To answer your question, yes I believe you are being naive. The lady that gave me my shake at the drive through yesterday said "thanks baby". Besides if he was trying to do something with that girl he would have done it when you weren't around. He does it in front of you because he doesn't have anything to hide. By the way the old lady in the fast food window didn't try to climb through the window and make love to me in the drivers seat of my car either. I have dated girls that made big issues out of things like this before. They all ended up having low self-esteem, overly jealous, and also ended up being my EX girlfriends. Now if he has a history of cheating or does something that REALLY is worth getting concerned about then that's different. Otherwise I would recommend chilling out if you really like him. And if he has a flirt personality you need to talk to him about why. What is he trying to achieve when he is very flirty with girls? What is his end result? What does he hope that will come of it? If he struggles to answer these questions...then the real answer is probably something he isn't exactly proud of. If you have a girlfriend and you are constantly flirting with other girls, there is a reason. It is rarely as innocent as people try to make it out to be. It tells me that they like to tempt themselves and see what else is available to them...you know...see who will flirt back. But you have 2 separate issues going on here.
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A ''baby'' is an offspring - not a partner in life. I see no conflict.
I think the go to line that guys use when you have an issue with something is saying that you are insecure. If you are constantly freaking out every time he interacts with a female, then it might be time to work on your self esteem. That being said, you have every right to address things that make you uncomfortable. I seriously doubt there is any harm in your boyfriend calling someone else a pet name, but if it makes you uncomfortable... say something. Say it from a position of strength and confidence. I see nothing wrong with asking your boyfriend to reserve pet names for you if you can do it in a way that doesn’t put him on the defensive. Say it in a playful, sweet way. Delivery is the difference between a clingy insecure girl and one that knows her worth. If it’s just his personality, then you might want to look for someone that does not have that trait.
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