Do you think it’s ok to not follow society’s expectations on beauty? (Page 2)

Question

I hate it when society expects women to be hair free , have a hot curvy body and a beautiful face to be accepted.  I don’t have an ass or boobs, I’m not attractive and never use makeup at all. Is it ok if I don’t follow what they expect me to do? I mean it’s my own body. Am I not allowed to make a choice?

jaybee281 · Answer

You are - Just don't expect guys or girls (whatever you're into) to be flaunting your way that's all

Xylem1992 · Answer

Where is this dissociative look on society is coming from? Society is you, me and other people. Society isn't a living thing, a dictator telling you what to do or what to be.

Barry88 · Answer

Your body, you decide. Whatever you feel comfortable with. And I'm sure you're not unattractive.

HeyoFellas · Answer

Society always fucks up with your thought pattern regardless if you feel it's right or wrong... Better to be yourseld and embrace it

t-8900 · Answer

Yeah I like shaved legs and pits. Those are a must for me. The lower region a trim is fine.

rienna888 · Answer

Yeah I think it's better, less competition. As in people should just be themselves and do what makes themselves look best.

Seangreen · Answer

I don't personally care what Society thinks I just do what makes me happy I mean I shave my armpits I so don't give a shit what people think about it

pink_and_inlove · Answer

Of course it’s okay. I personally feel obligated to shave though because I am ashamed of body hair but I still grow out my hair a little just not much

G5TWA1 · Answer

yeah who gives a fuck, the only people who will disagree with that are people who you do not want to be with anyway, either way I'm sure you'll find someone who loves you for who you are

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

You gotta do what you're comfortable doing. If it suddenly became fashionable and expected that men shave their armpits and wear mascara, I'm not doing it.

SmilesAintAgirl14 · Answer

yes, its so outdated. mostly towards women and feminine individuals.

Exterminatore · Answer

It is your body. You are allowed to make a choice. I do find hairy pits and the like on women to be manly and therefore repulsive.

Anonymous · Answer

No one should make those choices for you. But you need to weigh your choices against the implications for attracting and keeping a partner. That is totally up to you and it's all that matters.

eashline92 · Answer

Yes be yourself. I think everyone is beautiful and they shouldn't feel obliged to feel the need to conform to trends in society.

noohair · Answer

You don't have any ass or boobs, or you don't like the ass and boobs you were born with?

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Why do you care about societal standards? Focus on what makes you happy

Shawn411 · Answer

Yes it's ok because the average man wants to see the natural beauty underneath not caked on makeup.

f_ckjoebiden · Answer

What are you looking for? Fat Chicks are hot? I don't get it.

ODC2112 · Answer

You can do what you want, but then don't complain if you are alone, you choose it.

Anonymous · Answer

Having big knockers isn't all it's cracked up to be.

Slim57 · Answer

You can do whatever but dont get mad when you get rejected because noone wants a cave woman that has any standards about themseleves

Anonymous · Answer

You can do whatever the hell you want. And everyone else can decide how attractive or unattractive they find you. Sound fair?

Anonymous · Answer

You can always choose to live that way or not, but choices have consequences. When you ignore what other people want, they lose interest and don't care about you in kind.

andy530 · Answer

It’s a choice snd perfectly fine if you don’t follow it all

Sr25m · Answer

I'm sure the "hair free" it's not a society expectation but it's a personal hygiene expectation

Dingsbums · Answer

Me: it’s ok society: of course it’s not okay

TsAubreyKate · Answer

It’s okay just don’t expect to be treated like better looking women

ccampbell1 · Answer

Yes, you totally are! Do what makes you feel comfortable like having body hair I say go for it.

Oh-canada · Answer

I saw so what the hell you want. To bend to what society or others expect

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Do what you want but don't expect that people will have your back

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I encourage it actually

Anonymous · Answer

Why? Its all up to u Do what u want Enjoy ur life too  Dont care about people say

Tstrbrainer · Answer

It is okay. But if you ever consider dating, don't be surprised if people don't want to take a second look at you.

TadCurious · Answer

Yes I think it's okay.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Hey Miss, Your Body , Your Choice

Dargil · Answer

I decide alone what beauty is for me.

jimmy2 · Answer

God made us lets be happy who we are

MountAverage · Answer

What makes you think you're not allowed to?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes; it's perfectly acceptable.

crmoore · Answer

Of course, you can do whatever you'd like.

MoJoYoYo · Answer

Yes.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

I love underarm hair... I lick them

OG956 · Answer

Yes u're. same with all of us. :)

jasco · Answer

do as u will

MJtheCoach · Answer

So is rubbing poop on your face and walking around

Aryan5727 · Answer

You're body your choice swwthrt😀

postaldudePL123 · Answer

It's also okay to not give a shit!

male1512 · Answer

I think it's fine keep doing what your doing

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Of course it's okay

Dontaaaa · Answer

Absolutely.

lycanthrope3 · Answer

Perfectly ok

Starwitch23 · Answer

Yes, be yourself.

jahaims · Answer

Why wouldn't it be

Babygirl_S · Answer

It's not easy so no.

Anonymous · Answer

Who cares?

Chumisfum · Answer

Only for ugly people

Anonymous · Answer

hun its fine

RayBeam · Answer

Sure its ok

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