Do fat or chubby girls feel like they have to try harder?

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Do fat or chubby girls feel like they need to try harder to get noticed by guys or to reach a certain value? Personally, I don't think value is determined by weight. Yet, I've noticed my significantly bigger friends always seem to be going all out and doing extra stuff. I'm just wondering if they feel like they have to compensate because lets just be real... most guys wouldn't pick a fat or chubby girl with a muffin top and huge thighs over an in shape, toned girl with a nice body. I've met some bigger girls who go all out when it comes to fashion, hair, make-up, and often try to sneak in comments about girls who are smaller than them to feel better about how big they are. I also know a chunky girl who is just 18, but tries really hard to be wifey material. After talking to her, I think it's because she feels a need to try and out win any other female, mainly skinny, prettier girls than her. I get that vibe because of so Like she tries to make herself seem like this girl who’s so mature and independent and together, but she comes to me for free therapy sessions all the time and I see the real her. Anyway, bigger girls, can you relate to this? I’m just curious what the thought process is like for you guys?me things she's said. It's all just an act though lol
Do fat or chubby girls feel like they have to try harder?
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