Polls: Family & Friends

Or is that friendship permanently killed? And that person will never trust you ever again nor like you at all?

My boyfriend's adoptive mother was the one talking behind my back for several months. I was friends with that lady. Many things happened and supposedly she's sorry. I'm still hurt that instead of telling me in my face what she doesn't agree or what I'm doing wrong, she smiled in my face and gossiped nasty things about me to family member, her friends and random strangers.

Is it worth giving a person like that a second chance? At this time, my image of that lady is that she's a backstabbing, fake person, a hypocrite, a liar. My boyfriend and someone else claims she is remorseful though and would like to start over. Can that be restored?

I just had a lot of bottled up emotions and got fed up of feeling like walking around eggshells for everyone around me. I just snapped and started arguing and yelling.

It doesn't matter whether you've already got kids, or planning to make your own, or even if you're not willing to have your own. Would you still like to adopt a child?

For me, I'm not sure yet, but I might.

I am very disappointed and don't want to to him ever again to be honest. He got upset with me for not wishing him a happy fathers day when he hasn't been in my life since him ans my mother divorced when I was in 3rd grade. He didn't take ownership when I expressed my disappointment he said ," If you feel that way don't call me no more. Me and your mom divorced because of your evil grandma and that's why your grandma is dead now because she was a evil woman ". My grandma encouraged my mom to leave because dead beat was on drugs then and was abusing my mom. And based on what he said to me recently it proved my grandma and mom right. He apologized via text several times I said I forgive you. He called I talked to him but due to my disappointment I wasn't engaged in the conversation. I had nothing left to say.

Were you sassy or not sassy?
Is pointing out sass wrong to do?
VOTE BELOW!

The first hour was horrible. She was so weak matted wobbly I thought she would die on the way home. She clung to my hand I don't know with what strength. When we got back refused water or food even tho she obviously dehydrated & starving. After 1 hour she relaxed had some peas i smeared along my arm, hopped on my shoulder and we became great friends.

Subsequently, she was really very unhappy anywhere but on my finger. Tried my best to accommodate but as I did have otter obligations, it was impossible. She wanted was to perch on me 24/7. Happily, today she heard birds chirping & she started to fly (with direction) to the window. This is a very new thing & a huge deal. She is eating by eying the food instead of opening her mouth waiting for me to feed her.

She is now consciously and deliberately using her eyes and now that she is gaining that independence she is less interested in editing for me. Tho she is still very happy to hop on she has larger interests than perching on my finger. Im really encouraged. For now she is eating non stop all day bathing twice a day and has eye drops in the morning & evening. Her new favorite activity is flirting with the boy- sparrows in the yard 💕💕

Here are a series of pics and clips from the past three days.
⚠️ First few links are sad 😞
She became active by end of first day & has remained very playful and very sweet plus some-almost smooth- flying💜

Aayla:

Wednesday 1 0-12 pm pictures & Clip

https://imgur.com/a/vpbyHJ1

Wednesday 12 - 2 pm pictures & Clip

https://imgur.com/a/ps4Gv67

Wednesday 4-6 pm pictures & Clip

https://imgur.com/a/pooay6j

Wednesday 430 pm Clip

https://imgur.com/a/ahTRfCC

Wednesday 445 pm Clip

https://imgur.com/a/ZoRh22q

Wednesday 5 pm Clip

https://imgur.com/a/mOe4EwC

Thursday Morning Post bath Breakfast Clip

https://imgur.com/a/yCttUoF

Friday morning Breakfast Clip

https://imgur.com/a/o0XPe3O

Friday afternoon Garden Clips

https://imgur.com/a/5CYSrWP

Eversince my mom and dad divorced when I was 6 he rarely called , stopped coming around, made promises he never kept stating he would visit me and never did so I stopped believing. He popped back up as far as calls when I was 13 then faded away again. now in my late 20' he's back again he says he will call one day then pops back up 2 weeks later then when I don't answer the phone he says ," omg I'm so worried I hate when you don't answer". Now that it's closer to fathers day he's been calling and texting more. I dont feel he deserves to be told happy fathers day.

• A rich life but no freedom

You live a rich life with material things but you are "limited". You are forced to follow your family's demands and neglect your own. They smear your name to the public if you commit mistakes and deny physical and mental abuse to anyone. They live with superiority making you feel small, unheard, and not good enough. You ride in a luxurious with them but you don't have any authority to use it. You cannot make any friends because they keep you and if you do, they will be turned against you and looked down on you. You have material things in life like a comfortable bed, nice gadgets, money but except for freedom and no happiness.

• A poor life but with freedom

You live a poor life with no material things but you can always make your own decisions without others' approval. You cannot afford expensive things but you can do things that make you happy. No one will judge you, harm you and your mental health is always at peace. You live alone with only one or few trusted friends who make you feel that you belong. You had a chance to interact with people and make supportive friends. Though at times, there might still be difficult people around. You live a poor life but with freedom. You have a simple bed, inexpensive gadgets, simple life, small money but you can experience real life.

If you are only given these two options and situations in life, "Would you rather live RICH or POOR?

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How many chubby little monsters do you want to ruin your life with? I can say that because I want them too.

So as I explained on a previous question I once found myself tied to a tree of a feud with a former friend of mine, she tied my hands behind me, ankles together and put a piece of white tape on my mouth. I was there for an hour before being found by dog walkers i. e 2 old women.

The other time was last summer when I was on a trip with friends to the countryside we had a rave/party in a barn on a farm , but I left my shit behind when i got there there was a tramp esc person my age there and an old woman, any way long story short they claimed i was tresspassing and i got my hands tied to a pole in front, ankle tied together and an hair bobble and piece of white tape on my mouth, till myfriends found us hour later. They were in hysterics.

If you've been following me long enough, then you may or may not remember that my Dad's dog was killed last year by a truck driver. Prior to that, one of our neighbors had complained about the dog's "loud" barking. So we started bringing her inside more (particularly at night). At least half the people on my street have either dogs or cats (these particular neighbors also have a dog of their own) and there's a separate garage between both of our houses — it's not like we're right next to each other, so I don't know why we were being singled out.

Fast forward to now: My mom has a new little puppy that we also probably keep inside way too much just to try to keep the peace. 🙄

I know that a lot of woman wants to have their last name to their kids because they never want a man's last name who they claim did nothing to make that child. So whose last name do you think a child should have? And what's your reason for that?
What about in cases where the father or mother left their kids life?

I just Lost another Family member to Cancer last Night near to Where I reside. I now have to go to Queens NY to Bury him. I'm also Going Upstate to do My closing on my Home with my sister. The dates all are Running into Each other. I also have a Lot to do to Get ready for All of this. Would you be Able to Schedule all of this and Get what you had to Do Done without Losing it? xx

**My sister is Trying to Play games with Dates and so Forth with Dad's burial this Summer. She purposely Turned the Rest of the Family against me. I feel so Unloved and Unwanted and May NOT GO NOW. What Would you Do? xx

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So my friend is 35 and saying she doesn't know what she wants to be. She's been taking on jobs that aren't long term, have no health care benefits, no room for advancement, nor any perks. She hangs around really young immature girls who aren't going places (as in no plans beyond today). Seems like she's having a crisis maybe. Then she complains about not getting a good guy but she gives every man in our apartment complex her number. These men never want anything serious, use her or already have someone then she gets mad. i feel like I'm always talking to her about my goals or career plans for the future but she never has anything going. Should I address it or let her be? She just seems lost and at her age most people have steady income and a career going.