progress because he'll know you liked him for real. Is it more likely he said the friends thing simply because I said it first without taking it back? Well it depends on whatever you said to him during the conversation you had. He could have taken offense to something and acted like that in defense. People sometimes say things that they didn't think through especially if they are reacting on emotions. He could have felt upset. Is there a chance he could have second thoughts considering how keen he was on me in the first place? Yes there could be a chance. If he really liked you a lot then he likely will still have some sort of feelings for you. If he was to reject you after you told him the truth now I'll tell you to just be patient and give him time to think.
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seriously if a girl did that to me I would feel led on. You did make the mistake telling him you should just be friends out of anger and in time you will learn to not do that. You hurt him and rejection is something a man does not like nor take kindly to. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. Do not expect him to like you in the same light again, if he does it will take some time to earn some trust back.
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