Can you be beautiful & get bullied?

[Anonymous]

Can you be beautiful and get bullied?

Yes

No

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+1 y

If so.. how?

[Kaazsz]

Can’t say I’m beautiful cuz I’m a guy.

But I was bullied worse than most for my entire school career. From 2nd grade until 11th grade my life was a living hell.

Anyways, years and years later I come to find out that many girls at school had crushes on me. Imagine that? The loser kid with ZERO friends his entire childhood and teenage years. The lowest on the totem pole. Even the nerds and scrubs didn’t like me.

One girl I had a crush on, the hottest girl in school, my neighbor, had a crush on me! She died recently too sadly.

I have always been a good looking guy. And finding these things out has been quite a shock to me.

I’ve lived my life thus far believing I was a hideous monstrosity due to the way I was treated.

But actually girls have been always into me and the evidence has piled up enough that I can’t deny it anymore.

It’s nice but also kind of sucks. I dunno maybe my pain and suffering made me a better person. If I would have been popular and cool I’d probably be a giant piece of shit. My life would probably be better but I’d be a piece of shit.

[MannMitAntworten]

Yes, and I witnessed it last night towards someone I have recently been growing more involved with. She kept her composure remarkably well even when this asshole started in with personal insults then with the threats. With that I shut that effing shitbag down when she crossed the line which ultimately caused to involve two managers and two security security officers and her ejection.

My lady kept her poise. Damn impressed with her and proud of how she handled it with grace. She's a dang fine lady.

[Anonymous]

Of course.. I've studied in both schools, private and public. I was considered "ugly" at a private school. People used to say I was an ugly girl. I think it was all because of my etnicity and ignorance towards diverse beauty types. I look mixed, I have tan skin, curly hair and green eyes. Of course I wasn't the stereotype of the barbie, blond woman. When I went to high school and college, where there was much diversity. I got compliments all the time, became part of a dance team and guys started to check me out physically. Now as an adult I'm no longer bullied, and let me share that actually I feel weird sometimes since my "unusual" look is considered exotic and beautiful.

[CherryRoseChampange]

Yep, because of jealousy tbh. Also, people can see it as though you have no real problems because you're pretty.

So when you are in distress, it gets tossed aside. Then people try to fight you a ton because they think you're trying to mess with their SO. It's stupid shit, but at the end if the day yes. Anyone can be bullied.

[Pinay_ako]

Jesus got crucified for being the Son of God... anyone else don't get a pass regardless of their beauty, social status, wealth, power, etc...

[jgokgotit]

Mostly others who are jealous. I saw pretty girls get bullied all the time by other girls in high school. 3 times I saw the other girls actually hit the pretty one. I stepped in and basically took the beating for her since I refused to hit women. Those 3 beatings were waaaaaaaaaaay worse than any beatings I ever took from fighting other guys lol

[SkipStop]

That's pretty common with women. Other girls are jealous and try to take the beautiful girls down. Competition. Sad. And women complain that it's the men who are evil. Look at other women and compare how they treat you vs how men treat you. Is sisterhood really real?

[Mollynotgemma]

To be beautiful in looks or personality and to have both or one of the above traits will always come with the threat of bullying!
Bullies only bully those they feel inferior too!
Bully’s would never bully their equal!
Whilst bullying is probably the worst thing to experience... please try to see that you are a threat! And therefore have something that the bully wishes they have!

[lightbulb27]

you can receive negative remarks, bullied by other girls who want to take you down. I'd think so. bullied by guys that want to lower your self esteem.

I've seen beautiful girls torn up and down, how I don't have the details... just saw the results.

[InTimoreDei]

Looks are not the only factor. Ugly people get bullied, pretty people get bullied, and people that are "different" get bullied. Bullies prey on the weak mostly.

Lots of "pretty" girls are self conscious despite looking nice and the bully will capitalize on that.

[StephenCF]

Yes, because I was one of them 😣😔

But I guess it depends on the bully’s taste in people. I personally wouldn’t hate on anyone I find attractive until they started acting a bitch to me. I was never bullied by anyone who had a history of complimenting my looks, but I was still bullied by various girls throughout my childhood who seemed like they wouldn’t even hug me for a million euro, so maybe they found me ugly enough to bully, who knows? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Robeys]

This is a weird and ridiculous question. Do you think only ugly people get bullied?

People get bullied over clothes, smell, hair, money, sexual orientation, and looks.

[Asker]

Lmao so? I asked it , so what? It’s either answer or don’t.

[luvstoned4him]

all the beautiful girls bullied me and never got bullied, MY experience

although now that I look at it, I should feel sorry for them. I get it , they have such low self esteems, they want others to feel what they feel.

[PrinceVEGETA64l3]

Bullies don't give a shit if you're, rich, poor, cool, straight, gay good looking or ugly. If they want to give you shit just because they wanna then it's going to happen no matter what you do unless you knuckle up and stomp their ass.

[Sensmind]

I would not be surprised if I heard about a story like that - The looks like not be the whole story but it could be the spark of any bullying especially when there boys or attention receiving in general happening.

[AaronKrieger]

Yes, because of multiple reasons. Maybe it's due to jealousy, the person being an outcast, pissed off the wrong girls, or maybe it's due to other reasons. Being attractive doesn't mean you'll be liked by most people or be popular.

[Tinkerbot84]

It doesn't matter what you look like there is always someone out there that will try and bring you down if they have the opportunity especially in a working environment. Example... My sister works at a law firm she is gorgeous. She is a hard worker and is the best at her job so the other girls are constantly picking on her. They throw her packed lunches away. They spread false rumors and they are just plain jealous.

[Price511]

Sometimes, people want to smother every single beautiful spark so that they look better. Maybe it’s so they have less competition, maybe it’s for ego, or just for stupid reasons, but it can happen.

[PinkMichae]

Definitely. People can get jealous of a beautiful looking person. And they will bully the ones that don't even know that are beautiful. Bullies want to make people feel as bad as they feel inside.

[burlen]

Are you saying indirectly that less beautiful people get bullied than more beautiful people?

[Asker]

🤦🏽‍♀️ It’s saying do “beautiful” women also get bullied , even if they are pretty.

[burlen]

As far as I understand, people of all beauty types have faced some form of bullying from strangers, friends, family members, and partners. The question comes across as if people get (or do not get) bullied it's because of their beauty.

[Lauren-green]

Yes. A lot of people bully because of problems they are having at home, and often they actually pick on people that they are jealous of.

[UnboxedDinners]

Yes, everyone can get bullied. Just because you’re pretty or beautiful does not mean you’re immune to rude people.

[Dali-chan]

This pic look perfect for a meme lmao 😂

But got your question it’s a yes and it’s because of the green eyed monster

[OneShadeOfGrey]

People hate to see someone that is genuinely better at something than they are wether it be in looks or sports. Humans are born with pride and most people don't kick it before they turn too old to want to.