This happened at my work: Ugly girl walks in and nobody greets her and she buys something at full price plus warranty. Nobody says bye or thank you to her. Hot girls walks in and everyone greets her and she is given a military discount for no reason. Everyone says bye and thank you to her.
Be honest, do you treat attractive people better than ugly people?
No. No I don't. The ones who consider themselves as "attractive" are usually the players and the jerks. They can toss anyone they find "not good enough" for them to the side and walk away, going to the next person, and repeating the cycle. And I also don't find anyone to be ugly, unless their attitude is. If I don't find them as a person in my interest, I don't really care about how they look. But if they're not in my interest and acts like a jerk to others, then of course I don't really like them. Just because someone looks attractive doesn't mean their nice, kind, and a good person. People come in different ways, and not everyone is attractive or ugly. I treat people the way I want to be treated, at least that's what my teacher's mom said before she passed... but I looked up to that lady and she's taught me a valuable lesson. Treating attractive people better than "ugly people" is like bullying yourself. Some people actually kill themselves because they were called "ugly", and they weren't seen as attractive and treated poorly instead of getting fair treatment. I don't know, treating attractive people better then ugly people isn't my thing. I don't really care to treat attractive people better than ugly people, because attractiveness doesn't mean you're not a jerk or kind, nor doesn't ugliness. I don't treat people in any different way, because people are people. Humans are humans. And humans aren't emotionless, they aren't robots. You can't just push a human around off a cliff and expect them to be okay, so it's the same with treating an attractive person better than an ugly person. Were humans, not robots, if we push someone to the ground they will feel it. It's not like their made of armor. I don't know... just a random response...
I’ve been both beautiful and ugly and got treated worse when I was beautiful due to guys stalking and harassing and bullying me out of their sexual desire for me.
I tend to treat charismatic people a little bit better who are usually "better-looking" in social contexts. But the reason I'm exercising a bit of favoritism is more for charisma than looks.
Let's say Chris Hemsworth and Jesse Eisenberg both show up at my party. I'm a bit more inclined to treat Chris Hemsworth a bit better because he seems so funny and charming; Jesse Eisenberg seems to have no charisma whatsoever. He reminds me of the most annoying people I've ever dealt with.
But that's less related to their looks. Let's say Danny DeVito then shows up. Danny DeVito is awesome! I want to become his best friend. I like him even more than Chris Hemsworth even though he's just an ugly man and a borderline midget.
So I think I treat charismatic people with some bias. But let's say Jesse Eisenberg is looking all depressed sitting by himself while I'm laughing with Danny DeVito and Chris Hemsworth. Then I'll excuse myself from them and try to cheer him up and get him to join my fun conversation with Danny and Chris.
No, I don't. If anything, I treat attractive people with caution and pause, since they tend to be jerks because the world treats them better and they rarely receive consequences for their actions. The more attractive someone is, the more they tend to be selfish jerks, in my experience. It's funny you use that picture cause I don't even find Emily Ratajkowski to be even remotely attractive. She's like a 4.5 out of 10, to me.
I'm glad you mentioned the arrogance with people who get pampered to by the world by merely their looks. This is EXACTLY why I tend to ignore the prettyy girls in the gym and even pretend they don't exist. I always say "Don't let a donkey think it is on the same level as a horse".
Very recently, I was at the gym with my girlfriend and she was getting bitchy facial expressions from another girl who, according to my girlfriend, kept checking me out. I happen to caught her looking at me from a far just once, but thought it was just coincidental. That same stranger girl was "following" me around the gym and doing her workouts literally next to me. And yet I never even bothered to acknowledge her. The funny thing is, she was more busy looking around her than actually working out. Just glancing at her, I can already smell the entitlement and inflated ego. They are so used to getting validation from the world, that it really drives them mad whenever someone doesn't give it to them. Wait until she starts hitting her 30s. Shit is going to go downhill REAL QUICK.
Not if I work a servicejob. Then I treat them equally. But it tends to be misinterpreted as interest. I ignore those reactions, it's just too much while at work.
But yes, normally I do. Not all the time but it happens on it's own. It has to do with me not being as used to socializing as widely and wildly with everyone as I do when I meet someone that 'clicks'. i. e. I have natural social ability but I lack social skill to fill the gaps when it won't come on it's own.
But it also ofc has to do with natural preference, that's not an excuse though, I know better and am working on self-improvment as everyone should.
I wouldn't say I "treat" people differently based on how attractive they are but I have seen people do it and can agree that it indeed does happen a lot. That is the reason why I refuse to, I treat everyone the same. I remember working in a retail way back and 2 women who were stunning and they were Colombian with a strong accent and they were doing the most flirting to get a discount and all I could think is "They really think they getting a discount for this" and as soon as they realized I wasn't going to give in, the sweet-talking stopped instantly, but I know a lot of men would've given in. So I always treat people the same, now one might get my attention more than another but doesn't change how I treat them.
No I treat everyone on the basis of how good they are to me and others
And yes a lot of people do that thing where they treat attractive people better than unattractive people
But attractive people attract all kinds of people more often creepy than not And if a person is giving you discounts and paying your bills and sweeping you off your feet and going out of their way just to serve you only on the basis of whether you are attractive or not then those people aren't really the type of people who wanna hangout with anyways More often than not they expect something from you, sexual or romantic or I don't know what else and if you say not to them they most likely will badmouth and harass you
at least Ugly people are left alone... Sometimes being left alone is better than being bothered
Nope , I cannot. When I treat someone , firstly , I take into account their personality if I know them cuz I know them and they know me , in contrast to this , if I do not know them I must be behave fair like I am blind-folded meaning it is not even important that their physical appearance , statue , gender , mindset , characteristics , religion , nation etc. shortly anything belongs them , I have to be respectful againt them cuz I have not known them yet otherwise I would be not good I have a prequisition or prejudgement against them.
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I think I would tend to pay more attention to someone beautiful. However I feel like vibes and character would play a role too. For example how confident the person is, or how friendly. Some people aren't attractive, and somehow I feel more likely to listen to them because they are cheerful and smile a lot giving good vibes, whereas some good looking people seem unfriendly. But I guess that if someone beautiful is friendly and nice, I would pay more attention to this person, somehow. By paying more attention I'm thinking in a conversation or something like that. I'd never give free stuff to people because they look nice.
Okay so personally It’s mainly about the “vibe” I get from them that tends to affect how I treat them. In your case these “Hot girls” sound like they are outgoing I would be more willing to talk to them. But if you are talking about in a romantic situation…. Yeah totally. I have to have some sort of attraction to someone in order to date them. Will I treat them differently? Probably but I would not treat the ugly one rudely or with disrespect I would just not act flirty or anything in that sort of manner.
When you say attractive, I don't think it's just about the appearance, like most of comments confused. And Of course, I treat attractive people with the happier attitude, cause I do feel happier when they're with me. However, this is natural, cause I'm attracted to the people who treat me well.
Quite the opposite. Attractive people walk around with an air of cockiness and entitlement. I generally don't acknowledge them very much as I know we are not on the same wave-length and I won't bend over backwards for them just because of how they look. I pay more attention to "normal" looking people; they're more relatable, and approachable.
On a basic or even professional level, no. I treat people the same way. However, when it comes to more private stuff, yet. It's called pretty privilege. And we all fall for it one way or another. It has a biological/evolutionary explanation. But welcome to the world where people bitch about things that aren't so serious while neglecting more serious things like this.
That being said, virtually all of us treat attractive people better. Often this is subconsciously. So if a third party observed me interacting with people, it's entirely possible they would find I do treat them better even if it's subconsciously.
Yes but there is only a slight difference and it's mostly subconscious. I treat everyone very well. I'm pretty friendly and well mannered. But if I find someone attractive I compliment them and I'm extra sweet. If I don't find someone attractive I'm still sweet I just don't pay attention to them as much. I focus more on whatever I'm doing atm.
No, I do not. I think I treat them worse sometimes. I treat them the same but I have my guard up. I've had several cases where the hot person turns into an obnoxious child at the supermarket because you don't give him what he wants and he's not used to people saying 'no'.
Never found Ratajkowski attractive Her nose gives her a bird-like appearance and her lip fillers are a bit over-the-top I try to treat all people equally, based on their personality and actions, but unfortunately society is shallow
It's true. Beautiful people get treated differently. Honestly tho the people who are beautiful are beautiful for a reason - they are fit, charismatic, socially adept. People try to hate on beauty saying it's superficial but it's not, beauty is one of the highest virtues in Greek Philosophy and many other Cultures.
No cause I’m the ugly person. If I’m sitting next to an empty chair nobody is going to sit next to me. They would rather stand there and wait for me to get up to sit where I was sitting or sit in the other chair. I watched it happen many times. If one of my coworkers is outside she would walk inside just to talk to another coworker and she will stand right next to me while talking. They don’t say a word to me.
I treat miserable screw face people who can't look and the brightsode and be content despite their situation (being ugly) different, yes. Don't dump your misery on me.
She has the sum total of beautiful parts according to eurocentric beauty standards. I like abstract beauty. The beauty that radiates from within outward. She does not possess it. But no, I don't treat people with deficiencies in physical beauty differently. I'm no model.
No if anything attractive people intimate me so I try to avoid them as much as possible until I get to know them better. I tend to get on with the average people because they have more character to them
This doesn't makes sense. Treat anyone like shit, most will show you their place and won't let u walk all over them. Try other tactics. What do you expect? Them to bow down to you for treating them like shit? Do that with someone average, you'll get the same hatred back.
I would say I do but I also treat people that I think are ugly with extra kindness. At some point being attractive stops mattering because I’m really beautiful and this guy I thought was attractive was mean to me and I was immediately no longer attracted to him.
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