Would you be Able to Schedule this All in a Week?

[Paris13]

I just Lost another Family member to Cancer last Night near to Where I reside. I now have to go to Queens NY to Bury him. I'm also Going Upstate to do My closing on my Home with my sister. The dates all are Running into Each other. I also have a Lot to do to Get ready for All of this. Would you be Able to Schedule all of this and Get what you had to Do Done without Losing it? xx

Yes, Paris!

It would be Hard, Paris!

Another Reply, Paris!

[Goforit1010]

I'm sorry for your loss.

Make a list of what has to be done and when. Prioritize it.

You know those friends who say,, "If you need anything, let me know...". Take advantage of as many of them, as possible. Most of them are thinking more clearly than you right now, and they can focus on getting things done where you'd miss some details.

I know. Lost my mom 2.5yrs ago who lived in another state.

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear. I did Too, Mom, Planned her Funeral and still Need to Bury Dad this summer. xx

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nobody should have to go through so much as you are going through right now on your own. Sod doing this for points. If I could hug you right now and drive you there I would,.

[Paris13]

Ohh, Hugsss Back, @TommyMountainFigure God gets me Through. xx

[menina]

I'm so sorry to hear that you lost another loved one. May he/she rest in peace.
It would be hard to schedule all of that in just one week, but you can try Paris if they were important to you.

[Paris13]

Thank You, @menina. The funeral homes are Working with us. xx

[menina]

You're welcome @Paris13. I'm glad they're working with you and your family.

Thanks for the MHO.

[Angelina25]

I bet it's gonna be hard P
Take care. And remember it's all gonna be over soon. xx

[Paris13]

Thank You, sweetheart. I will be Glad Soon is June---Over for sure. xx

[WindAtMyBack]

Getting ready for funerals always seems rushed. That's probably why there is a longer delay than there used to be. Three days used to be normal. Now five days is common.

NYC to upstate NY is an easy day trip. You can do it.

Don't feel like you have to do everything before the funeral. Just be there. If you are in charge of arrangements, try to have the funeral home do as much as possible.

[Paris13]

I also still Need to Go to Dad's Burial in Rome this summer (NY). xx

[Leavesbound]

My brother was my late mother's executor and primary care giver while she wad dying of cancer. He had to bale out of the executor job because it just got to be too much for him so my sister took over for him. Neither wanted my help. I can't even imagine how horrible it would be to juggle multiple deaths in the family like you are doing.

[Paris13]

And an Executor Drunken Sister to Boot. xx

[Leavesbound]

Parents often choose the wrong child to be executor.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you checked your back to see if someone painted a bulls' eye on it? You seem to be getting a huge dose of bad stuff. Feel free to PM me if you need to vent.

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear. No, I have always been Blessed. It is Just God's Timing for Death for Our Loved Ones. xx

[Wiredone]

It wouldn't be easy but I would just plan and stay focused until it's all over. When is the funeral for your dad? I hope that's not the same week? You got this Paris. You'll get through it all. Virtual hugs 🤗🤗

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear. xx

[Wiredone]

You're welcome. I'm sorry for your loss and the trouble with your family

[OnTheLevel]

I feel for your loss and don't want to diminish it, but you are only talking about two things to do over a weekend. Emotionally, the loss would something to deal with, but as far as being busy, no problem.

[Paris13]

Hard to Lose Loved Ones But the scheduling was a Bit Easier as Funeral Homes working with us. xx

[REALSTEEL]

Depending upon the person everyone has there breaking point but I know I can did done that been there

[Paris13]

I am Like You------REALSTEEL. xx

[REALSTEEL]

Awesome were like 2 peas in a pod

[llcanon]

first you need to get done that which is most important then get this done. Second sit down and see if there is time to get the other done. Most important do not let this overwhelm you

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear. xx

[Guanfei]

I'm very sorry. You're having a rough time.
Remember, it's nice to think of everything, but try to think about you a bit, and take the time to take care of you.

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear. xx

[karaspara]

It would be really hard you have my sympathies Paris xx

[Paris13]

Thank You, sweetheart. xx

[collie22]

sounds hard sorry.. don't get too busy and forget to cry Paris

[Paris13]

Crying and Trying, dear. Thank You so much. xx

[clampfan101]

I’m not good at scheduling in general.
Sorry for your loss.

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear. xx

[Likes2drive]

Somehow I would but it’s not going to be easy, just need to handle one thing at a time

[Paris13]

Flag Day and Closing soon After. xx

[Likes2drive]

Try not to stress out

[CubaPirate]

Focus and determination will see you get through it all. But I know it won't be easy for you so good and best wishes my thoughts are with you

[Paris13]

Thank You, dear!! xx

[Jerre]

You can do it Paris. Just keep your mind on the targeted goals.

[Paris13]

Thank You, Jere. Just hoping the Graveside in Queens can Help make it Easier to Plan. xx

[eagle1951]

yes I had to do it all in one day for my late wifes funeral

[Paris13]

I know You still Love Her... xx

[humanearth]

Man Paris thats a lot of shit to bear.

[Paris13]

IT Is, Sweetheart. But Funeral Homes working with us on Dates. xx

[Jamie05rhs]

Hang in there, my friend! 💛

[Paris13]

I am < Myy Friend! xx

[COMMODOREII]

I'm sorry for your loss Paris!*hugs*

[Paris13]

Thanks, Dear. HUGGGGS!!! xx

[888theGreat]

I lost my aunt and less than week my uncle.

[Paris13]

It is Tough. xx

[888theGreat]

They never told my uncle she had died because he was in bad shape. She was 91 and he was 88.

[msc545]

Difficult but doable I think

[Paris13]

Able and Ready. xx

[msc545]

good!