My sister takes every guy I like?

[Anonymous]

My sister is 19 I am 15. Ever since i starting dating and like guys my sister gets in the way and ruins it. The first guy i met and dated I "loved" (or had deep feelings for.) he left me for my sister and i even told her hey it would really hurt if u dated him but she did anyways. after that any crush i had she fucking dated and slept with! then, about 3 nights go we were hanging with some friends which included this one guy i thought was really cute and i told her how much i liked him and he even said he liked me and he held my hand but today he was ignoring me and i found out she's talking to him and wants to date him and they are dating! I am so fed up with this! don't say she's doing me a favor! I wanna do something evil to her bc im being hurt everytime i like a guy! She said "not my fault you like every fucking guy you meet" first, not true and second that doesn't mean she can steal them.

[UniquelyBasic]

How old are the men? If she's 19 and dating underage boys then thats a serious problem and if they are over 18 you shouldn't be hanging out with those guys. Either way she should respect who you like and not try to get in the middle of your relationships but its also on the guy too for not being loyal to you, leaving you for your sister. It all seems like a huge mess.

[Asker]

They're not over 18. The first guy I loved was 17

[UniquelyBasic]

Yeah, she should not be dating or hanging out with people underage.

[Asker]

I don't think she cares, she just wants whichever guy I date

[ChrisMaster69]

Just remind her what goes around comes around.

Remind her that when you are 18/19 she’s going to be heading towards her 30’s and guys will soo more prefer you over her.

it’s nasty but might sink home what she is doing and how you can really fuck her over later on.

[Asker]

Guys do prefer me. They always go for me first, and then she sneaks behind my back to take them from me :(

[ChrisMaster69]

That really sucks and I’ve had mates do similar where you chat to a girl, she likes you and then they sneak behaving your back.

Obviously far worse if it’s your sister.

It was an early rule my sister and me agreed on, no poaching.

There is an element of the guys she’s stealing are fairly shallow if they go for her over you, especially if you were chatting to them first.

It will definitely change over later

[Asker]

Ew we need to drop those people if they’re friends. Unfortunately I can’t drop my sister though. I think they’re attracted to her because she’s desperate and puts out and throws herself at them whereas I’m less desperate

[ChrisMaster69]

She’s coming off as a poor role model, with poor taste in guys.

Longer term not putting out as easy works better, not saying you can’t have fun, just don’t do the stuff your sis is doing with the desperate for attention thing.

Did she date in school?

[Asker]

She's definitely not my role model, I actually resent her I think she's been a bitch. Yeah I agree, I don't need to throw myself at people to attract them like she does. She did date at school, and was just as desperate for male attention then as she is now!

[ChrisMaster69]

Personally desperate is always a put off, I don’t mind people liking and wanting sex, it’s the being desperate and pretty much throwing themselves at people, sort of lack of respect for yourself

[Asker]

Yeah I feel like that’s the case for some guys, but some will take any girls who is an easy lay

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah plenty like that, I need an emotional connection more than just physical

[ChrisMaster69]

Thanks for MHG

[Biancam13]

Your sister is a jealous bitch who takes your guys to feel better than you, when in reality probably feels inferior to you. Are you prettier? You can't really stop her behaviour, all you can do is date good, loyal guys who have morals and will only like you, and won't go after your sister even if she desperately throws herself at him and offers an easy lay.

[Asker]

I want to but I feel I can't trust guys anymore.. Like how do I know any guy I like won't do the same thing as the past guys?

[Anonymous]

I think she’s definitely insecure. I think it’s best that the next time you have a crush on a guy, you should keep it to yourself and not tell your sister. She’s gonna keep stealing guys away from you so it’s best that you keep some distance away from her and keep your dating life private.

[OlderAndWiser]

WITF do you keep bringing guys around to meet her? At this point, you are helping her to accomplish this!

[dudeinohio]

Look at it this way. If a guy was worth dating, he wouldn't allow your sister to steal him. He'd be loyal to you.

Use her as a "twit filter" you'll find someone who is loyal to you eventually.

[Asker]

True that

[Waldoe]

she sounds like an insecure Slut,
Before you bring a guy home, tell him all about her, and "warn" them that several guys have caught "the clap" from her and then she dumps them... and if they decide to get involved with her, they will NEVER be with you again... or, choose better guys... Your sister is acting like a Slut and doesn't care, so you should not worry about protecting her reputation

[Aerissa_Jade]

Not much you can do right now except not let the two meet, ever... but when your 18 or 19 and she is 23 or so... you can steal her guys no doubt. If they prefer you over her that is.

[jshm2]

You're simple and basic, kiddo.

If she can get those guys so easily, then what the fuck do you think that says about those guys as well?

You've got shitty taste in guys, just like your sister.