Girls, do you treat ugly men worse than good looking ones?

Question

Yes, I know ugly subjective. I’m talking about men you find ugly (on the outside).

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I used to be very good looking, but I got hit with a whole bunch of health, financial and psychological shit all at once. Now I'm a crippled fat guy who can barely walk without a cane.

Unless they're at work virtually all women treat me like I'm some kind of revolting beast. They won't make eye contact, turn up their noses, pretend not to hear me if I say hello or good morning while on a walk.

Any time they have even a shred of power over me they're extremely vindictive with it. HR people, and bankers come to mind.

Guys treat me worse too, but at least they're generally fair and civil. They just never make any extra effort to be helpful.

The pandemic has been awesome for me, because I get treated better when people can't see me.

It's pretty shitty to have known "pretty privilege" and then not only lose it, but be treated as sub human, for being a victim of illness.

TLDR: people are aweful.

Birdlegs · Accepted Answer

I’m not a woman but I don’t think they treat anybody worse for how they look. They might treat guys they find more attractive better but I doubt they’d actively treat anyone badly because of their appearance. At least for normal people but there are bad people who would treat someone worse for it.

Sex-Kitten · Accepted Answer

I want to say that I don't - and honestly I make every effort to treat all men equally. But I think subconsciously, even if you're not an asshole to an uglier guy, if you're in a company with a good looking guy and an ugly guy - you'll treat the good looking one better. You'll engage with the good looking one in conversation more, you'll flirt with the good looking one more, you'll try to partner the good looking one in sports more. While you may not be an asshole, I think it will show that on some level you discriminate against the ugly one more. What do they call it? 'Subjective bias'?

crazyish · Accepted Answer

No. If anything I feel like I do the opposite. If they are the traditional "good looking" type and they know it, it rubs me the wrong way. Anyone who isn't like that I'm nicer too. I think it's the entitlement vibe I get off some of them, not all. Especially if it's in a work setting. I don't particularly like cocky people. And if I see "looks" being used for gain, then that's when I say something. I probably should just keep it to myself. I'm working on it. But usually I treat everyone the same regardless how anyone looks.

doopayo · Answer

First; I don’t use the word ugly as I don’t believe anyone is objectively just down right ugly.

I believe that beauty is subjective and in the eye of the beholder and because of that just because I personally don’t find someone the most attractive physically doesn’t mean they aren’t attractive. It just means that I’m not attracted to them.

With that being said, nope. If anything I treat men I’m not attracted to better as it’s easier to talk to them since I’m not shy or nervous at secretly liking them.

Truthbewithyou · Answer

I don't know about the "worse" but I can say women do treat ugly guys differently than they do the attractive ones.

Women want to be hit on by men they find attractive. So, when an unattractive guy does it, they act different. More accepting to the attractive one, more repulsive to the ugly one.

You know who else does this? Men.
Men don't want ugly women. They don't chase them and it's very unlikely they will date them if they have better options.

Киттйлинк · Answer

I don’t treat people badly unless they treat me badly first.

There are however people who just get on my nerves for no apparent reason.. perhaps their personality or aura annoy me (as I am sure I could also be annoying to someone else for just being me) and instead of being mean to them I rather just not get in their way to not have to interact with them so as to avoid an unpleasant situation. Why treat someone bad for basically nothing? That’s awful.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Well yes. But the way you've phrased the question saying "worse" has made most women answer "no". Had you said "do you treat men better if they are good looking" most people would for sure have said yes. It's more of a psychological thing. Of course women treat people they find attractive better, they' like for him to like them, and are unintentionally being nicer because of it. That's just called being human.

Espresso-Grande · Answer

I wouldn't treat him different or worse. But I wouldn't date a guy I found unattractive.

I treat people according to how they treat me, and according to how I perceive them as a person, not by their appearance.

Treating someone bad based on their appearance alone is a form of bullying, and that says a lot about who they are as a person.

eileen_ruth · Answer

If you look like this I'm gonna treat you better ngl, but usually yeah. I don't know I feel like if someone looks like this just more motivated to be nice to them. I mostly hate everyone tbh

shade_19 · Answer

No , but sometimes is actu vice versa.
I twnd to go well along ugly girls coz sometimes they are much better in nature than beautiful ones
Pretty ones tend to get a ego or attitude towards their looks and then are confused if i like them or not (sometimes I'm too lol, but otherwise I'm not)

Anonymous · Answer

No I treat people equally. I have a very friendly personality and i try to be nice to girls, guys, and even guys I find ugly. I've been told in the past some guys usually the ones I was not attracted to would take that as me "being interested in them" and I would tell them in a polite way of course that I don't think of them romantically, and that I'm just really friendly around people.

JEndigoBleue · Answer

No. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I treat all men the same. I'm careful how I engage men in conversation. Especially, if I'm not attracted to you or see a potential casual or serious relationship with. It doesn't matter if you're unattractive or not. If you don't fit my criteria, you don't fit my criteria.

VioletAsh · Answer

No I don’t... if anything I give “ugly” guys a chance and I really get to know them because I think personality means a lot. But then I’m like FUCK I like them but I’m not physically attracted and I can’t help it.

Sonorous · Answer

I believe everyone naturally does. But oftentimes people don't realize it since the majority of people in the world are ugly to them. It stands out more when there are attractive people around to really show the difference.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

No I wouldn't treat anyone badly unless they treated me bad. Looks wouldn't have anything to do with that

KimDoe · Answer

I don't often see anyone I find "ugly." Generally I treat everyone the same. When I was younger, I did feel intimidated by gorgeous men. Consequently, I acted different around them. I hated that, but my ego couldn't allow me to avoid them. Until I developed some self-confidence and social skills, I made a bit of a fool of myself.

Holisticapproachsara · Answer

Only if they are acting creepy and trying to sexually harass me (which more ugly men do it than good looking men. good looking men tend to act haughty) other than that i dont bully anyone

angelgirl7 · Answer

Nah. I treat everyone the same, and that's according their personality/who the are as a person. Treat people the way you want to be treated.

menina · Answer

Absolutely not, that's stupid. If they're nice and polite to me, I'm going to be nice and polite to them no matter how they look.

Minahh · Answer

Nope why should I? Everyone deserves to be treated with kindness. Maybe yes I've treated some not the best in the past but I have experienced being bullied so now I understand the importance of not causing pain when I can't cause good.

Lanabear119 · Answer

I wouldn’t even be talking to them, to be able to treat them bad.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

They absolutely do. There are empirical evidence of this self explanatory phenomenon. Some of them feel the need to deny it, but their bullshit is see-through.

cicadas · Answer

No. I treat everyone with equal respect unless they give me a valid reason not to.

Sincerly_KittyCat · Answer

I dont think i do, to better rephrae it is i dont think i would, i have found anyone that wowed me.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Pretty much everyone does. Its not like most adults treat the average and ugly terribly. They just give them less attention. People are drawn to attractive things, whether its a person or object.

arlesche · Answer

I treat good/kind people well, and cut the toxic people out. I don't care what you look like as far as how I treat you, but I wouldn't date someone I'm not attracted to.

Amanda1981 · Answer

Any man that approaches me to flirt/date while looking or smelling like a sack of crap will be shamed so that he understands his place, yeah. I'm doing a public service for other women. You're welcome, ladies.

aliali8 · Answer

I think ugly girls are treated worse than ugly guys

Flirt254 · Answer

I wouldn't call anyone ugly... The more you get to know someone is the more you see their beauty..

babybelle172 · Answer

I have a hard resting bitch face so it does appear that I do however I really don't. It all depends on their personality and behavior.

likelyOK · Answer

Not bad you just obviously don’t flirt with them

Ally247 · Answer

I don't find people ugly

Dnice1 · Answer

No, I treat everyone with respect and kindness 😊

dwiller943 · Answer

Nope. I treat people based on their personality.

Anonymous · Answer

No but I do treat guys with horrible values worse.

chapawapa · Answer

Look at all the bitter men voting lol 😆

Anonymous · Answer

I'm to British to be rude to anybody

genericname85 · Answer

That's what people generally do. So yes

Unit1 · Answer

Not as good as a good looking guy more like.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Never because it's extremely stupid.

Kamarislife · Answer

No, unless they're a cheating scumbag then yes.

JessicaNeo · Answer

If his heart is ugly then I would treat him worse

HuTao · Answer

I treat them just as bad

Anonymous · Answer

Wow, the absurdity of women saying no here, smh.

vibrovevo · Answer

looks DON'T matter

NathanDavis · Answer

They do not.

phoebe245 · Answer

No that's not fair

Joker_ · Answer

Yeah

JessieBellll · Answer

I don't

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