Lets look at the life of an actress here. She starts getting heroine roles in between 15 to 30 years. But after that, she may start getting side roles more than the lead role. The industry is swift to replace the actress.
Does that mean she hit the wall? Yes. She did hit the first of many walls in her life.
Every time you age, you hit a wall and you no longer have access to that part. But the good thing is, the people similar to your age have also hit that wall and hence they too, are likely to find only you as their option rather than any other person.
Like @OlderAndWiser said, you just need to look for people around your age only.
recently, I have gone to bed a few times with a professional woman who is 44 years old. She is absolutely not yet at her peak. She’s beautiful, she doesn’t have a bit of gray hair (and it’s gorgeous chestnut hair that is absolutely not dyed), and she has smooth skin and a tight, gorgeous body. she looks so young that I can see people looking at me when we’re together and wondering if I’m dating one of my college students. With her clothes off, she looks even younger, if that’s possible. The only way that she is different from a 20 year old girl is that she’s better educated has more depth of conversation, and she is much more experienced in bed with a much higher sex drive.
that she’s better educated has more depth of conversation, and she is much more experienced in bed with a much higher sex drive.
so, my recent experience says that 30 is absolutely not “the wall.”
I absolutely do not think that women "hit the wall" at 30. And in general, 30 is still pretty young in the long run, though you should definitely know better.
As for the Taylor Swift example, I gotta say, to me she looks way hotter at 30 than at 20. At 20 she seems to have a rather immature vibe, but at 30 she looks so much more mature and sophisticated.
No, that's nonsense. People need to ignore these sexually frustrated fools saying women are like dried up corn husks past their prime birthing years. What you lose in elasticity you gain in radiance that comes from a grounded knowledge of self and acceptance. That is if you don't fall into the external validation traps.
Men who say that about women are immature, what it means is when women hit 30 they aren't party party party anymore they are more inclined to be settled or to settle and more likely than not fed up with immature males which is why some immature men come out with things like that. Most men do mature and wouldn't say that about women as men at 30 also to are partied out and want to settle
Some people say 30 is old but they are just being petty. The main thing that declines in the 30s would be women’s fertility in the late 30s, but that is nowhere near 30.
I think what people are tying to say is that at 30 women’s looks start to change and their personality, circumstances and lifestyle choices affect how that pans out. Many women look very beautiful for decades after 30, but others who are too stressed or grumpy start to show it.
A woman loses 90% of her eggs by age 30. Leaving her with about 100-150k eggs left. Everytime a woman has her period she uses up ~1000 eggs. By the time a woman is in her mid 30s she has about 1/2 left. By early 40's she is down to under 10k.
@Lookingforthetruth In your statement you say that by the mid 30s she has at least 5% eggs left and it gets very low around the early 40s. Both of those ages are still well past 30. If a woman really wanted to have kids, it would be safer for her to do it before the 35-40 year range, however not every person thinks that having kids is the be all and end all.
Vast majority of human being want kids. It's part of biologicla imperative. For the vast majority of women who say they don't want kids in their youth, they often come to regret it when their older.
Also the so called "Well past" is untrue. 35 isn't that far off from age 30 and is deemed a time period when women is considered advance maternal age. 37 years old is when eggs really start to plumet for a lot of women and they run into fertility problems. It should also add that the older a woman gets she runs the risk of having a higher incidence of pregnancy complication both for herself and her baby.
Overall, its really not a good idea for women to be holding off pregnancy until their mid to late 30's.
No. It all depends how a woman takes care of herself. I didn't glow up till i was 22-23 and im almost 24 and i think each year im looking more hotter and prettier especially cause I quit drinking all together not that i ever drank much but i care about my skin and overall health so yeah and my cousin is 19 but she packs on a lot of makeup and doesn't care about her skin and my mom thinks she looks older than I do.
You said it perfectly. Insecure men say these silly things. My friend, although he is a friend, he is super insecure and thinks this way. 30 is young.
I personally think many women look better even older, I think nothing bad about wrinkles and many 40 year old or so women have some of them and just look good.
People age. I was looking at some old photos of me when I was in my 20s 40 years ago. That wall business is NOT BS, it is 40, not 30 by the way! Let me phrase it this way. Every single female I know is looking but can't lock down a guy! With two exceptions every male I know that is 40+ is dating 20something females with no desire to settle down. I really wish people both male and female would stop looking at "studies" from online sources and go look in the real world. As I said people age, I am 64. While there are some exceptions men and women age differently. If you are a female and not in a relationship by the time you are 35, you are playing with fire!
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)
1 y
Not really its closer to 40. For example a pregnancy when the woman is 35 is considered a geriatric pregnancy, and the odds of having viable offspring post 30 go way down, and in the 40's it gets WAY worse.. So in appearance the wall is later, but for fertility the wall definitely is 30.
This always hits such a sensitive nerve with women they don’t like hearing the cold honest truth, you guys think you deserve to have your superpowers your whole life and it’s delusional 🤣
Just because a woman hits 30 doesn’t automatically make her ugly but the best women are ever gunna look is in their teens and 20’s 🤷♂️ why do rich men go for younger women if it wasn’t true? why aren’t runway models all 40 years old if that’s when they “peak”? I can only think of maybe a handful of girls i went to high school with that were pretty back then that i’d still consider cute now but even with that said, they’re not even close to how pretty they were when they were younger. by the way using women that are celebrities as examples is not indicative of women as whole, taylor swift can afford every anti-aging therapy you could ever imagine and she doesn’t have kids.
And I said this in another comment but our fashion industry is all pedophilic.. they make younger girls seem more attractive when they just aren't so that's what we see in media
@dolemite89 people tell me all the time i look better now in my 20s than my teens so you definitely cannot speak for everyone lol. Also my cousin is 19 and looks old as she wears a lot of makeup, has a bunch of tattoos and is starting to consume alcohol and i do Think she smokes. I however as a soon to be 24 year old doesn't do any of that and never wear makeup and take care of my skin and health. You say that too in the sense that men dont ever look bad... they can too if they let themselves go.
you obviously have a different mentality of what’s pretty that completely disregards what men actually find attractive 🤷♂️ i don’t know any woman in her 30’s that’s as pretty as her prime from 18-25. they all start getting mom boobs as you called it 🤣
@dolemite89 im aware of that and will do lol. You should look up Valky Rae if you dont know her she is a streamer and turned 30 this past January and i dont see that she's changed at all since 25.
Women are not in their prime at 18-25. Most of them are hitting their second puberty at that age where their hips and legs come in. We can't hit our prime when we ain't even done developing 😂
why are you arguing over what guys find attractive like you have a clue? 🤦♂️ that’s like me telling u how being pregnant feels, how the hell would i know?
It's a myth or an over-exaggeration, you are right that I do think there is some component of insecurity or envy in there. So, there is no such thing as the "wall" especially in the modern age of convenience, and I don't care if there isn't either. I like a lot of 30s-50s women.
Like most cliches, this one is BS; some women are done at 25, others look decent into their 50's. It's a matter of genetics and how well they take care of themselves in terms of avoiding excessive drug and alcohol use, diet and exercise, AND avoiding too much time in the sun. As well as avoiding weight gain.
You will always be attractive to men in your age range. Younger girls don' lose their appeal but, as we get older, the women our age remain appealing. I am attracted to my 59 year old girlfriend and she definitely doesn't look like she is 30!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
131Opinion
Lets look at the life of an actress here. She starts getting heroine roles in between 15 to 30 years. But after that, she may start getting side roles more than the lead role. The industry is swift to replace the actress.
Does that mean she hit the wall? Yes. She did hit the first of many walls in her life.
Every time you age, you hit a wall and you no longer have access to that part. But the good thing is, the people similar to your age have also hit that wall and hence they too, are likely to find only you as their option rather than any other person.
Like @OlderAndWiser said, you just need to look for people around your age only.
recently, I have gone to bed a few times with a professional woman who is 44 years old. She is absolutely not yet at her peak. She’s beautiful, she doesn’t have a bit of gray hair (and it’s gorgeous chestnut hair that is absolutely not dyed), and she has smooth skin and a tight, gorgeous body. she looks so young that I can see people looking at me when we’re together and wondering if I’m dating one of my college students. With her clothes off, she looks even younger, if that’s possible. The only way that she is different from a 20 year old girl is that she’s better educated has more depth of conversation, and she is much more experienced in bed with a much higher sex drive.
that she’s better educated has more depth of conversation, and she is much more experienced in bed with a much higher sex drive.
so, my recent experience says that 30 is absolutely not “the wall.”
I absolutely do not think that women "hit the wall" at 30. And in general, 30 is still pretty young in the long run, though you should definitely know better.
As for the Taylor Swift example, I gotta say, to me she looks way hotter at 30 than at 20. At 20 she seems to have a rather immature vibe, but at 30 she looks so much more mature and sophisticated.
No, that's nonsense. People need to ignore these sexually frustrated fools saying women are like dried up corn husks past their prime birthing years. What you lose in elasticity you gain in radiance that comes from a grounded knowledge of self and acceptance. That is if you don't fall into the external validation traps.
Men who say that about women are immature, what it means is when women hit 30 they aren't party party party anymore they are more inclined to be settled or to settle and more likely than not fed up with immature males which is why some immature men come out with things like that. Most men do mature and wouldn't say that about women as men at 30 also to are partied out and want to settle
Some people say 30 is old but they are just being petty. The main thing that declines in the 30s would be women’s fertility in the late 30s, but that is nowhere near 30.
I think what people are tying to say is that at 30 women’s looks start to change and their personality, circumstances and lifestyle choices affect how that pans out. Many women look very beautiful for decades after 30, but others who are too stressed or grumpy start to show it.
A woman loses 90% of her eggs by age 30. Leaving her with about 100-150k eggs left. Everytime a woman has her period she uses up ~1000 eggs. By the time a woman is in her mid 30s she has about 1/2 left. By early 40's she is down to under 10k.
@Lookingforthetruth In your statement you say that by the mid 30s she has at least 5% eggs left and it gets very low around the early 40s. Both of those ages are still well past 30. If a woman really wanted to have kids, it would be safer for her to do it before the 35-40 year range, however not every person thinks that having kids is the be all and end all.
Vast majority of human being want kids. It's part of biologicla imperative. For the vast majority of women who say they don't want kids in their youth, they often come to regret it when their older.
Also the so called "Well past" is untrue. 35 isn't that far off from age 30 and is deemed a time period when women is considered advance maternal age. 37 years old is when eggs really start to plumet for a lot of women and they run into fertility problems. It should also add that the older a woman gets she runs the risk of having a higher incidence of pregnancy complication both for herself and her baby.
Overall, its really not a good idea for women to be holding off pregnancy until their mid to late 30's.
No. It all depends how a woman takes care of herself. I didn't glow up till i was 22-23 and im almost 24 and i think each year im looking more hotter and prettier especially cause I quit drinking all together not that i ever drank much but i care about my skin and overall health so yeah and my cousin is 19 but she packs on a lot of makeup and doesn't care about her skin and my mom thinks she looks older than I do.
Also my friend is 33 and people think she's 25 because of how much she takes care of herself
I agree with you on this. I think the "women hit the wall at 30" thing is a meme from the incel/MGTOW crowd. It's misogynistic.
For sure seems like just a internet thing cuz i don't see or hear that shit irl
You said it perfectly. Insecure men say these silly things. My friend, although he is a friend, he is super insecure and thinks this way. 30 is young.
I personally think many women look better even older, I think nothing bad about wrinkles and many 40 year old or so women have some of them and just look good.
Nope. Somehow I look younger in my 40s than I did in my 30s. I can't complain, but my husband has been mistaken for my father more than once. 😈🤣🤣🤣
Haha how embarrassing. Are y'all the same age?
Not the same age, but close.
People age. I was looking at some old photos of me when I was in my 20s 40 years ago. That wall business is NOT BS, it is 40, not 30 by the way! Let me phrase it this way. Every single female I know is looking but can't lock down a guy! With two exceptions every male I know that is 40+ is dating 20something females with no desire to settle down. I really wish people both male and female would stop looking at "studies" from online sources and go look in the real world. As I said people age, I am 64. While there are some exceptions men and women age differently. If you are a female and not in a relationship by the time you are 35, you are playing with fire!
Not really its closer to 40. For example a pregnancy when the woman is 35 is considered a geriatric pregnancy, and the odds of having viable offspring post 30 go way down, and in the 40's it gets WAY worse.. So in appearance the wall is later, but for fertility the wall definitely is 30.
also Taylor swift is a poor example.. Eww. lol.
Yeah I'm not a swift fan and don't even find her that attractive. It was just a example of how little she changed in that time frame.
oh no disagreement. Im more a Morena Baccarin fan my self. Or Lexa doig.. Both are huge in the kind of movies i watch, Scifi lol
https://www.imdb.com/name/nm1072555/
Ah they are hot 🔥
Right!!! Met them both. Scifi Con's are fantastic.
I think it’s nonsense. People age differently and aging isn’t solely or even mostly physical.
@Robbey I still can't believe you're 51.
@Jamie05rhs she looks great for 51!
@Apple1996 IKR?
I can honestly say I’ve had far more make attention in my 40s than at any other time in my life.
Makes sense I'm thinking 40s is the real prime for women
It’s definitely when sex drive and confidence seem to peak 🤷♀️
Absolutely I agree with you..
I had best sex with age of woman between 33-36 girls get more mature. Beautiful & intelligent after 30 Crossed..
And age is just a number look good in birth certificate that's it...
by the way did you had sex today? 😂
I had sex last night 😊
How's that? I had too but it's just hookup.
It was amazing!
I had sex with 34age married woman. . I can tell you that sex was just awesome. So don't believe in this 30age nonsense theory...
I bet you became more horny after 30
Thanks me later. 😂
@Apple1996
Well I'm 30 next year, so I'll let you know how much it hurts when I "hit the wall!". lol
I'm sure it won't hurt yah 😂
@Apple1996
👍😂🙂
This always hits such a sensitive nerve with women they don’t like hearing the cold honest truth, you guys think you deserve to have your superpowers your whole life and it’s delusional 🤣
Just because a woman hits 30 doesn’t automatically make her ugly but the best women are ever gunna look is in their teens and 20’s 🤷♂️ why do rich men go for younger women if it wasn’t true? why aren’t runway models all 40 years old if that’s when they “peak”? I can only think of maybe a handful of girls i went to high school with that were pretty back then that i’d still consider cute now but even with that said, they’re not even close to how pretty they were when they were younger. by the way using women that are celebrities as examples is not indicative of women as whole, taylor swift can afford every anti-aging therapy you could ever imagine and she doesn’t have kids.
I've noticed the opposite most girls just don't peak in high-school. They look much better in their 30s then back in their teens
And I said this in another comment but our fashion industry is all pedophilic.. they make younger girls seem more attractive when they just aren't so that's what we see in media
@dolemite89 people tell me all the time i look better now in my 20s than my teens so you definitely cannot speak for everyone lol. Also my cousin is 19 and looks old as she wears a lot of makeup, has a bunch of tattoos and is starting to consume alcohol and i do Think she smokes. I however as a soon to be 24 year old doesn't do any of that and never wear makeup and take care of my skin and health. You say that too in the sense that men dont ever look bad... they can too if they let themselves go.
The fact that men are attracted to teens is whats scary. Looking like a child shout NOT get your dick hard. Jfc….
you obviously have a different mentality of what’s pretty that completely disregards what men actually find attractive 🤷♂️ i don’t know any woman in her 30’s that’s as pretty as her prime from 18-25. they all start getting mom boobs as you called it 🤣
@Paulalove98 you’re still in your 20’s get back to me when you’re 30 😝
@dolemite89 im aware of that and will do lol. You should look up Valky Rae if you dont know her she is a streamer and turned 30 this past January and i dont see that she's changed at all since 25.
Women are not in their prime at 18-25. Most of them are hitting their second puberty at that age where their hips and legs come in. We can't hit our prime when we ain't even done developing 😂
why are you arguing over what guys find attractive like you have a clue? 🤦♂️ that’s like me telling u how being pregnant feels, how the hell would i know?
I'm also attracted to women so seems pretty fair for me to discuss what ages women are and aren't attractive
It's a myth or an over-exaggeration, you are right that I do think there is some component of insecurity or envy in there. So, there is no such thing as the "wall" especially in the modern age of convenience, and I don't care if there isn't either. I like a lot of 30s-50s women.
Like most cliches, this one is BS; some women are done at 25, others look decent into their 50's. It's a matter of genetics and how well they take care of themselves in terms of avoiding excessive drug and alcohol use, diet and exercise, AND avoiding too much time in the sun. As well as avoiding weight gain.
I've known women who looked BETTER at 40 than at 18.
You will always be attractive to men in your age range. Younger girls don' lose their appeal but, as we get older, the women our age remain appealing. I am attracted to my 59 year old girlfriend and she definitely doesn't look like she is 30!