Is it okay to wear heels for a 13 year old?

[Lilli188]

[ChrisMaster69]

For certain occasions yes, but heel height is a bit of a nightmare, as balance sucks and you run risk of damaging ankle etc.

a kitten heel is the highest you should go.

also practice walking in them.
Your feet will hurt, it’s often best to take a pair of flats to shove on or get used to bare feet.

[ChrisMaster69]

Thanks for SO AI Choice

[Adam1978]

I would advice against it. Not only is your feet still developing so the damage they do to your feet is not only more permanent it's also means more time for the damage to actually happen. That said it really depends how much you use them. Since they are bad for your feets, there is no reason to ever use them.

[abc3643]

"kitten heels"

However, personally, I would prefer my 13-year old daughter to not have heels. She's still a girl and nowhere near a woman and the last thing I'd want is to fetishize her for pedos with heels. She'll grow up soon enough - no need to hasten the inevitable.

[abc3643]

@Lilli188, you are 13 so it's obvious that this question is about you. Why are you asking this question? What is going on? Also, tell us your opinion of this question... what do you want the answer to be?

[DWornock]

Why not? Except for the last 140 years, most 13 year old girls would be considered old enough to marry. Shakespeare's Juliet was two week shy of 14 when she was to be engaged and at that time, people, including her parents, didn't think she was too young.

[KWill90]

No. 13 is a child. High heels are used to increase height and appeal. There's no reason for a 13 year old to need that. Buy a pair of converse and go play with your friends. You'll have plenty of time for dressing up when you get older.

[pyrocrypt]

Not at all in my opinion. I've heard heels hurt your feet pretty bad. I'd say 16 is the youngest to wear genuine heels.
You can always wear a shoe with a small, flat heel and that shouldn't hurt or cause issue

[Massageman]

A shorter heel would be fine, and more in keeping with your age.

Enjoy each year that is given to you, and don't be in a rush to grow older. Time will still be moving at 168 hours per week, now and tomorrow.

[Kaneki05]

A teen can make a more self aware choice of the own. So yes.

[Colman]

Terrible idea at any age. My mom wore heels into her 50's before the ugly deformities and constant pain won out.

[Surely]

I saw an older woman who wore high heels all of her life and now she cannot walk normally. Only on her toes.

[Anonymous]

You're going to be such a pretty girl when you're 18

[sponge-bob]

Nobody should wear heels they look trashy and make your leg muscles all messed up

[LeeannaDD]

Yes but nothing too high.

[In_Trance]

Sure. Not necessary though

[Anonymous]

I'd allow it if I had a 13 year old kid.

[more_than_a_guy]

Nope, let kids be kids

[rachel776]

sure why not

[austinbooth]

Yes it is

[NorthwestRider]

Of course it is okay

[Iron_Man]

To young

[Adam_West]

yes but how high?

[TallAnon]

Sure

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.