Hi guys, so I am meeting my crush for the first time tomorrow and we are going to town for lunch. I am not sure whether I should wear shorts or jeans. Bear in mind I live somewhere hot so shorts would be whether appropriate however I’m not sure if that would be too casual. Jeans woodwork to however I’m not sure about the style of them. What do you guys think? Also my arms are really sunburnt and peeling, but I think a Hoody and jeans would look weird. What do you guys think? I need help! I’m so bad at choosing clothes.
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Sorry I was using voice to text- I meant *weather appropriate and *would work
Depends on how short your shorts are, but a lot of them that girls are wearing nowadays are too short, and show the butt crease when you move. (Are the white inside pockets hanging down, and you can see them past the length of the shorts? That's too short. That's going to come off as sexual, he won't be able to get his mind off that area and onto the conversation.)
Don't wear a hoodie in summer. Yep, it looks weird. He might think you're a cutter, and that's a much, much worse thing than a peeling sunburn. Just show your arms, take a light jacket or sweater with you in case you get chilly and want to cover up. The sunburn gives you something to talk about, anyway.
Think comfortable, because fussing with clothing just makes a person look not at ease. Think about colour, and something feminine. You don't need to look generic, or look like a guy. He probably wants to see you as a girl, different from him. So give him something pretty to look at.
Amanda!!! thanks so much, this was literally soo helpful 🤍 you’re right i never thought about that he might think i’m a cutter if i wear a hoodie it’s just im so insecure about my arms, the sunburn is there but also i have freckles on my arms which i hate! but you’re probably right a hoodie would be weird and i’d be way too hot anyway 💗💜
So I think that a hoodie and jeans would look weird if you're experiencing hot weather. I have a higher tolerance for heat so I do it anyways, but my vote goes for jeans in terms of what would conventionally look better. Also those jeans aren't really in a style I like but maybe you could pull it off
Ah 17. You guys can get away with so much as far as clothes.
Shorts yes. Boyfriend jeans are fine but its the middle of summer. Shorts make more sense. Gotta wear a nice top though. Go for a loose fitting linen or cotton top with big sleeves so it covers your arms but is loose enough to let in air. Peeling skin at any age is not the biggest turn-on. Maybe try scrubbing your arms first and then a healthy dose of lotion. Have fun!
I saw "woodwork" and I thought it was going to be a carpentry question. 😉😂 Text-to-speech never gets it right.
How do you know that you already like this person if you've never met him? Anyway, shorts and a t-shirt should be fine. It's summertime. Nice and casual. Good luck. 👍
I think you should wear shorts and dress them up with a cute top and a belt and some accessories. You could dress up jeans or shorts either way, wear Shorts if it’s too hot. Also I think a hoodie is a bit too causal for a date so maybe a t shirt or a cute top. Good luck on your date
where a nice , cool and comfy below the knee dress that covers your cleavage and is loose fitting too ! a plus would be wearing matching flats and the correct underwear like a long slip or a half slip , bra and panties too ! you could also wear a loose fitting top that is not low cut and a matching below the knee skirt and flats just to let this crush know that you are a lady and no one to be taken advantage of ! thanks
First thought: what's the weather forecast say? Secondly, where are you going to lunch? If it's going to be hot, and not somewhere formal, you might do well with shorts and a thin, long-sleeved shirt. That way you should be okay with the heat, and your arms will be covered.
Dress how you would on a normal day. If you dress super slutty or super nice, that will be the main expectation the rest of your potential relationship.
are you saying i look weird because I wear hoodies and jeans all the time? haha. I'd go with the jeans for real though. Too much skin might become a distraction from getting to talk and know each other better.
you’re right thanks! if it’s not too hot i’ll wear the jeans. Hahaah also noo! jeans and a hoodie looks good, i meant shorts and a hoodie! do you think they would look weird?
no it's good. but u said it's hot. and I was saying your legs might become a huge distraction when you're first trying to get to know someone better. haha. but you could go for it.
If you're just going for lunch opt for something cute, casual and comfortable. I really like the style on the last picture, however if the weather is extremely hot wear a pair of shorts instead.
I'd go shorts if its hot. But then jeans can protect you if you susceptible to sunburn on your legs considering you already have problems with your arms.
