I like to wear choker especially black one and every time I wear it I get more stares than usual as if I am asking for attention.
And I don't know about all girls but my best friend wears a choker with her boyfriends name on it, yes she's submissive in nature. But her chokers are more like collar type which are broad and with ring on it whereas mine are simple one.
I woukd love to wesr collars and stufd but it would kinda actually make me more aware of "things" and horny or distracted thoughout the day. Just the simple though of it. Tried that before, I just get a charge sorta from things being around my neck, whether it be a scarf or bandana or me mess in atound with my lanyard and it going right around my neck.
u First time that I have ever heard of it before.
Dude is a bit of a creep for asking.
the very origins are in prostitutes on the streets in the old days. prostitution was highly illegal, and girls advertised themselves by wearing chokers. only the common folk knew what it meant
a choker is not a sign of being a sub, i dont think. you're going to have to go more towards collars then. but it is usually a sign of being slutty.
Chokers look good on women. Bu there's always someone that spoils it with a bullshit comment. I went to a bar/grill a while ago. There were several guys making unnecessary innuendos with the bartender. I'm not sure where it originated specifically though, but I believe that it's a subliminal thing from slavery that grew into a niche today.
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Really? I am hearing it for the first time.
Lol ya I wore one once and my friend asked if it was for some sex toy stuff. I look at him as if he were crazy because it was the plastic type that was popular during the 90s and 2000s so I don't know why he never seen one before
I guess it has something to do with collars, it looks like it sometimes, and in porn Bsdm is where you can see collars that looks like a choker, actually now that I see even the name implies soemthing of sub.
But I never thought of this, like a choker for me seems like a goth thing, which looks good.
they look hot on chicks especially when it's tight around their necks
In the BDSM world, a choker on a person can be a sign that person is submissive and has a Dom/Master. After one is "collared" certain rules and ettiquette comes into play such as no other man can interact with the one collared without the Dom/Master's permission.
Now with that said, a choker is also a fashion accessory so you just need to say you are not collared if asked.
They look hot. I’ve heard there’s some association sometimes with a woman being sub. But I wouldn’t get my hopes up without more evidence ;p
i saw somewhere a very vague correlation between girls who wear chokers and girls who like anal. I've been intensely attracted to chokers ever since.
Not necessarily, but can be. Depends on the attitude of the wearer and how it's worn or portrayed I'd think. But I love how they look on a woman.
Not at all. If a guy thinks so, that is just his hopeful and biased wishes or ways of thinking.
I'm a dom, I love chokers as well as collars. Mainly because I get off on twinning with my girlfriend so we both wear matching neck accessories etc.
I've never heard that. I just assume the person wearing the necklace likes the look, must have been wishful thinking on his part!
It is and it isn't.
A lot of the time it's just a fashion accessory, but it also has that undertone, too. Which is no bad thing.
No it’s just a fashion statement. Not all people who wear them are in to choking. If you want to be seen as a sub in a bdsm event wear a collar.
Naw, a choker is just an accessory. Now, if you were wearing a color, that would be a sign of a submissive, but chokers are just basic jewelry.
I always wonder if girls with chokers are subs. It’s a popular thing in the bdsm community to have collars on but really chokers just popular in general now.
The collar imagery isn't hard to see - But I don't think chokers are necessarily a sign of submissiveness or BDSM.
I think the real question is... Are you submissive?
Not really but it’s like a collar so I can see how he would think that but if my girl ever wore a choker that wasn’t my hand my dominance would come out 😂
I wear it as a sign of sub/pet but that is just me.
guys find it hot when i'm wearing a choker, on nights out they sometimes tug on it playfully
No its really pretty by the way, where'd you get it? I kinda wanna purchase that lol
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