You don’t sit and wait for it if you want to grow your goodies do it For example I won’t I’m going to wax til I die but I urge you or she / to totally do as you feel. It gets normalized by you doing it not a government or people approve it.
Social acceptance isn't the issue. It's a personal hygiene preference first of all and secondly it's a matter of what kind of person you want to attract. The more body hair the more specific your target demographic becomes. Personally I think it's gross for either gender to make a show of armpit hair. As for the other hair that's implied by the broad question, depends on the maintenance. Beards are fine, Mustaches are creepy and trimming is a sign of self respect.
Body hair on a woman show to all the society how much care does she take of herself, is inestetical and we are not cave people anymore. Even some guys start to take off moust of theyr body hair, depand on person is accepted. But a woman whit that kinde of hair, is dezgusting and a man perfetly shaved arywhere is the same.
What do you mean socially acceptable? Is that in terms of getting male attention. because i dont think any one cares how you groom yourself. I just dont think you can expect everyone to find it attractive. Is that your real question? When will body hair be seen as attractive on women. Long time i think
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It should be and to some extent it is. Tbh i only shave my legs when there is some party and stuff. Not on regular basis. Donno why people find body hairs on girls to be gross but okay in case of guys. Its a natural stuff. Hygiene is keeping yourself clean. Body hairs ain't dirty. Bath everyday 😂
It's because the girl looks more feminine smooth all over, I am a guy and I like feeling feminine by waxing my whole body then what's the matter with women.
@smallandtiny you like doing that. Some girls do that not because yhey like.. they feel obligated that if they dont people will find them gross and unattractive. So it should be normalized so that some dont feel obligated and do what they feel like. Feeling obligated to do that is bad If someone likes doing that.. then its cool
@smallandtiny yeah good for you. I feel clean and not smelly with my body hair as well. Even if its easy thats simply not my thing. I don't feel like i need to so i dont. Why do some extra work.
You feel clean and not smelly, ask others around you, and it's looks hideous especially on women.
Literally my nightmare is marrying someone like you and cuddling her when she raises her arm there's a bunch of hair.
And since women like to say why don't you shave so much, I already do so no one can say that back. You do extra work to be hygienic and look attractive, it doesn't matter what you feel like, and that's the same reason why every other person shaves.
@smallandtiny even i would never date a guy who is soo shallow that he needs me to have hair free skin so that he can love me! I would rather be with someone who loves seeing me the way i really am both physically and from inside. You need to get some concepts correct bruh And i dont have underarm hair fyi.
Lol hairy body and picky? Wow wouldn't every guy wanna be with you, again everyone shaves to make themselves look better and that guy probably would want the same because he's putting effort in his body.
My concepts are straight and correct "bruh", but maybe you need to know more about being a woman
@smallandtiny oh thanks for teaching me how to be a women. Small amd tiny brain as the name says lol. And the guy i am with dosen't care. He himself dosen't want me to wax and do stuff unnecessarily. And yes i am picky and hairy. And i would never pick you!! Look someone got rejected by a hairy girl!! You know why? Personality.
How dumb are you really, I have already mentioned I wouldn't even once even try to date a hairy girl, then how is it possible I got rejected by one? Lol wtf
Again, I wouldn't wanna be picked by you or any other gorillas because I take care of my body and skin and only date women who do the same, sure the "guy you're with", talk about spewing major bs lol
And dude stop whining. Those are my views i am not imposing them on you so dont tell me what to do :) I can shave and get all "clean" as you said but your personality isn't gonna change. And its shallow
@smallandtiny dunno about you but hair on guys look masculine to ME. (Not too much hair tho) Because biologically more testosterone means more hair. Whatever's your preference its cool. I respect that. But u don't need to impose them on others. if I already have less hairy body so i don't feel like I need to.
@smallandtiny and i am confident with my body hair. I dont think i need to wax so that someone else finds me attractive. I am happy the way i am simple. Who are you to judge me? And i am lucky enough to get a man who likes me the way i am.
We all obligated to do things we dont really want to do to be attractive to the other sex. So if you dont want to do it thats fine. But dont complain about lack of attention and dating options because "men are shallow"
It doesn't look attractive and I don't want to see it but if women want to have hairy armpits, there's nothing I can do about it. If some chick wants to do that, why is she worrying about "socially acceptable?" Sounds like an excuse.
Exactly. They act like male preferences is some sort of “forced” patriarchy which is absolute bs. No one is forcing women to shave but at the same no one should force someone’s preferences either.
I personally could never consistently date a girl who is intentionally hairy.
That's what a sweaty hairy parts smell like, I tried to make a girl feel good about it and shoved my face deep in there and had to wash my face a lot to get rid of the smell
@Razp_Sorbet if that's all it takes to completely shift your life all the way from point A all the way to point Z then you New Zealanders must truly be going through the crisis of the century.
@Uptowngirl88 coming from a woman who puts up another person's picture while criticizing someone else for not putting up a picture is clearly trying to shore up breathtaking insecurities, you are the definition of a STRONG WOMAN 😂😂😂
@Inbox hey its not my fault your attempt at flirting failed🤣. Get some self esteem and use a real picture. No one is desperate enough to deal with an unattractive slob hiding behind a cartoon
@Uptowngirl88 It's been too long since my last fight. I hope this is not your best.
I understand that no man has wanted you since dinosaurs roamed the Earth, so you like to misinterpret people's comments as a way to make yourself feel better to cope with the men that left you - right after seeing your face.
It must suck to live paycheck to paycheck.
@vigors That's what happens when someone like her can't afford a decent education.
@smallandtiny well that's great, so you understand how much effort it is and probably understand that not everybody has the time, patience or money to do that. Some people simply don't want to and that's ok.
@Razp_Sorbet actually there's no effort at all, that's why I mentioned that I do it every week, I am pretty sure even the busiest person can spare an hour out of their in a whole week to shave. And the people who don't want to is the reason why it's a problem they smell and look bad.
@smallandtiny not everyones hair growth is the same. A week of not shaving for me before laser was very noticeable. Heck an hour after shaving I had stubble.
@Razp_Sorbet Okay that's just impossible I have more testosterone than you and yet I grow a stubble after a week. You're probably not shaving right or using a cream.
I dont care about all body hair but thank God that where I'm from men and women shave their pits and private parts. It's considered cleaner and more hygienic.
Um, both genders need to shave. I'm sorry I find it unattractive and unhygienic and no, it doesn't make you manlier... That's just something those highschool boys believe. Bottom line being body hair is gross on ANYONE.
Would you go all the way and shave your scalp as well, so that you end up bald? No? If not, why not? This belief that hair in "unwanted places" is somehow unacceptable, or repulsive, is just weird to me. It's clearly a fashion, a trend that was started in order to, perhaps, sell more shaving products, or to convince people that caving in to societal expectations was the right thing to do. A form of control is what it really is.
I don’t care whether it is socially acceptable or not. I really don’t give a fuck. All i care about is my body and I don’t like having hair in certain places
They've always been acceptable. But do they have to care? Also, i though they're doing it for themselves. Same can be said with make ups. But it's only that men just prefer shaved girls and there's nothing "socially unacceptable" about that but a lot of them just take it so personally
It's the free choice of the individual. I'd compare it to a man’s ability to grow a beard. Some keep it trim, some are clean cut, some look like a swami or ali baba, some have a simple mustache. You do you. Be confident in who you are and what you like.
in public not acceptable at all for women, but in the bedroom, men don't care about it as much as many women think, otherwise they would not sleep around so much
Maybe some guys don’t care but it’s always been a huge turnoff for me. Long story short i remember turning a girl down because of that at a college party back in the day (I gave her some other excuse)
It’s one thing if the girl is just really busy or on a hiking trip or something. But if she is intentionally growing it out to “fight patriarchy” than that’s just plain gross.
However I’ll bend a bit. If I start dating an attractive girl who requires I shave my chest regularly (and she stays smooth as well all over) I would do it.
Literally no one cares i love removing my hair and i hate people who do not at least trim pits and genital whether male or female cause the amount of sweat and all the ew shit stuff is just a no
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You don’t sit and wait for it if you want to grow your goodies do it
For example I won’t I’m going to wax til I die but I urge you or she / to totally do as you feel. It gets normalized by you doing it not a government or people approve it.
Social acceptance isn't the issue. It's a personal hygiene preference first of all and secondly it's a matter of what kind of person you want to attract. The more body hair the more specific your target demographic becomes. Personally I think it's gross for either gender to make a show of armpit hair. As for the other hair that's implied by the broad question, depends on the maintenance. Beards are fine, Mustaches are creepy and trimming is a sign of self respect.
Body hair on a woman show to all the society how much care does she take of herself, is inestetical and we are not cave people anymore.
Even some guys start to take off moust of theyr body hair, depand on person is accepted.
But a woman whit that kinde of hair, is dezgusting and a man perfetly shaved arywhere is the same.
What do you mean socially acceptable? Is that in terms of getting male attention. because i dont think any one cares how you groom yourself. I just dont think you can expect everyone to find it attractive. Is that your real question? When will body hair be seen as attractive on women. Long time i think
It should be and to some extent it is.
Tbh i only shave my legs when there is some party and stuff. Not on regular basis.
Donno why people find body hairs on girls to be gross but okay in case of guys. Its a natural stuff.
Hygiene is keeping yourself clean. Body hairs ain't dirty. Bath everyday 😂
It's because the girl looks more feminine smooth all over, I am a guy and I like feeling feminine by waxing my whole body then what's the matter with women.
@smallandtiny you like doing that. Some girls do that not because yhey like.. they feel obligated that if they dont people will find them gross and unattractive. So it should be normalized so that some dont feel obligated and do what they feel like.
Feeling obligated to do that is bad
If someone likes doing that.. then its cool
I like doing it because I know it makes me clean and not smelly all day. It's seriously is so easy.
@smallandtiny yeah good for you. I feel clean and not smelly with my body hair as well.
Even if its easy thats simply not my thing. I don't feel like i need to so i dont. Why do some extra work.
@smallandtiny the only difference removing my body hair makes is my skin look smooth. And it dosen't feel like me tbh.
You feel clean and not smelly, ask others around you, and it's looks hideous especially on women.
Literally my nightmare is marrying someone like you and cuddling her when she raises her arm there's a bunch of hair.
And since women like to say why don't you shave so much, I already do so no one can say that back. You do extra work to be hygienic and look attractive, it doesn't matter what you feel like, and that's the same reason why every other person shaves.
@smallandtiny even i would never date a guy who is soo shallow that he needs me to have hair free skin so that he can love me! I would rather be with someone who loves seeing me the way i really am both physically and from inside.
You need to get some concepts correct bruh
And i dont have underarm hair fyi.
Lol hairy body and picky? Wow wouldn't every guy wanna be with you, again everyone shaves to make themselves look better and that guy probably would want the same because he's putting effort in his body.
My concepts are straight and correct "bruh", but maybe you need to know more about being a woman
@smallandtiny oh thanks for teaching me how to be a women.
Small amd tiny brain as the name says lol.
And the guy i am with dosen't care. He himself dosen't want me to wax and do stuff unnecessarily.
And yes i am picky and hairy. And i would never pick you!!
Look someone got rejected by a hairy girl!! You know why? Personality.
How dumb are you really, I have already mentioned I wouldn't even once even try to date a hairy girl, then how is it possible I got rejected by one? Lol wtf
Again, I wouldn't wanna be picked by you or any other gorillas because I take care of my body and skin and only date women who do the same, sure the "guy you're with", talk about spewing major bs lol
@smallandtiny u literally proved that personally thing again. Someone's offended
U seem more famine than a girl (compliments for you!)
Yes I am offended because I don't want to be with a hairy girl and if keeping my body smooth makes me girly or sissy then I love it.
And dude stop whining. Those are my views i am not imposing them on you so dont tell me what to do :)
I can shave and get all "clean" as you said but your personality isn't gonna change. And its shallow
It doesn't make me shallow it make me hygienic
@smallandtiny good for you!
Weird time when Mr being a boy want to get my whole body lasered and get rid of hair permanently and you wanna grow hair.
@smallandtiny dunno about you but hair on guys look masculine to ME. (Not too much hair tho) Because biologically more testosterone means more hair.
Whatever's your preference its cool. I respect that. But u don't need to impose them on others. if I already have less hairy body so i don't feel like I need to.
@smallandtiny and i am confident with my body hair. I dont think i need to wax so that someone else finds me attractive. I am happy the way i am simple. Who are you to judge me?
And i am lucky enough to get a man who likes me the way i am.
Ah ok less body hair is not that bad, but how having less body hair makes you feel less manly?
We all obligated to do things we dont really want to do to be attractive to the other sex. So if you dont want to do it thats fine. But dont complain about lack of attention and dating options because "men are shallow"
@smallandtiny nope not less manly. Dosen't change anything. That's my preference
It doesn't look attractive and I don't want to see it but if women want to have hairy armpits, there's nothing I can do about it. If some chick wants to do that, why is she worrying about "socially acceptable?" Sounds like an excuse.
Exactly. They act like male preferences is some sort of “forced” patriarchy which is absolute bs. No one is forcing women to shave but at the same no one should force someone’s preferences either.
I personally could never consistently date a girl who is intentionally hairy.
I've given up on waiting. Lasering my whole body 😂 but if it does that will be great because my pits don't take to it very well
Please don't ever stop lasering, it's just so hot when girls laser or wax ;)
@Inbox get a life weirdo this is not a dating app and with that fake profile we know you're unattractive. Thank you next
@Uptowngirl88 Try that again, but not drunk. I'm not hitting on her, I'm stating a fact, so run along now you whiny unfuckable loser.
@Inbox get some self esteem and a real picture weirdo.
@Inbox you saying that makes me want to grow out all my body hair just to spite you. So if you don't want that is shut the fuck up
@Razp_Sorbet gross just imagining myself cuddling a girl and smelling a sock is enough to make me go limp forever.
@smallandtiny why are you thinking about smelling socks?
That's what a sweaty hairy parts smell like, I tried to make a girl feel good about it and shoved my face deep in there and had to wash my face a lot to get rid of the smell
@smallandtiny so your balls are waxed/ shaved bare then?
@Razp_Sorbet if that's all it takes to completely shift your life all the way from point A all the way to point Z then you New Zealanders must truly be going through the crisis of the century.
@Uptowngirl88 coming from a woman who puts up another person's picture while criticizing someone else for not putting up a picture is clearly trying to shore up breathtaking insecurities, you are the definition of a STRONG WOMAN 😂😂😂
@Inbox hey its not my fault your attempt at flirting failed🤣. Get some self esteem and use a real picture. No one is desperate enough to deal with an unattractive slob hiding behind a cartoon
@Uptowngirl88 now you're attacking me wtf bro
@Uptowngirl88 It's been too long since my last fight. I hope this is not your best.
I understand that no man has wanted you since dinosaurs roamed the Earth, so you like to misinterpret people's comments as a way to make yourself feel better to cope with the men that left you - right after seeing your face.
It must suck to live paycheck to paycheck.
@vigors That's what happens when someone like her can't afford a decent education.
@Razp_Sorbet yes, I shave once every week. I am a guy and I want to be lasered my hair so my whole body is hairless and smooth.
I grow a lot less hair after years of shaving and waxing my legs, arms, face, pubic hair, balls and a**hole
@smallandtiny well that's great, so you understand how much effort it is and probably understand that not everybody has the time, patience or money to do that. Some people simply don't want to and that's ok.
@Razp_Sorbet actually there's no effort at all, that's why I mentioned that I do it every week, I am pretty sure even the busiest person can spare an hour out of their in a whole week to shave. And the people who don't want to is the reason why it's a problem they smell and look bad.
@smallandtiny not everyones hair growth is the same. A week of not shaving for me before laser was very noticeable. Heck an hour after shaving I had stubble.
@Razp_Sorbet Okay that's just impossible I have more testosterone than you and yet I grow a stubble after a week. You're probably not shaving right or using a cream.
@smallandtiny no I shave right... It's not impossible at all just genetics
@Razp_Sorbet what genetics, is your genes gorilla that you grow hair right after shaving?
@smallandtiny 🤷🏻♀️ is what it is I have very fair skin and dark thick hair so the smallest amount of growth is noticable
returning to monke, body hair is just one of the things we will gain
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Holy shit she's the most hated age
haha glad i'm still 16 then
@Joker_ in a few months, yes. happy birthday to u too
Thank you
I dont care about all body hair but thank God that where I'm from men and women shave their pits and private parts. It's considered cleaner and more hygienic.
I mean to vote A voted E instead. Yes it should be socially acceptable. Women shouldn't have to shave their armpits and legs all the time
Um, both genders need to shave. I'm sorry I find it unattractive and unhygienic and no, it doesn't make you manlier... That's just something those highschool boys believe. Bottom line being body hair is gross on ANYONE.
Especially girls because it makes them look like boys, I shave my whole body and keep it smooth
No especially girls here, if you don't shave then you're a caveman
But for guys sweaty and musky smell around their dick and balls makes them even hotter
No it doesn't
Would you go all the way and shave your scalp as well, so that you end up bald? No? If not, why not? This belief that hair in "unwanted places" is somehow unacceptable, or repulsive, is just weird to me. It's clearly a fashion, a trend that was started in order to, perhaps, sell more shaving products, or to convince people that caving in to societal expectations was the right thing to do. A form of control is what it really is.
Do what you want, Rach.
I don’t care whether it is socially acceptable or not. I really don’t give a fuck. All i care about is my body and I don’t like having hair in certain places
They've always been acceptable. But do they have to care? Also, i though they're doing it for themselves. Same can be said with make ups. But it's only that men just prefer shaved girls and there's nothing "socially unacceptable" about that but a lot of them just take it so personally
I have really fine hairs and still find it gross. Plan to get it lasered whenever the time is convenient.
It's the free choice of the individual. I'd compare it to a man’s ability to grow a beard. Some keep it trim, some are clean cut, some look like a swami or ali baba, some have a simple mustache. You do you. Be confident in who you are and what you like.
in public not acceptable at all for women, but in the bedroom, men don't care about it as much as many women think, otherwise they would not sleep around so much
Maybe some guys don’t care but it’s always been a huge turnoff for me. Long story short i remember turning a girl down because of that at a college party back in the day (I gave her some other excuse)
It’s one thing if the girl is just really busy or on a hiking trip or something. But if she is intentionally growing it out to “fight patriarchy” than that’s just plain gross.
However I’ll bend a bit. If I start dating an attractive girl who requires I shave my chest regularly (and she stays smooth as well all over) I would do it.
Literally no one cares i love removing my hair and i hate people who do not at least trim pits and genital whether male or female cause the amount of sweat and all the ew shit stuff is just a no
Women should absolutely have the right to keep or remove their hair. Similarly, anyone should have the right to find it attractive or unattractive.
Never, because even hair on men is now becoming socially unacceptable. That's why so many of them are now shaving their legs and chest.
And also the hair follicle tests.
I don't shave so why should she? It takes confidence to rock natural hair growth and that's that shit I like