Do you KNOW you're attractive?

Question

I'm not asking if you "think" you're attractive.

Dennisjf12 · Accepted Answer

You young girls are all the same, you part of yourself that is not perfect and you b think unattractive. No one is perfect, and each will look at you in a different way, and if your his girl, he will you as a whole package, your looks, and most importantly, how you are on the inside. Are you a good cook? are you smart? Can be a fun person to be around. Maybe he only wants a wife that can cook, stay at home and make babies. He will not care, or maybe not even see that unattractive part of your so worried about.
When he meets you, he will look at how you dress. Do you dress up or casual?
Are you the kind of girl that's on her cell phone all the time? Or would you want to spend all her time with her new boyfriend acting sexy and doing everything you can to please him? Does he want a woman that already has a job and a college degree?

Know me. I am an older guy. I don't care about color or race, or even if she is 30 or 50lbs overweight or more, I am not looking for a beautiful woman, just one that can act sexy and keep me happy and keep house and cook a simple meal and wants to be my mate for me the rest of my life.

Jupiter1 · Accepted Answer

Regardless if other people said so, I know I am and I can clearly see it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know I am attractive, but I know I have parts of me that are unattractive to certain people. I have a soft jawline and not-so-great smile with teeth. Without makeup (mascara), my eyelashes lay flat and short, my eyebrows aren’t neatly shaped. I have a weird side profile and bumpy button nose. My hair is long and curly, super frizzy most of the time. I have freckles that make it look like dark spots and pimples! I am short, making my legs look stubby. I have a little bit of a gut that makes me look fat (to some people!). My breasts and butt aren’t big, they fit my body well, but I have a decent/average figure.
I am an attractive person, I view myself as such, I have a good physical self esteem, I get plenty of compliments from people of all ages. However, I don’t go out enough, dress presentable enough, or post myself on media to the point where men flock to me.
My looks are the least of my worries. Sure, I’d like people to think Im naturally beautiful without having to put on makeup or dress nice, but my personality is what I love about myself the most… and I hoping others love my personality the same.

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

I know I’m pretty.

melanieeeB · Answer

Yes I know that I'm attractive, I see myself in the mirror and in pictures and I see what's the standard of "beauty" in society but I don't feel like it right now.
I don't hate myself or whatever but I just don't feel beautiful lately, even tho I know that I'm attractive... yeah that's that lol

MelaninQueen21 · Answer

Sure, I guess I can say, although I don't think so. I get many compliments not only from family and friends, but from complete strangers. Even on campus, when walking into a room, a student from a previous class just shouted out, "OMG! You're so pretty!" I was so shocked, so caught off guard when I heard this. Never expected to hear a comment like that.

Although I thank then for their compliments, whether it's genuine or not, I don't believe them. I actually think that I'm not attractive at all, for a few reasons. I see myself in the mirror, then I see myself in selfies... then I see myself in a picture, and I dislike my features. I think too myself, "I'm too ugly".

Sorry if this was TMI but I feel the need to say this, to be honest. And I know others feel the same.

jshm2 · Answer

No.

Just go read up on the Bella Hadid snippet.

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/fashion/bella-hadid-instagram-crying-selfies-b1954864.html

These people KNOW they can look attractive or like shit on a whim. They understand attraction is subjective. Beauty is about hitting the right notes with the right people.

I'm not an "attractive" guy, but have slept with plenty of attractive women. Simply because I don't rely on looks to get me anywhere. My chat and charm is what makes me successful with people I want to know.

If you had ears and intelligence, then you were game.

Twalli · Answer

So I don't think I am physically anything special. I am short, skinny, and partly bald (started losing my hair in 11th grade). Yet a lot of girls have told me that outside my physical appearance they'd want to date me. Not in those words, but when they say "I wish my boyfriend was like you", it's pretty clear what they mean. So I have come to the conclusion that my personality is extremely attractive, while my physical appearance isn't. I do have a girlfriend who likes both, but in a general sense, I feel there'd be a difference.

Assi2k · Answer

Yes, for as long as I can remember, everyone has always praised me for my cuteness.

I, myself, only started to view myself as so because of childhood trauma. It’s hard to believe such a thing when you’ve felt worthless for so long. I still do it though. I’m gorgeous! 😌

Barry88 · Answer

Physically I'm not the most attractive guy, I'm overweight. But I have a friendly face which isn't ugly. My attractiveness is my intellect and humor. Even though I'm not really pretty, I can't really complain about the amount of girls which were interested in me.

ManOnFire · Answer

I am not surprised that most women said Yes.

I don't think I'm attractive at all, although women here and there have said they think I'm good-looking, but I think some of them are just trying to be nice. My looks are kind of different and an acquired taste I'd say. How I appeal or not appeal to people is probably split 50/50.

Apulu_3 · Answer

I love myself the way I am and I truly know that I am good looking. I don't care about those who think me ugly because no one can be universally attractive and if someone hates my looks then it's obvious that the person is jealous of me. I can't disrespect my parents saying that I am ugly because they gave birth to me.

FreyaRed · Answer

I know it since special treatment of a doll by teachers in kindergarten and elementary school. With 15 I had to carry a school flag in gymnastic suit while annual competition among schools, even though I wasn't even member of gymnastic team. I refused and remember my mother was absolutely pissed, she went in full Karen mode with school rector.

Avcfhcic · Answer

I can whole-heartedly say that I wasn't blessed with looks or any real physical feature at at all. I have always knew that I can't really compete and the hardest thing is trying to accept that.
With girls having such high standards these days on looks (At least where I'm from), it's hard to really ever feel good enough.

Drake · Answer

Literally depressed since September
The amount of attention i got on a random day to day basis was insane
And not once did i ever feel happy

Literally girls honking their car horns at night to grab my attentionWhen u are feeling low it doesn't matter at all tbhWould've chosen a good convo over any those billion compliments and stares easily

CandaceSims201 · Answer

I got called cute by some men and got some weird stare at some woman. At college I only had drama of some younger women only started drama with me when I only got into a relationship and yes they tried to tempt some guys to cheat. I always caught them cheating and broke up with a cheater ex boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't say I "know" it. Some days I feel like I am, and some days I don't. I've often been told I'm pretty (but mostly by family and their friends, lol), but don't think I'm anything out of the ordinary. I haven't received a lot of male attention, then again I don't put myself out there and am notoriously bad at picking up on anything other than very forward advances, so it's possible I've gotten more than I've picked up on.

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

Well i can confidently say I have something a lot of women like but there are also women who don't find me attractive. However I recieve enough compliments and the way I see myself in the mirror I also think I am objectively attractive. Although I spoke a bit about others' opinions, I really don't care if someone were to call me ugly, I know im not. And I hope I remain humble in saying all this.

unusuak · Answer

This is actually a really cool question that you literally can only answer with your quickest & most natural response... This is the best question I've seen on here. Everyone truly knows if this is yes or a no and im definitely a yes but you know a lot of people can be their own worst enemy so you gotta stay humble & be real

Cherry234 · Answer

Yep, I know I am. I get attention on here. I have a secret admirer who confessed he has a crush on me on one of my questions

jaybee281 · Answer

The truth is - and it's you know tough on me to admit this - but everytime I look in the mirror I feel even more attractive than I was the night before

zeitgeist057 · Answer

I attract people. Therefore, it stands to reason that I am attractive.  Not based on my opinion or self-confidence, it’s just basic empirical evidence that I fit the definition.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I’m 25, a virgin and a man hasn’t shown must interest in me, let alone look or acknowledge me. The only time men talk to me is if they have to, whether it’s a coworker or talking to an employee if I’m at the store or something. I’ve been obese since 18, which explains it. I’m luckily losing weight now and hope to receive male attention one day, but I doubt it.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I am. It's funny that girls say they don't like bald guys, but they just don't like ugly men. Ugly is ugly, and attractive is attractive. I get a lot of female attention and I am bald. But I am hot, and girls love it. I am recently single so I can't wait to get back in the game. The thing is, I like women your age ;)

shaysh87 · Answer

Beauty is in eye of beholder. what you may not find attractive, someone else might find attractive. You will only realize this with life experience.

Bricealan · Answer

I only believe what I see, and how women react to me, here on GAG, and in my personal life, with friends and acquaintances. Attractive women seem to find me attractive, so I suppose I am

soe11 · Answer

I don't know about myself, but I do know about my girlfriend and her mom.
Both really really attractive and gorgeous, both get attention, because their sweet smile and attractive body shape also dressed up accordingly.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Yes, though I sometimes doubt it when I’m depressed or anxious

Cathy7734 · Answer

My Mom and Dad keep telling me I'm the most beautiful woman. My grandparents too.

Avicenna · Answer

No one is attractive to everyone, so It’s useless to worry whether one is universally attractive.

SAUL077 · Answer

My girlfriend thinks am attractive. That's all that matters to me.

Nxtawm · Answer

I know I’m not ugly but don’t know if I’m attractive

tatianamay · Answer

I only know because my mom tells me that im beautiful.

humpbackjack · Answer

I’ll say this I’ve been told by many women that I’m good looking and have been chased by a few but I like to think it’s more about how I carry myself then how I look or what I have

cryscrys1 · Answer

I’m told often I’m attractive or cute  But never beautiful or pretty haha I guess I know I am ! Doesn’t hurt to say yes😂

JBlade · Answer

Yes, if I wanted to get laid or have a relationship, for the sake of it, I could. I just don't have the ambition to try lol.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Yeah I would say I’m fairly attractive. I’m not drop dead gorgeous but I can definitely charm some women if I try my best

Oigit · Answer

Ha, I'm sure some people would say I am. Some others say I'm not. Some probably get worried because I look like Grigori Rasputin long lost brother.

t-8900 · Answer

I'm highly skeptical but I certainly don't feel that way. I get told by some women but... like I said honestly doubt the sincerity.

EmmaMary · Answer

I only know because my husband is constantly telling me so.

Andres77 · Answer

I'm attractive to some... I just don't know who they are. My wife tells me that "others" find me attractive but won't tell me who... which is for the best... I don't need to know who.

Pleaznhim4me · Answer

I think I can be very attractive at times and sometimes I can be a beast.

matchrestore · Answer

I've got a full hipster beard, long hair, and a dad bod. I know I'm hot.

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, I know I am somewhat attractive enough... and just to some

lucas262 · Answer

I don't know if I am and I don't think I'm particularly attractive. I don't feel insecure or sad abiut it I'm not unhappy with myself i just haven't gotten a lot attention, compliments such an such

SuitAndTie · Answer

Honestly - I'm not sure. I've been told I'm handsome/cute/good looking etc but I'm also short so I know many (if not most) girls wouldn't be attracted to me.

Soleil8000 · Answer

I do; I just don't feel it to complete level without a flat belly (and I am a guy guy, cis gender) There is something about not overeating that feels really good.

Paul09 · Answer

I have no idea. I've been single for years, so that makes me think no. But there are days I'm like fu*k I look good today. I rarely get compliments and all. So that just makes me over think.

StrawberryShake · Answer

Considering how many guys drool over me on here, yes.

clampfan101 · Answer

"Eye of the beholder." Everyone has their own opinion.

Enigma42 · Answer

I consider myself quite plain looking and a bloke. However men pay attention to me just gawk at me? That's really odd.

Callous_Capricorn99 · Answer

I think I’m okay looking. I mean I got a guy to want to date me.

Ryfyle · Answer

I don't fucking care. I'm a man, the only thing that matters is my credit score.

Neosporin · Answer

I’m reasonably attractive I can say but not sure about my personality.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 4'6ft. Red hair, blue eyes, a size 6 and I've been told I'm pretty. Guys seem to like me.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Lmao 75% of women are not hot. Fat = not hot... need makeup = not hot FACTS

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

We are all attractive in our own way. Some is obvious. Others you have to dig deeper.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Damn. A lot of people here think they're more attractive than they are.

Abinav08 · Answer

I'm an Indian.. I'm not insecure about my skin tone, so I'm honestly sure I'm attractive 😅

Grubhub · Answer

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InferiorElegy · Answer

Nope I'm a fucking ugly monster. I used to have a mirror so I do know what I look like.

Steven8000 · Answer

No I'm ugly by the general by the general conception.

Mossberg500 · Answer

Naw, i'm an introvert, I don't tend to have very high self-esteem most days.

Z199617 · Answer

The way we carry ourselves is part of it and confidence.

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