How to handle the fact that you're ugly, short, and lonely?

[lsksni]

It's like a never ending battle.

[kidvid80]

let me try and make some points here to help you think this out better.
personality makes a huge 'uuuuuge! difference, yes i said 'uge.

case in point pictures below first is "big ed" from 90 day fiance
he is like 5 foot tall not exactly what people would say is appealing right? well watch some of his videos his personality is dog shit how he treats people etc, makes him look like an ugly individual both physically and mentally.

now look at danny devito 5 foot tall as well basically same build as big ed, again not everyones cup of tea, however watch some of his interviews his personality makes him attractive he is funny and down to earth which makes everything come together he is friggin adorable!

how to handle it you ask? work on your PERSONALITY the inner you, your talents, hobbies, dont just say whoa is me, im ugly, im short and hell most of us are lonely. be more adaptable in your situation if YOU feel your looks are a problem. i am 4'11 its just life, would i like to be 5'10 with a dancers legs (lol) sure but i gots thick short legs that get the job done at the end of the day. i do the very best i can and be the very best person i can. f*ck anyone who wants to criticize that.

[user1245322]

that is so true though, excellent comment and great points! :)

[lsksni]

Thank you. I am 5'6" and have body frame on the wider side. Do you think clothes can help me to look a little more slender?

[kidvid80]

5'6? thats considered short? way taller then me and yes clothes can

[lsksni]

Everyone says it's short for a guy.

[kidvid80]

the right person will look right past your height if they like you they like you the person you are

[BakedBeanieBabie]

I'm short, not ugly or only, so I don't relate but, therapy is standard for most people.

[friendzoned4life]

Therapy won't help.

For me only thing that helped to feel confident.

Read 12 rules for life by Jordan b. peterson at least one chapter a week even the chapter about parenting doesn't matter if you have kids

Get a haircut, complete New style.

Get an adult clothing style. (Office casual)

Bad teeth? Say bye to your money and get them fixed. Took me about 12 weeks including surgery.

Don't have a job you're happy with? Get another job. Unless this job will help you get that job u actually want than Just stay strong.

And most importantly Delete every dating profile u have

[Peppermint55]

Same here boy. You can do nothing other than to pretend that its alright.

[The_Maphio]

It's not like you can do anything about any of those, so you better learn to live with it.
For the lonely part, at least, you can always do something. Just go out there and meet people. You'll find somebody who enjoys your company, provided you don't only talk about how miserable you feel. That'd make the Dalai Lama run.

[genericname85]

well simple. is there something wrong with being ugly short and lonely? being ugly and short is nothing you can help. but being lonely is a decision that you have massive influence on. so if you are lonely, that's a choice. and if you don't wanna be lonely, it is in your power to change that.

[Anonymous]

That's a tough combo.
It's better to be good looking, short and well endowed.
I guess you can work on the ugly and lonely parts.
You could try to improve your appearance and lonely is just a state of mind.
Find things that you enjoy doing to occupy your time.
I could look at women's asses all day, but it doesn't mean I need her company.
I jerk off, then I've got a million other things I'd rather do than be under her control.

[Unbeatable]

In most cases, in ninety nine percent of cases, a situation can be improved with effort. Show your humility you've shown us to a worthy teacher. Humility is money to a teacher.

[meleyy]

I never feel ugly, I am not short I am 1.73m and I also have friends and family offline

[KrakenAttackin]

You handle this by focusing on yourself. Develop skills, your mind, your fitness, your wealth. The pooty will follow.

[Anonymous]

Rise above it
I focus on my skills and how the translates to a fat wallet

[FictionalCharacter]

It is what it is

[lsksni]

How do you tackle it friend?

[es20490446e]

By realizing you aren't that bad.

[4dmins-4-13itches]

Try to find others like you

[apachej17]

It really takes time to handle honestly baby steps

[jahaims]

By accepting it