Do attractive people get bullied?

[arcanemontane]

Have you ever seen a good looking person being isolated or bullied?

[Anonymous]

Yes, absolutely. This kind of behavior happens a lot more often with women than men but as a good looking cute quiet guy I also got bullied all throughout my life. It wasn't physical bullying but I often got ostracisized by my peers during lunch, class, or gym. It's funny because whenever I was with girls or talk to girls they are so friendly and smiley because they aren't jealous of my looks like guys are. What I say to you is to make more guy friends than girls or find girl friends that aren't 2 faced or jealous it may be hard but there are girls like that out there. That's why now I don't go out of my way to talk to guys unless they are genuinely nice or don't care about looks and like me for who I am. I do however talk to the ladies ;).

[Virgin1992]

No.

I got bullied by such persons during my whole life. Ok "good looking" is a rather personal thing. Maybe someone out there thinks that I do look good then the answer would be "yes".

But I can't believe people who say "you look good" to me. Because I was bullied by girls (and boys who wanted to "impress " these girls) for my appearance.

[ryanthehill]

Bullying comes in all forms, just because they aren't cornered and taunted , shoved into lockers, etcetera doesn't mean they do not get bullied. Every rumor you hear , is bullying, every rude comment posted on there page, is bullying. They have insecurities too. They have people who don't like them. Being pretty or handsome does not shield you from others disapproval and spite.

[thottiana]

So everyone’s a bully now?

[ryanthehill]

No. Not every one is a bully. Just some actions are considered to be bullying. But any one can be a bully.

[thottiana]

Everyone says something rude about someone

[ryanthehill]

Which is bullying.

[thottiana]

So everyone’s a bully

[thottiana]

Everyone talks shit, everyone says something mean about someone, I wouldn’t say that’s bullying that’s just life

[witherwing]

Bullying is often due to a different appearance, because it's the easiest thing to grasp, but attractive people can get bullied for example different behavioral patterns or dissenting opinions.

[Angelina25]

Bullies enjoy bullying a person
I'm sure they don't consider the attractiveness of a person beforehand.

[Lednnar]

I did get bullied on my whole schooling and even by jalousy of my "attractiveness" and "humor". But really, it's just a random reason to get bullied, because at this point, everything i'd do, would be a good excuse to get bullied...
And i didn't see any bullying on the girls side, even for the prettiest ones.
So its not about acttractiveness but more about your intentions...

[chameleon3081]

It does happen, but not as often. Sad truth is that people considered ugly, like myself, appear as easy targets for bullies.

Let me take this opportunity to say, if you are being bullied, speak to someone. Be it a loved one or friend, the main thing is you're not alone, and it's dangerous to bury feelings of hurt. If you have no one to talk to, try your school counselor, or government helplines.

[VvaCc]

They sure do.. Attractive people get bullied for being attractive.. Maybe someone envies them for the a magnet of the opposite gender.. They'll say he/she thinks she's all that..

[MusicMayhem]

Hot girls bullied by other girls, sure. But I've never seen hot guys being bullied. They're usually pretty confident so take it in their stride I guess if it happens. Less affected than girls.

[jennifer_bloom]

Yes. When I was in elementary school and high school I got bullied BECAUSE I was attractive. When I was middle school I got bullied because I was shy and smart.

[Anonymous]

Probably not right In their face but behind their back people can be pretty mean. When I was In high school, all my friends talked a lot of crap about the pretty girls. They would even start rumours and lies to give them a bad reputation but that's just jealousy.

[Opinion Owner]

Personally I got attacked few times. I was very chubby and around age 17 I lost a lot of weight. So everyone started saying I was probably sick or bulimic.

[Sawyerblu]

I was bullied my entire school life 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m guessing it’s a jealousy thing? I don't know even some girls in my sorority hated me for no reason whatsoever.

[pianoche]

What ever you are and what ever you think doesn't matter the point is good luck is what everyone needs i got always a bad luck in what ever i do its hard to manage things with bad luck

[azzntittiz]

All the time, people act like they do not see it, but everyone here knows it happens a lot. This is why good looking people tend to become loners, mean or hang with their own kind.

[angelxangel]

I frequently get left out of things and out of groups because people are "intimidated at first" according to others. It sucks because I'm really shy and self conscious as it is, I don't need added pressure based on my "good looks"(which I don't see anyway).

[riverplate7]

I’m not ugly and I got slut shamed all my high school career even though I literally did nothing to deserve it like I’m a virgin still for Pete’s sake! I think that mean/rotten/evil don’t discriminate

[9teen]

I think good-looking guys are usually the bully and good-looking girls the victims of the bully of other (envious) girls.

[Pikachula]

Yes they do, I saw it happen once, because they assumed she would be arrogant. They had something to say about everything she did, but believe me she really wasn't ugly at all. 😅

[Anonymous]

yes if they have low self esteem but if they are a confident attractive person most people will be intimidated by them and are less likely to bully them

[MemeSupreme]

Yeah of course they do. Anyone can get bullied for any reason.

[MzAsh]

Yes it happens a lot. I used to be insulted a lot for being skinny but then years later I’ve had those people admit they were secretly envious.

[CandacePerry]

I got bullied about two girls name Chloe. they were not the hot girls. I have other issue with others girls in past.

[damoM]

I was. Being attractive didn't stop me from being bullied a lot for wearing glasses. This was in the 90s before Harry Potter etc made glasses socially acceptable

[crazy8000]

Yes!
The usual cause is that the bulli feel threatened for their beauty (competition) (most common amongst girls).
You have some other causes also that sometimes are also the reason.

[chrisv]

Sure. I think in lots of cases, there’s a “tall poppy syndrome “ that makes some people think they have a right to “bring down “ higher achievers of good looking folk to their level.

[bbygirlx]

People ask me if I’m a model yet I got bullied my whole schooling experience

[Finchie40]

Yes, because they are jealous they aren't good looking so they take it out on someone that is

[Worrieddd]

Yes. I ran cross country in college and I looked like a super model and I was bullied. Girls were jealous I was faster and were horrible to be . Hot and bullied at 19.

[Alice2398]

Yes because everyone assumes you have it easy so they want to make you suffer because there jealous

[Anonymous]

Yes sometimes girls are treated more hostile by other girls if they’re attractive. Maybe it’s the same for guys too.

[Ubugginout]

Of course. Actually that's what jealousy is about. Attractive people can get bullied because others are jealous and wish they looked like them

[OatsnWhey]

My girlfriend got bullied by being called a sort when she was younger because she’s attractive and has big boobs.

[Prof_Don]

I've seen it happen (as a teacher and a former student). Jealousy is rampant amongst that age group

[TinaSP]

Never happened to me. Beautiful people normally are the bullies right?

[Sha84]

normally is ugly or fat girls as attractive girls have bad boys around to protect them

[LIM1T]

Anyone can get bullied because the other person is envious such as being really attractive

[YoungSandwiches]

Yeah, at my school, the freaks and geeks would always make fun of the popular girls perfect hair and firm, well toned ass.

[name_is_eric]

I have not, I believe attractive people are not an "easy target".
Maybe some shit-talking behind one's back, but other than that I don't think so.

[Titan123]

Honestly no it's the opposite but then again I've never seen someone as society call ugly alone either. Each of them have there own groups

[Borrkan]

Yes they do. Sometimes they are being ahut down just cause they are good looking and therefore probably arrogant self loving jerks which is false more often than true.

[Anonymous]

they're protected by other people usually. and people look at u weirdly when u try to bully someone attractive.

[Anonymous]

Yes.. usually because they're attractive and attract attention and the person is jealous

[pinayfit]

There are no bullies if you won’t let them bully you.

[thottiana]

That doesn’t happen where I’m from. If your attractive, you’re automatically popular.

[betaTester]

Yes. Mostly in middle school or high school though. In uni it's just the usual rivalry

[Confidenceoverload]

I’ve never been bullied and I’m quite attractive if I do say so myself

[getdatbooty]

Usually bullied by people who are jealous that they are better looking than them

[ChristianBateman]

Yes, they do. It’s very common actually, especially among girls. Usually because they’re jealous.

[Daphne93]

I did I had this 2 girls they were stealing my yogurt and things.

[Tohhru]

Everyone gets bullied , attractive people too because the uglies are jealous

[TheUglyMan]

Hell yeah women bully the friends their jealous of seen it before

[TheGentlemanGMR]

Several occasions where I have been bullied just because I looked different from others in school

[mactallica]

You get bullied for being a attractive heterosexual white person.

[tryme813]

Isolated because of her beauty, most men are intimidated by beauty

[Masire]

Yes, they tend to stand out more and as they say... the nail that sticks out most gets hammered

[pizzaman123]

If it happens to someone pretty that falls underone. . word. Jeolesy.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I was bullied FOR being attractive when I was like 11.

[Anonymous]

no, not really, I love bulling ugly shit 😂😂😂😂😂

[justamom]

Yes, not by men tho... By women

[Purin]

Attractive outlook don't make you invincible.

[lovelyboys]

if they ain't confident, yes.

[boggboss]

I have not no but probably those happen

[kitface99]

Yes , people can be intimidated by them

[xZoeyx]

Yes.

[DualityGreen]

Yes. Everyone has a bully.