Why do so many women put their hair up in buns when the vast majority of men find it extremely unattractive? I have never done it myself?

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DoctorSex · Accepted Answer

As I recently posted, women in the west do not care about what males want. This is all part of the destruction of the west.

I know this sounds extreme but the west is cursed and I mean that scientifically lol, this is just one of the manifestations of that curse. Whatever men say they like, the women will work tirelessly to make sure they do not give him it.

This may sound sadistic, but as an anthropologist lover and spiritual man it's fascinating to watch how God goes about destroying a people. We read about it in the books, but we're witnessing how it happens in real time. The complete disrespect towards men, the Bible says that he will make them blind, deaf and dumb. It's truly fascinating to watch how God goes about his work.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Most women in the West today don't care what men think, UNLESS he's a hot, wealthy stud, and if she overheard him say that he's only attracted to bald women, or women with pink and green Mohawks, most women would be on their phones making a hair appointment the next minute. But, otherwise, they don't care.

If you look in parts of the world where there is a shortage of men, virtually all of the women will have long hair and will wear it down. When women have to compete for men, they know exactly what most men want, and quickly become just that.

catiecatie · Accepted Answer

I’m in a male dominated field. I wear my hair up in a pony tail and a bun. If it’s cold out then I’ll wear my hair down. I’m not interested in anyone I work with minus some of the guys I used to work with. I have a crush on one of them that I don’t see anymore. Have to see what happens there. I do find some guys I work with attractive, but I will not date a coworker plus if I don’t know if they are single or not I won’t attempt to ask them or flirt. I’ll have a normal conversation with them nothing else.

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

1.  Comfort  = My long, thick hair can be like a  jacket  during warm weather. Tying up my hair allows  ventilation  for my neck.  2.  Work  = Some tasks I do can't be done better when my long, thick is out of the way.  3.  Request  = My husband likes to have my neck  accessible .  4.  Fashion  = If I wanna show up my (new) neck & ear jewelry, people can easily see them when my hair is  styled up  fashionably.

melanieeeB · Answer

Cause we want to... you shouldn't base your decision on the opinion of others... if you're living just to please what guys think then sorry you're lost smh

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

First, how is it unattractive? There’s lots of reasons women would do that.

And I don’t think any of those reasons is “ women purposely doing it to spite men because they find it unattractive.

But then, you’re assuming all men find it unattractive which I’d say isn’t the case.

RavVid · Answer

Huh? I find buns quite attractive. It is also very femme when girls are fixing their hair and I like watching that. Plus it also makes their tits stick out and that is always good.

I have noticed some girls fix their hair more than they really need to so I think girls are onto guys enjoying watching them do it.

Rosexøxø · Answer

I would either feel like a ballerina/ New York cop doing business/ or military lady. Helps in summer to keep cool and it feels freeing to be messy without being low/unhygienic.

I don’t do them anymore. I like loose hair to be free, and just shortened mine so it’s not long like a blanket. If I lived in a cold climate I’d keep longer hair, but it doesn’t do much for me, other than looks.

Looksnicholas · Answer

I actually think it depends on the woman and the style they have, and whether a bun suits them or not. I for one like lately hair that's just above shoulder length, but not a pixie cut or a small bob/blob either.

I prefer low neck buns, not the top hat buns. Lol. On the right woman ♀️😌

JennaWillow · Answer

Men don't really care about hair from what I've seen lol, as long as your clean they're on board with whatever you've got. The reason it's a thing though is that it's just easy and keeps your hair out of your face/the way of anything your doing.

OneManOnly01 · Answer

That’s not true. I actually prefer such ‘raw’ hairstyles where she ties her hair back into a quick, casual ponytail.

It’s actually such an unusual turn-on lol. Arguably the hottest hairstyle a girl could put on.

Why do so many women put their hair up in buns when the vast majority of men find it extremely unattractive? I have never done it myself?

JustinTheGreat · Answer

you’re telling me that you have NEVER put your hair in a bun? I don’t believe you 😭

even as a dude I know that not every woman is looking to please men 24/7 lol. I know buns are an easy style for a lazy day especially if their isn’t washed or is tangled

AdithyaR · Answer

What's wrong with buns? I think they looks pretty and elegant.
I assume with long hair sometimes it's easier to wear it like that while doing certain tasks.
Plus preferences are very subjective.
And lastly, it's better for people to present themselves in ways that they themselves like than to base it off what others like.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

I don't mind. Awoman with her hair in abunch. Maybe she has a busy day, maybe she cleaning, maybe she got up early and had to take kids to school or to sports. I hope one date she won't wear her hair in a bun. But otherwise does it really matter? Hair in a bun, in a ponytail, braids, or down. I'm fine with it.

kylee2437 · Answer

Why do you think women put their hair in buns to impress men? Lol are you on drugs?

burlen · Answer

Care to provide evidence to support the claim, "When the vast majority of men find it extremely unattractive", please? I wasn't aware females wear a particular hairstyle to appeal to males.

Greedier · Answer

Because they want and don't care about others' opinion xD

Everyone got their own style, some buns more convenient too.

I just don't put my hair up in buns cos I suck at it, after a sec my hair falls down again xD

hahahmm · Answer

Women do a LOT of things that men don't find attractive. The smart ones definitely try to do more attractive things for the guy they want to attract/keep tho.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I don't understand what all the fuss is, it's primarily a practical thing, rather than a fashion statement.

That said, I much prefer tied up hair rather than loose, it's cleaner and neater and conveys a professional image.

jshm2 · Answer

Because they aren't doing it for "the men," you jackass.  They are likely doing it for the functionality aspect. Mainly as it's simple and effective at holding back a large or long bunch of hair.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

We do? I like to see the hair down sometimes but I got no problem with a messy ball. It looks really good on some women.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Because its how i like to wear my hair. Idgaf what he thinks. There are many other dudes who will deal

Grond21 · Answer

Maybe the vast majority of men in your acquaintance do not like it, but I do not think this is a true universal statement.

A great many men do like it. It shows off the neck, ears, and back of the head quite wonderfully

MCheetah · Answer

"[the] vast majority of men find it extremely unattractive" I don't think that's necessarily true... You're applying female logic to men. Most men do not care about things like this.

Anonymous · Answer

Women with long hair have to put in a lot of time and effort to make it looks good. Putting it up is just easier.

But I think you're wrong about being "extremely unattractive". I actually find it kind of sexy when my wife does it. I can access her neck and shoulders easier.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Who said it's unattractive? I had guys complimented me while I put my hair up in a bun.. 😮

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

From what I hear, men love updos and especially ponytails. I guess it depends on where you live. My father always found my hair to be the prettiest when curled and styled up in a ponytail.

coachTanthony · Answer

Hopefully women are running around doing things just for men's approval.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

We don't do things only to impress men. Putting up a bun is comfortable because hair won't come over your face and your neck won't be sweaty and smelly.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Speak for yourself! I have no problem with them doing it. My question is HOW they do it! All I can do with mine is put it in a pony tail. If I tried the bun, it'd be a huge knot and I'd have to cut it all off!!

Datboi65 · Answer

For the same reason they wear weaves, extremely long nails, bonnets and sweat pants outside. Some women just don't like putting effort, but are entitled enough to expect the best out of men.

Massageman · Answer

It's more of a functional thing, in my opinion.

My older daughter had long hair, so would use that little pony tail hole" in the back of her cap to keep the hair out of her eyes when she played shortstop in softball league.

suzzieQ · Answer

Because I want to... if men dont find buns attractive then they dont have to wear one if they dont want to. Im a person not eye candy, and I dont dress up to impress anyone unless I want to.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Extremely unattractive? I'd like to see the scientific polling on that. Although I generally prefer it down, I do not find it unattractive at all.

Becky316 · Answer

Several reasons
1. Comfort, certain things are easier with it up and out of the way.
2. Too damn hot sometimes and having it up is cooler.
3. When working and getting sweaty, it certainly feels better unless it's fun time with hubby.

BlackBeauty90 · Answer

ROFL you're an idiot 🤣. @sarah3579 If men really found it unattractive women wouldn't do it, they also wouldn't get their hair to shoulder length or less but many men like short hair

sluttyrhonda · Answer

Let's just hope that you get your message out!

FWIW... I have very long hair. I know what it is like to have it in my face, mouth or just all over the place. I tie it up to a pony tail often but if my girlfriend had a preference, that's what I would go with because I agree... Women's hair long is incomparable.

Counterclocking · Answer

What? I don’t find it unattractive. Whether in a ponytail, braids, a bun, or down. It’s attractive to me. However, her wearing it down is the sexiest to me.

xJeremyx · Answer

Cuz putting hair in buns is not meant to attract men? Like, hair buns are just convenient, especially when you don't want hair everywhere when doing stuff.

dustybiker · Answer

“Vast majority of men”, huh? Untrue. Lots of blanket statements on GaG today.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I hardly ever wear my hair in a bun. But I've never heard a guy say that buns are extremely unattractive either.

Anonymous · Answer

If you don’t understand why women put their hair up, then you clearly aren’t a woman.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I struggle to accept that more than one third of women choose their hairstyle on men’s preferences more than one third of the time.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Women these days don't exactly do or wear many attractive things. A lot of them are such slobs.

Guy13 · Answer

You are smarter than the average single girl for sure !!

chrissykerdock · Answer

when i give blowjobs i always wear my hair up men don't seem to mind

NathanDavis · Answer

could not care less about what the vast majority thinks... I love it

Anonymous · Answer

Most the men I know love buns the same as having it out. I have mine in a bun for work or the gym or even going out clubbing and I get loads of attention lol

DubiousIntentions · Answer

Which man didn't find Princess Leah attractive with her buns - and slave costume?

Nomina · Answer

Are you sure the vast majority of men find it extremely unattractive? Which men? Where?

JessicaEarl · Answer

I don’t live my life to be eye candy. Boys fart and it’s unattractive but they still do it

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

1. I have long hair  2. I don’t give a shit

Adaeva · Answer

Your question is false. Most men do not find hair up a bun unattractive.

CA4444 · Answer

Never new it was so unattractive? Usually women try to make themselves attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Because we can do whatever we want? We don't need to worry constantly about whether guys find things attractive. It's better to just do things because YOU like them, no one else.

Dnice1 · Answer

From what I know some do find it attractive. I usually just put mine in a pony tail and wear it down for church or other special occasions.

AsaKyo · Answer

Maybe they just don't feel like wearing their hair down

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I've also heard that buns are sexy because they show off the neck.

InsecureLivesMatter · Answer

because it's the physical equivalent of calling yourself a conservative/Trump supporter without making it seem obvious. Liberal girls like to pull their hair down.

Blackmoonsns · Answer

Because it's easy it takes little effort to style your hair correctly and it's a cute look.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you kidding? That’s sexy as hell. Especially because it usually indicates she’s about to give me a blowjob when she goes her hair up lol

Pudsmucker · Answer

My wife puts her hair up when she does not have time to have it done when she's in a hurry to get some place.

Quigly · Answer

Nowadays men are putting their hair in a bun. Which, I personally find creepy and weird.

soe11 · Answer

To me attractive either way, especially my girlfriend hair, she silky shiny straight hair.

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