He won't shave his beard. NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM THIS WAY! What do I do?

So my boyfriend of 5+ years, always had the 5 o clock shadow look when I first met him. He might grow some facial hair here and there (hunting season, etc) but never so long I couldn't stand it. But for the past two ye
He won't shave his beard. NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM THIS WAY! What do I do?


ars it's been a battle between us. he's let it grow to the point where he looks homeless. I've tried everything to get him to shave. Withheld sex, physical contact, I've even told him how unattractive it is to me. like so unnatractive I can't even look at him durring sex cause its such a turn off. Can't kiss him cause I get grossed out or worse hair in my mouth. He uses products so it breaks my face out. I am just not attracted to him. It's been a two year fight now, and I'm growing tired and my patience is growing thin, unlike his Grizzly Adams looking face. 3 years of love, passion, and awesome sex. Has all come to a hault. Can someone tell me why my opinion matters so little? Why he would rather grow an atrocious beard and hurt me? And act like he doesn't care? Sex for me is aweful, physical contact is aweful... why would he rather me become distant from him then just shave off the dumb beard? Now before I get the comments saying how selfish I am... I have tried to compromise with him. Hunting seasons or even just a few months out of the year of his choosing. I could deal with that. But now I feel so disrespected at this point. Two loonnng year
He won't shave his beard. NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM THIS WAY! What do I do?


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He won't shave his beard. NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM THIS WAY! What do I do?
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