Can you be beautiful & get bullied?

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Kaazsz · Accepted Answer

Can’t say I’m beautiful cuz I’m a guy.

But I was bullied worse than most for my entire school career. From 2nd grade until 11th grade my life was a living hell.

Anyways, years and years later I come to find out that many girls at school had crushes on me. Imagine that? The loser kid with ZERO friends his entire childhood and teenage years. The lowest on the totem pole. Even the nerds and scrubs didn’t like me.

One girl I had a crush on, the hottest girl in school, my neighbor, had a crush on me! She died recently too sadly.

I have always been a good looking guy. And finding these things out has been quite a shock to me.

I’ve lived my life thus far believing I was a hideous monstrosity due to the way I was treated.

But actually girls have been always into me and the evidence has piled up enough that I can’t deny it anymore.

It’s nice but also kind of sucks. I dunno maybe my pain and suffering made me a better person. If I would have been popular and cool I’d probably be a giant piece of shit. My life would probably be better but I’d be a piece of shit.

MannMitAntworten · Accepted Answer

Yes, and I witnessed it last night towards someone I have recently been growing more involved with. She kept her composure remarkably well even when this asshole started in with personal insults then with the threats. With that I shut that effing shitbag down when she crossed the line which ultimately caused to involve two managers and two security security officers and her ejection.

My lady kept her poise. Damn impressed with her and proud of how she handled it with grace. She's a dang fine lady.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Of course.. I've studied in both schools, private and public. I was considered "ugly" at a private school. People used to say I was an ugly girl. I think it was all because of my etnicity and ignorance towards diverse beauty types. I look mixed, I have tan skin, curly hair and green eyes. Of course I wasn't the stereotype of the barbie, blond woman. When I went to high school and college, where there was much diversity. I got compliments all the time, became part of a dance team and guys started to check me out physically. Now as an adult I'm no longer bullied, and let me share that actually I feel weird sometimes since my "unusual" look is considered exotic and beautiful.

CherryRoseChampange · Accepted Answer

Yep, because of jealousy tbh. Also, people can see it as though you have no real problems because you're pretty.

So when you are in distress, it gets tossed aside. Then people try to fight you a ton because they think you're trying to mess with their SO. It's stupid shit, but at the end if the day yes. Anyone can be bullied.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Jesus got crucified for being the Son of God... anyone else don't get a pass regardless of their beauty, social status, wealth, power, etc...

jgokgotit · Answer

Mostly others who are jealous. I saw pretty girls get bullied all the time by other girls in high school. 3 times I saw the other girls actually hit the pretty one. I stepped in and basically took the beating for her since I refused to hit women. Those 3 beatings were waaaaaaaaaaay worse than any beatings I ever took from fighting other guys lol

SkipStop · Answer

That's pretty common with women. Other girls are jealous and try to take the beautiful girls down. Competition. Sad. And women complain that it's the men who are evil. Look at other women and compare how they treat you vs how men treat you. Is sisterhood really real?

Mollynotgemma · Answer

To be beautiful in looks or personality and to have both or one of the above traits will always come with the threat of bullying!
Bullies only bully those they feel inferior too!
Bully’s would never bully their equal!
Whilst bullying is probably the worst thing to experience... please try to see that you are a threat! And therefore have something that the bully wishes they have!

lightbulb27 · Answer

you can receive negative remarks, bullied by other girls who want to take you down. I'd think so. bullied by guys that want to lower your self esteem.

I've seen beautiful girls torn up and down, how I don't have the details... just saw the results.

StephenCF · Answer

Yes, because I was one of them 😣😔

But I guess it depends on the bully’s taste in people. I personally wouldn’t hate on anyone I find attractive until they started acting a bitch to me. I was never bullied by anyone who had a history of complimenting my looks, but I was still bullied by various girls throughout my childhood who seemed like they wouldn’t even hug me for a million euro, so maybe they found me ugly enough to bully, who knows? 🤷🏻‍♂️

InTimoreDei · Answer

Looks are not the only factor. Ugly people get bullied, pretty people get bullied, and people that are "different" get bullied. Bullies prey on the weak mostly.

Lots of "pretty" girls are self conscious despite looking nice and the bully will capitalize on that.

Robeys · Answer

This is a weird and ridiculous question. Do you think only ugly people get bullied?  People get bullied over clothes, smell, hair, money, sexual orientation, and looks.

luvstoned4him · Answer

all the beautiful girls bullied me and never got bullied, MY experience

although now that I look at it, I should feel sorry for them. I get it , they have such low self esteems, they want others to feel what they feel.

PrinceVEGETA64l3 · Answer

Bullies don't give a shit if you're, rich, poor, cool, straight, gay good looking or ugly. If they want to give you shit just because they wanna then it's going to happen no matter what you do unless you knuckle up and stomp their ass.

Sensmind · Answer

I would not be surprised if I heard about a story like that - The looks like not be the whole story but it could be the spark of any bullying especially when there boys or attention receiving in general happening.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yes, because of multiple reasons. Maybe it's due to jealousy, the person being an outcast, pissed off the wrong girls, or maybe it's due to other reasons. Being attractive doesn't mean you'll be liked by most people or be popular.

Tinkerbot84 · Answer

It doesn't matter what you look like there is always someone out there that will try and bring you down if they have the opportunity especially in a working environment. Example... My sister works at a law firm she is gorgeous. She is a hard worker and is the best at her job so the other girls are constantly picking on her. They throw her packed lunches away. They spread false rumors and they are just plain jealous.

Price511 · Answer

Sometimes, people want to smother every single beautiful spark so that they look better. Maybe it’s so they have less competition, maybe it’s for ego, or just for stupid reasons, but it can happen.

PinkMichae · Answer

Definitely. People can get jealous of a beautiful looking person. And they will bully the ones that don't even know that are beautiful. Bullies want to make people feel as bad as they feel inside.

burlen · Answer

Are you saying indirectly that less beautiful people get bullied than more beautiful people?

Lauren-green · Answer

Yes. A lot of people bully because of problems they are having at home, and often they actually pick on people that they are jealous of.

UnboxedDinners · Answer

Yes, everyone can get bullied. Just because you’re pretty or beautiful does not mean you’re immune to rude people.

Dali-chan · Answer

This pic look perfect for a meme lmao 😂  But got your question it’s a yes and it’s because of the green eyed monster

OneShadeOfGrey · Answer

People hate to see someone that is genuinely better at something than they are wether it be in looks or sports. Humans are born with pride and most people don't kick it before they turn too old to want to.

MajesticTwelve · Answer

It's not about how you look that will get you bullied. Try and be different, and that's all it takes.

mario_with_no_luigi · Answer

If anything, you get bullied just as much if not more due to jealousy of those around you. I get bullied by a group of guy “friends” a lot because I have a good body.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

sadly , anyone can get bullied at any time by anyone ! Thanks

311WasAnInsideJam · Answer

Yeah. Believe it or not, appearance isn't the only thing bullies go after.

Joker8 · Answer

Girls bully the beautiful girl all the time because she gets all the guys... that's really common and people neglect it because they think oh because she's beautiful of course she must be fine

curlyfritas · Answer

Of course, and the same as others. Bullying and mistreating others does not always have to have a logical reason behind it.

YHL6965 · Answer

Yes because bullies target personalities, not looks. They usually target people who don't really know how to defend themselves.

pandora92 · Answer

Yes cause some are jealous sometimes they threaten you some got physical. I got my revenge on my bully.

Swat_ · Answer

Yes, have seen this happen a lot, especially with girls.

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Whomever let them get away with it that's who they going with

CoffeeWC · Answer

Even beautiful people get bullied. Often times it's by people who are jealous. Beauty doesn't stop bullies.

Pulimuli · Answer

Ofc you can Girls are usually jealous in school  A good looking guy can be bullied by other guys if he's odd

DDpsy · Answer

Yeah. The only thing that is a factor is the power differential between the bully and their victim.

LuWe22 · Answer

I was bullied for being shy and my laugh. Still people called me beautiful

RobLovesDemi1234 · Answer

happens to me all the time and i'm left with resorting to bullying back the bully

Anonymous · Answer

Trump thinks he's gods gift to women.. but, he's bullied... why? Cause he deserves it. Why? Cause he bullies others

Anonymous · Answer

Of course, sweetie, let's take a minute of silence for all the beautiful yet bullied poor, poor victim souls.

Xavier1954 · Answer

They get bullied because they are attractive, the others are jealous.

jimmy2 · Answer

You can be more beautiful than the average girl and some will get jealous of you.

Anonymous · Answer

of course. why else could i possibly have got bullied?

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

They tried but they failed.

JHBgirl · Answer

I got bullied BECAUSE I was beautiful.

CandacePerry · Answer

I was good looking and still got bullied by girls.

lex123456789 · Answer

Bullying can be caused by jealousy

saeyamazaki · Answer

Anyone can get bullied.

Neeceeb7 · Answer

Anyone can be bullied

Iron_Man · Answer

Maybe some but they have support from men

JKingOff · Answer

It's called jealousy, it's pretty common.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Of course as it makes you stand out.

WTFever · Answer

Yeah, it is highly possible.

Anonymous · Answer

Anyone can get bullied by anyone

Daniel3035 · Answer

UMM your only ever bullied if your beautiful lol.

H0LLYW00DH0GAN · Answer

Of course jealous bitches will do it

Gedaria · Answer

Sadly beauty is no defense from the bully...

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

Yes, out of jealousy.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Out of jealousy which is like 80% of the time yep

iFarted · Answer

Yes, mean jealous girls will bully

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. Jealousy can be a nasty thing.

Anonymous · Answer

I really enjoy bullying pretty girls 😁

Secret6620 · Answer

Absolutely 😢

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