Should tall girls wear heels?

[Anonymous]

Tall
is over : 5’8

Yes

No

[randomguy4321]

If you want to, I guess. If you’re going out that night with a specific guy and the heels would make you taller than him, than perhaps not. Perhaps not in general, actually. I know most of the comments are going to say, “You do you girl! If a guy doesn’t like it, that’s on him!” But, you can get these type comments anywhere irl. I feel like that’s not really what this site is for. Most men aren’t wildly enthusiastic about the idea of pursuing a girl who’s taller than him. But, also, heels are considered to be attractive by many. So, there are trade offs. Although, 5’8” isn’t all that tall, either. That’s kinda tall, not very tall. If you have plans with a specific guy and heels would make you taller or the same height, then I’d advice against it. Especially if you don’t know him well yet. If it’s a night on the town with no specific man, then I’d say that’s a judgment call. I’m a tall man and prefer smaller/shorter/women, so I’ve never been in this situation, personally, but I do know that most men prefer to be at least slightly taller. Do with that information what you will.

[JackSmy]

If they want to, why not? I dated volleyball players in college, and some were at least an inch or two taller than me, being almost 6 foot 1! Some would wear 2-3 inch heals, on dates, because of their dress, and they wanted to look HOT, and it never bothered me, being taller than me, in heals! Even taller, without heals! So what!! I think a confident man doesn't have a problem with his sexuality, or confidence, with a taller, or stronger woman, or whatever differences you can think of!
It's between the two of you, and your relationship, and not what others think or how they judge!

[CubsterShura]

From a fashion/aesthetic standpoint, do whatever the hell you like, everyone can rock those pumps. From a health standpoint, no one should really wear heels very frequently as it's bad for your feet, legs and spine. And it actually puts more pressure and less stability on taller women because of greater height.

So yeah, rock those heels, in moderation. Let your feet rest.

[susie22]

Why not? I'm 5'9", and I LOVE my heels! I don't have a problem being taller than a guy, and most guys are OK with it, but some guys seem insecure about having the girl taller than they are. I dated a guy once who was about 5'9", and he actually didn't want me to wear high heels, because it would make him look "foolish" his exact words, lol!

[HerLucidNightt]

If tall girls wearing heels is wrong, I don't wanna be right.

[chrissykerdock]

I've had 2 short boyfriends 5 3 both of them i'm 5 10 and both insisted I wear heels... heels also make your thighs look better which is why they probably have women wear them... there's a reason for these things... thighs and short dresses/skirts all are worn for a reason.. make up

[Oram52]

When you were dating your BFs who were 5-3 how did you find it? Were there any issues? How did you find general reaction was you dating guys 7 inch shorter than you, did you have to face any negative comments for example?

[chrissykerdock]

@Oram52 both were Italian and made me laugh a lot... both loved blowjobs as do a lot of Italian men... very passionate and not afraid of having an evening of cocksucking good food and wine... yes I felt so tall but they loved me in heels and short dresses and it didn't bother them so it didn't bother me.

[Fashionpioneer]

Tall women have an incredible presence and high heels just adds to it.

Just so long as they STAND UP STRAIGHT!

I hate seeing women who are taller than average with stooped shoulders. It doesn't make them look shorter; it only makes them look painfully insecure. And I do mean painfully!

[RickPen]

I don't think high heels should be worn by anyone. It's murder on the knees and ankles, especially after years of wearing them. Function before form, though I admit the idea is uncommon today.

[musicbrain5]

Sure, why the hell not? I’m 6’1”, and while I don’t wear heels often because they bother my feet, I’ve always been complimented when I wear them. I don’t see why they should only be reserved for short girls.

[Oram52]

How did you find dating guys shorter than you? Did you get any negative reaction?

[musicbrain5]

@Oram52 I never dated guys shorter than me because they never wanted to go out with me.

[Oram52]

I suppose their loss :) I do find it unusual though.

[abc3643]

If a guy can't deal with a woman's height, that's his problem, not hers.

[Uhphyshal]

personally i don't like heels. they look uncomfortable, and from what girls have told me, they are uncomfortable. i don't know why you'd where something that hurts you later. i guess height could be a factor. 5'8" from my perspective is still short. i guess it's mostly because i live with my dad who's 6'5", but yeah, if i see a girl who's 5'8" i'm probably not gonna say "wow you're tall." cuz you aren't.

[Uhphyshal]

also, it doesn't look good. wearing heels too much can lead to corns and bunions.

[HerLucidNightt]

"personally i don't like heels. they look uncomfortable". Then don't wear them, sis.

[Uhphyshal]

i don't. i'm a guy by the way.

[HerLucidNightt]

I know.

[Uhphyshal]

also me saying "i personally don't like heels" shows that it's my opinion. it is a fact that it is opinion. this isn't supposed to offend anyone. if i struck a nerve i apologize. if you're just looking to criticize, then that's fine. idc. however, i mean no offense by my words. they are just my thoughts

[HerLucidNightt]

It was a joke... no one's offended.

[HerLucidNightt]

A common one at that

[Uhphyshal]

oh, ok. it's a bit hard to tell on the internet. plus i'm generally bad at socializing anyway.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

To each is own & if a tall girl wants to wear high heels more power to her & if she wants to wear stilts that’s ok too.

[spuitkaas]

I'm 5'7 and I don't really wear heels a lot, but I do wear platform shoes a lot. I really like being tall and I like the edgy look. Sometimes I'm almost 6' but I don't care.

[M1k3y]

They can wear whatever they want to wear. Just don't complain that men need to be taller so that they can wear shoes.

[CupcakeKiller]

I'm about 5'10". I wear heels when I feel like it 💁🏼

[Numbnuts89]

Why?

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 because I feel like it.

[Numbnuts89]

That's not a legit reason

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 it's literally the only reason I need.

[Numbnuts89]

No, I'd like to know why, as a 5'10" girl, you wear heels

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 I already gave you my honest answer. It's clearly not satisfactory for you, which doesn't matter. I wear heels, when I feel like it. You can lose sleep over it if you want dude.

[Numbnuts89]

i would get it if a 5'3" girl wants to, but, a 5'10"?

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 It doesn't matter if you get it.

[Numbnuts89]

K, i don't know why you're on here

[musicbrain5]

@Numbnuts89 You’re really living up to your name.

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 also because I feel like it.

[Numbnuts89]

Eh, just sayin'

[Oram52]

@Numbnuts89 Maybe because she looks sexy and hot? What 5-10 got to do with it. She wouldn't wear them if majority of guys didn't like them. And short girls don't wear heels to be taller.

[Numbnuts89]

Short girls DO wear them, to be taller. Otherwise, they wouldn't wear them at all

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 lmao you are so tilted. That's not even universally true.

[Numbnuts89]

Nope, I know it's true

Lots of women don't like the, but, the ones who do wear them, wear them for height, THATS IT

[CupcakeKiller]

@Numbnuts89 hahahahahahaha. Ok buddy. Not true but... ok.

[Numbnuts89]

Yes, it's true but, we'll agree to disagree

[EmmaMary]

Well I'm 5' 10" and I wear heels (max 4") for special events/occasions.

[Quackthulu]

If they feel so inclined. You should base what you wear off what you want to wear, not what other people think you should wear.

[kyroxiss]

Of course, evryone should be able to wear whatever they want; if a tall girl feels good in heels, then she definitely should wear them !

[SpiderManFan2002]

If she wants to wear them, yes.

If she doesn't want to wear them, nope.

[Aiasis]

Models do it all the time. 😎

[Oram52]

Love tall girls and looooove when they wear heels. Sexy. Absolutely no reason not to wear heels. Models tend to be 5-8+ yet wear heels.

[lauraa9963]

I don't know its not too cute it a giant with heels arrives. Im 5'7 and i feel like im too tall for it

[Oram52]

Absolutely not tall at all believe me :)

[Kreneman]

I love it when a woman wears Heels and to me, it doesn't matter on how tall they're especially when they know there Beauty style in fashion.

[ItzLaura]

I'm 5'9 and I totally would if I wasn't a tomboy and could walk in them lol