Is it ok to wear clingy swim shorts?

[Boredquestionman]

So I cut out the liner of my swim shorts because they were irrating me (cut the edges of head gland). So if I wear them without underwear they're more comfortable but can really cling to my junk giving a strong outline (I would try to uncling them often) and even when there not wet u can see the penile head outline since I'm circumcized ( I don't think it's a big deal since I don't think girls are actively scanning that area) so would it be to inappropriate to wear shorts like that. I'm comfortable with my body but I don't want to bother anyone so should I just wear underwear underneath?

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Thank you and you to :)

[DeeNaz88]

Lol this is such a funny question. I think as long as your shorts aren't super thin and super loose, you should be okay. Just make sure "it" doesn't show if you're in a sitting position. I've seen some men where their thing is all there and visible in between their shorts you could see it. Just check on that. Plus for hygiene safety maybe you might want to wear some loose boxers underneath. Grosses me
Out how many people leave the equipment at the gym all sweaty and gross without disinfecting it. they leave it for the next person to clean it up. Yuck. You don't want to catch some bacterial infection.

[kaylaS91]

Whether it's 'okay' or not probably depends on where you live.
I'm not sure about other girls but I'd probably just laugh to myself about guys who walk around in swim shorts that give a clear outline of their dick. At that point, you're better off just completely skipping the shorts altogether.

[Boredquestionman]

Hmm okay so I'm going take that as a vote for underwear. I live in California if that makes any difference

[kaylaS91]

Yeah you'd probably be fine there, though don't be surprised when the vast majority of women make a point to avoid being anywhere near you.

[Boredquestionman]

Well I don't want to be avoided so thank you

[islndtkr]

if your comfortable who gives a shit? are you trying to impress anyone when you wear these? we all have clothing we know we shouldn't wear but we still wear because it's comfortable.

[Boredquestionman]

Na like I said it's mainly a comfort things since the lining can literally cut into my junk but tbh I don't know if I would be bothered if it "impressed someone" since u brought it up

[islndtkr]

then I'd have to say rock those pants 'til they break😂

[Boredquestionman]

Lmfao u so encouraging but if they broke that would also be pretty embarrasing. But if you at the beach and saw a man outline u wouldn't be taken back by it

[islndtkr]

I'm sorry but if I was at a beach & saw an outline... first of all, I'd be impressed. if they ripped I wouldn't worry much... i mean... we can already see an outline and have am idea of what your packing by that point.

[Boredquestionman]

Well I certainly appreciate ur honesty but I still think it be embarrasing. Imagine u were wearing a bikini that was a little nippy. U would probably still be embarrassed if it fell off even though everyone probably has a good idea what's going on. by the way if there no lining it's really easy to leave an outline so u shouldn't be to impressed 😂

[islndtkr]

lol you might think so... but... me, personally, I have no problems with my body. I know i look good😆😂

if it worries you, why don't you use something thin or comfy under?

[Boredquestionman]

Naw it dosnt bother me tbh. I was on the swim team in highschool and wore speedos so u can't get much more in display then that unless I'm nude my point was just that I'm not sure if I would be that comfortable nude lmao

[Boredquestionman]

by the way love the confidence 😂

[islndtkr]

dude... you wore speedos... you were pretty much naked already. 😂😂😂 & thnx

[Boredquestionman]

I know ur right but still😂. I'm like 1% covered. Tbh speedos don't hide shit and if anything they can make it look worse sense it's being compressed but still that 1% coverage made a difference for me 😂😂😂😂

[islndtkr]

I don't know then... maybe practice being naked in your room/house just in case your shorts do rip😂

[Boredquestionman]

Dang you really think this is a situation I should prepare for haha. Have u actually ever seen something like that happen? I was also going to ask if u prepared but then k just remembered u don't care 😂😂

[islndtkr]

yes! always be prepared for any situation😂 I have seen people lose clothing and not give a single fuck, it was funny asf how they didn't even budge & went on like nothing happened.😂 & to your almost question, I'm always naked if I'm at home. specially if I know no one is coming over. I'm very comfortable with my body. but that don't mean I just go out showing every inch of it. I do have SOME self respect😂😂😂 & like to leave some stuff to the imagination.

[Boredquestionman]

Lmao I think in the right group I probably wouldn't care to much but I don't chill at home nude haha. Tbh I don't think that would help since for me it's more the being seen then the actual naked part but if it did happen it would be more of like a damn it moment. I'm pretty confident in my body I got nothing to be ashamed of haha

[Boredquestionman]

Can I ask what the craziest thing u seen or experience regarding something like this to develop your always be prepared attitude?

[islndtkr]

I seen a woman leave the bar after ripping her pants while dancing😂😂😂😂 I now carry extra clothes in my car ALL the time.

[islndtkr]

men where whistling & trying to grab her

[Boredquestionman]

Damn that's a shitty way to end the night😂 I think the worst I seen are just surprised pantsing and of course all the other dudes in speedos lmao

[islndtkr]

both of those are pretty messed up... lol pantsing seems to be pretty normal. seen guys do it to each other a few times. the first guy I ever seen get pantsed we were in kinder, he started wearing a belt the next day, to this day he still wears a belt.

[Boredquestionman]

Lmao well tbh I don't think pantsing a big deal it just sucks if they grab ur underwear too... Also believe it or not u will get used to speedos if ur exposed enough 😂 plus I never got complaints. However 1 year the couch didn't tell us he was ordering compition suits so everybody accidentally ordered a size to small so fitting everything could be a problem and that was for the whole team 😂😂😂

[islndtkr]

lol, damn. well good thing you don't have to use those suits

[Boredquestionman]

No we did have to use those. For every single meet that year...

[islndtkr]

was it comfortable by the end of the year?

[Boredquestionman]

Well actually yea...😂 There actually one of my go to if I swim laps now. They were just really embarrasing for everyone at fist. There light blue so it's outlining a lot... And it was so tight that a little bit of sac my get pushed out. For the girls it met it was more nippy and cheeky but the coach was just like suck it up those are real suits

[islndtkr]

lol that's all bad

[Boredquestionman]

Yea I didn't want my family going to watch me swim because of that... anyways anything similar ever happen to you?

[islndtkr]

yeah... the first time I wore a bathing suit... I was like 14... I have a hour glass body, big butt, small waist, big boobs, so my bathing suit was the right size for my boobs, (wich is how these were sized) but I couldn't get it past my thighs... when I finally did I looked like a fucking joke... my ass cheeks looked like they were gunna fall out. but it was too late to go back & change it to a 2 piece & I had to go to the party looking like that... I hated it & ended up leaving early.

[Boredquestionman]

Dang that just sounds like a pain since u develop so young. I can feel for girls in that regard. Developing young as a boy for the most part isn't a big deal

[Boredquestionman]

But to be fair most one peices I see are rather cheeky some of the girls on the team were just like strait up thongs if there butt was big

[islndtkr]

Yeah 1 piece suits are no good for some people... I'm one of those people😂😂😂

[Boredquestionman]

Oh so I take it your hourglass game is still strong 😂. Tbh I actually really like one pieces on girls but that may be thanks to my swim team days

[islndtkr]

Umm YES very, 😂😂😂😂😂

it's almost impossible to find a 1 piece that will fit me correctly.

[Boredquestionman]

So I guessing you want you but to be covered 😂 tbh seems like most are pretty cheeks and the high hip bone thing in now so it getting worse (no complaints here). Also I've bin seeing one pieces now that just strait have a thong back which is surprising but I live in Cali and the suits seem to get more revealing every year

[Boredquestionman]

Also if you are large chest just a heads up to make sure u check the suit good to make sure it covers u when u move. My friends sometimes swim laps with me but she was shocked when I told her she need a tighter suit because she was showing me her tits Everytime she bent over but she kept insisting the suit felt really tight and she couldn't believe that was happening

[islndtkr]

that's my problem with bikinis and swim suits in general. I live in cali too. so trust I know how revealing they get😂😂😂 I have to go to the beach on Monday and I'm already trying to find the right bottoms that won't let my ass cheeks fall out😂😂😂😂 or a good top where my boobs won't be trying to come out the sides😂😂😂

[Boredquestionman]

Wait boobs come out the side? I seen a ton of wardrobe malfunction at the beach thanks to poor suit decision and rough waves but it always seems like the suit slips down or that the boobs bust through in the middle 😂

[Boredquestionman]

Shiiiit if u live in Cali u may see me on the beach one day. But that does explain why u said u would be surprised to see an outline our water is cold as shit 😂

[Boredquestionman]

Oh shit my bad I just realized u meant side boob I'm sorry that was stupid of me

[islndtkr]

lmfao that's a problem for me. dd boobs don't ever want to stay in a bikini top. they WILL find their way out of it Wether it's through the sides or middle. & I might see you, or have seen you. but I don't know what you look like, and you dk what I look like soooo😜

& our water is cold asf. I miss the beaches in Puerto Rico, tropical weather with good temp water😆😎

[Boredquestionman]

Very true point and that a struggle I can't relate to. The biggest problem I have is making sure the waves don't steel my trunks. I remember one time at the beach some cheerleader s we're doing a pryamid in the water but the girl on top was heavy chested and when she leaned over here boobs kinda just escaped. The embarrassement was real 😂 have your actually gotten out before in public?

[Boredquestionman]

Also as a girl do u think it was wrong for me to tell my friend she was flashing me. I know it can be embarrasing but I figured it was better I do it then have her flash people unknowingly

[Boredquestionman]

Was that question to awkward 😂 sorry about that

[matchrestore]

I feel your pain with the netting in swim trunks. I cut it out of most of my trunks as well. I have foreskin to make things less obvious, so that helps, but when I really don't want anything to show I wear a swim brief (think speedo) underneath my trunks. The material of the swim brief is much more gentle, and it provides better support than that mesh that comes in swim trunks.

[Boredquestionman]

Hmm alright cool thanks for the advice man

[milkyway777]

If you're really concerned on what people (esp girls) think, then I suggest you to keep wearing the underwear. You can't control strangers' opinion about you. For me personally, that look will make me uncomfortable. I'm quite conventional.

But totally understand your struggling. I'm also the person who prefers comfort in fashion rather than the look, so maybe it's better if you buy new shorts 😊😊😊

[Boredquestionman]

Thanks for your opinion and honesty I really appreciate it :). Unfortunately I don't think new shirts will fix it. I believe it a circuzision problem. Ever pair of boardshorts I owned with lining cut into my glands and after it drew blood one time I decided never again 😂 so I guess I just have to wear normal underwear underneath with isn't the hugest deal it just slightly less comfortable and takes long to dry

[milkyway777]

You're welcome. It seems that you found the answer :)

Keep your dignity up. Don't let people laugh at you.

Enjoy the summer!

[Boredquestionman]

Thank you and you to :)

[JustBoredGirl]

We girls do check guys down there regularly but unless your wiggling your junk to me on purpose I dont mind.

[Boredquestionman]

So u don't mind seeing an outline as long as I'm not doing it on purpose?

[JustBoredGirl]

Not what I said. He can have his junk hanging around through his shorts and I wouldn't care UNLESS if he wiggled it on purpose towards me. For example, if i wear a dress that shows some sideboob while im out im ok and i dont mind people staring, in fact i like it a bit as i feel desirable, but wiggling by boobs so a specific guy can see, even if he is solo, while he shows no interest is something i dont approve. Its like attacking even if the other person said NO.

[Boredquestionman]

Ok gotcha thanks

[Samantha1998x]

i would think it is ok, in Europe the guys wear like rubber spandex ones, so there's no way yours can be close to that tight

[Boredquestionman]

You wouldn't think the guy gross if you see the outline?

[Samantha1998x]

nah, not a big deal, some women have camel toe at the beach, so I don't know it wouldn't bother me at all

[Boredquestionman]

Ok cool thank you :)

[Samantha1998x]

np :)

[MrsReid]

yeah thats perfectly fine. as long as you're not obviously showing it off to girls which im sure you aren't. :)

[Boredquestionman]

Cool thanks. Yea I'm not trying to creep anyone out or bother them haha

[Clueless-romantic9]

So me and some girlfriends went to Mexico recently and a lot of men had tight swim shorts on and the ones with buldges were definitely hotter. I didn't like the ones who were "flat in front like ken" 😂 like why do you want to advertise that. I say do whatever makes you conformable but do know that ladies look there.

[Boredquestionman]

Well yea I know and honestly I'm comfortable with it. I was on the swim team in highschool and well the unforms don't get more revealing then that but when I try to wear board shorts the lining irrates my junk so I cut it out. Unfortunately that means the material cling to me and gives u an outline but I worried about offending people and not ashamed of it 😂

[April10]

Maybe not be around children. Parents are always on the lookout for pervs.

[Boredquestionman]

Hmm ok thank you 😊

[Coconutpie]

No problem, as long as you are not trying to show it

[Boredquestionman]

Ok cool thank you :)

[SamtheDnDgirl]

It's better to be comfortable in my opinion. Just pull your suit away. Most people will understand.

[Boredquestionman]

Cool thanks that's what I was thinking if doing

[goddess87]

I think it's ok, if you are swimming. The big question is are they lighter or darker in color. If they are a medium to darker color with or without a print that would be fine. If they are white with no print then you may get a lot of stares.

[Boredquestionman]

Haha no on mine the groin area is solid black on one and blue in the other so I shouldn't have to worry about it going seeing through. It's just the outline that should be a factor haha

[mostly_eatin]

I think you're going to be fine. Do whatever's comfortable for you, besides it's not like you have the intent for people to look at it.

[menina]

I think it's okay. I guess most people won't look at that part of your body.
Wear what makes you comfortable. :)

[deraz24]

I don't really get why you'd invite me lol but I guess try to find some other shorts that are comfortable nobody wanna see that everywhere lol

[Janedoe25]

Ew I don't want to see your outline and yes I notice stuff like that. Its low class. Buy another pair of trunks or something. by the way Speedos are gross unless the guy is a super hot athlete.

[Bonnie12I27I12]

please consider getting something else. no one wants to look at your outline. especially the children

[BackAgain]

Reminds me of a speedo, I'd rather not see any strong outlines... like what if he gets excited

[RedPopIsBetter]

Huh, this is a very strange question. I guess it would be ok.

[honeybee57]

Im all for going commando... if no children are around. Also if your no doing it for some creepy sexual fetish. Why not?

[Boredquestionman]

Haha ok cool thanks and yea the beaches I go to are mostly college age and up

[honeybee57]

Hell i recommend to you "free ballin" more often... it's quite liberating lol

[Boredquestionman]

Haha I bet 😂 but I'm circumcized so it's hard enough to to keep my head from showing through as it is. If I free balled it would constantly show and I don't know if girls would appreciate that

[Boredquestionman]

Are u generally able to notice when guys are going commando?

[miichan]

I think you would want to wear loose ones if they were more comfortable

[Summer90]

Personally I wouldn't be looking anyways so go ahead and enjoy your swim! 👍🏻

[Baby_Gurl1]

As long as you are comfortable then should be alright and during a swim people shouldn't notice.