I had this situation with my girlfriend, while not as extreme as scenario as his, I wouldn't shave my beard. I told her if she stopped dying her hair colors then I would shave, she never stopped dying it. So it's mutual.
@kim45456 I’m saying that a mans attachment to his beard can equal that of a woman and her hair, so if she doesn’t want him to ask her to shave her head then why complain when he said no to her request, at the end of the day it’s his hair and he has the right to wear it how it works
Accept it or if it is intolerable, break up. With so many people around there is no reason for you or him to stay and be miserable.
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Accept the fact that he wants to grow a beard. However, you should make subtle hints that you like nice trimmed beards. If he is still into you and wants to present himself in a manner that impresses you, he will take notice and trim it. Scraggly beards are not a gentlemanly thing to have.
Buy him a beard care kit. A lot of what you described can be mitigated by proper maintenance. Beard oil, beard balm, wax and beard shampoo do wonders to a beard.
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It's his beard and his choice. He shouldn't have to cut it if he doesn't want to.
Finally! A normal woman! I thought we're doomed.
@Unit1 Haha yup. It does look that way.
Girls like you are what's left in my hopes of finding a girlfriend. ☺
@Unit1 Haha. Thank you.
Get him a nice grooming kit, a good beard oil, get him home trim it for him after you playfully Seduce him. then reward him for good behavior
Goddamn, your husband is a lucky fucker
@EmbraceThePain well the downvotes indicate that people don’t like purchasing sensible gifts or seducing people so I don't know.
If you don’t mind, I’d like you to expand and articulate the “then reward him for good behavior” piece of your response.
What exactly and specifically do you mean? 😏
@EmbraceThePain all guys are like shaggy they love Scooby snacks
I had this situation with my girlfriend, while not as extreme as scenario as his, I wouldn't shave my beard. I told her if she stopped dying her hair colors then I would shave, she never stopped dying it. So it's mutual.
What would you do when she stop shaving his body hair? Beard is actually bodyhair
@kim45456 don't care if she wanna grow hair
He not taking care of himself I would say.. Ask him again and ask him why doesn't he want to shave it and tell him how u feel
Very much this.
According to the post, she never asked the guy why he's happy growing it out. He may have a good reason.
Yes I agrkee
Sorry typo agree
All good, yo.
Just stop kissing, he'll probably trim it eventually
If it’s a big enough deal drop him. I refuse to shave and wouldn’t want to be with a woman who’s angry about that.
Beards can be sexy! Be honest with him and tell him it's a turn off when food gets stick in it etc. Be straightforward but gentle about it.
really, of all the people to give a thumbs down to.. What is this world coming to! pfft... lol
Would you chop off all your hair if he wanted you to? If the answer is no then you know how he feels
The thing is many men wan shaved woman. Would you say the same shit when it comes to female bodyhair?
@kim45456 I’m saying that a mans attachment to his beard can equal that of a woman and her hair, so if she doesn’t want him to ask her to shave her head then why complain when he said no to her request, at the end of the day it’s his hair and he has the right to wear it how it works
Deal with it. He's probably not telling you what to wear or about makeup so leave his beard alone and live with it
Accept it or if it is intolerable, break up. With so many people around there is no reason for you or him to stay and be miserable.
Accept the fact that he wants to grow a beard. However, you should make subtle hints that you like nice trimmed beards. If he is still into you and wants to present himself in a manner that impresses you, he will take notice and trim it. Scraggly beards are not a gentlemanly thing to have.
Threat him to tell that if he won’t shave then you won’t give him kisses him. Or dump him🤷🏻♀️ simple as that.
Buy him a beard care kit. A lot of what you described can be mitigated by proper maintenance. Beard oil, beard balm, wax and beard shampoo do wonders to a beard.
Tell him you will stop shaving everything until he does.
Hahaha i recommend the same advice
@kim45456 lol. Maybe he doesn’t care.
My boyfriend doesn't care what I don't shave so
Oh really? Your boyfriend is so cute
If you have been keeping your pubic hair shaved. . . grow your own beard!
if you dont like it, leave, you have no right to tell him what to do. Saying you dont like it is fine but asking him to shave was wrong.
It’s almost duck season. He can’t shave until after duck season (see Duck Dynasty.)
Confront him directly. If he really likes his beard better than you, he should get his priorities straight.
Or you should.
If u love him pls stop asking him about that and just accept how he looks like and realize that he is happy with how he looks like,
Take it easy baby
I am just curious. How would you react if your girlfriend stop shaving her whole body?