My brother is very attractive and girls swarm him all the time. He's had a bunch of girlfriends and slept with almost 100 different woman. I'm thirty and he's just three years older than me. I've only had one girlfriend my entire life, and only slept with one person. It makes me feel like a looser because I haven't had a girlfriend in two years and I am very lonely and depressed about it. It's like nobody wants me, and I can't help but feel jealous and worthless. What's so wrong with me, why do I always have to be alone. Can anyone feel my sorrow?
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The real question is do you want to be a player or in an actual relationship. Why envy your brother? I mean yeah he has had over a 100 women, but did any of them truly love him for him? Or just for his looks?
Trust me I've had envy before, but in the end I learned there was nothing to be jealous about because I am my own person.
You need some confidence for one. Never doubt yourself or talk down on yourself.
When it comes down to it what's better. One woman who truly love you or a hundred women who want you for your family jewels?0