Yes because I tend to get stares, compliments, and men coming up to me/asking me out. Not every day but compared to back in high school when no one at all liked me, it's a huge difference. But I am very far from the European standard of beauty that plagues this society so when I'm with friends who look mixed or more white, I become the "less attractive" friend and I am hardly noticed which sucks. I tend to go out alone though lol.
I'm pretty sure I'm not that conventionally attractive to Dutch culture. I look Middle Eastern, which is obviously very different.
In terms of more basic things, such as body shape and jawline and things like that I'd consider myself to be conventionally decent looking to attractive.
Edit: in terms of body shape and such I would. But in many other things, I just don't fit the general Dutch cultural conventional image of attractiveness
By conventionally attractive I think the asker means the typical kind of look that is seen in ma lot of media. I don't think these portrayals are bad, but having them be the basis of whats attractive is not good for those that don't fit the mold. I'm a hairy dude with dark hair and eyes and a beard and didn't look like the blonde blue eyed pretty boy models that are commonplace in media. Growing up, that was a big problem because a lot of young girls seem to like the pretty boy look and I felt like I wasn't attractive. But in reality, the world is a big place and there are many people with different traits and preferences.
I think mostly because I have a symmetry face, to begin with. natural check bones. I also have no face blemish. never had acne or have to wear makeup. in shape on the to thin for some tho etc so when people view me they call me an attractive from the first glace.
i think beauty is objective to some degree so: maybe
if i'm going off how closely my features resemble the ideal european standards: then no, i have ethnic features (which i don't think are ugly at all) but they still technically aren't beautiful
if i'm going off how much i get complimented, if people treat me better or worse based on my looks. if i get pretty privilege or not, if i can get laid quickly, then yeah i'm attractive and i know it
sometimes feel torn over exploiting that or being irritated over ass kissing lmao
I don’t think I’m a super model but I know I have a unique beauty like everyone else. Just remember that everyone has a different perception of beauty, some may not like you but others may find you to be the most beautiful woman in the world. 🤷🏻♀️😊
Hmm... not sure about conventionally attractive part.. when you say that... I have this idea of a poster boy that my looks are supposed to conform to...
Having said that.. I'd like to think I'm relatively attractive looks wise... I actually find that some of the most attractive people are the ones with the most unconventional traits.. it makes them unique and special.
i've been told that my face is "cute" but also "plain"... so, i guess average? lol i'm also on the thin/skinny side so i'm a bit more lanky than what most would consider attractive.
Not the slightest. I think I am ugly to most women, but I can say that there is a minority who seem to really like it, and I don't think I'm being too biased in that case. You still mad at me for biology thing? (Hugs)
In my case, my biracial thing is about the only thing I have going. I hear biracial women complaining about being called "exotic". For me it is about the best compliment I can receive. :-D
Guys your age like to run their mouths about loving big boobs because they think it makes them sound like a man, but most guys prefer small or medium boobs, or they have no preference. The big boob lovers are a minority.
Big boob lovers aren’t a minority that’s a popular porn category for a reason. Guys of all ages definitely like medium or big boobs, the ones that prefer small are a minority. What I say is true. It’s obviously not just guys my age saying they like big and medium sized boobs
Google the subject and you will see many polls that contradict what you think. Big boob lovers are a minority but small boob lovers are not vocal about their preference.
Yeah I know what you’re saying isn’t true and obviously people date others who don’t meet all their standards/preferences so that’d be a useless poll and was not a good suggestion
Yes i do but standard are different in all countries i think i am attractive by middle East and European standard probably not in Africa they prefer more curvy women there probably also dark skin
No I am unconventionally attractive and even then it's rare that I appeal to a woman. I am like methadone. That's the drug heroin addicts take when they wanna stop being addicted to heroin. So I am not even the best at being the worst.
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