Because you are your own worst enemy , and you probably have anxiety, Most people in general do not find themselves Hot and Attractive , when we look ourselves in the mirror , our eyes instantly go to the parts we don’t like about ourselves , so we tend to criticize our own appearance and knock ourselves down and feel that we aren’t as beautiful as someone else says we are , because we wonder what they are seeing that we aren’t seeing in ourselves , so we tend to feel we aren’t good enough , social media and tv etc warped our heads to think we need to look a certain way to be accepted , and that ‘s a load of shit , so we often question ourselves as to what does someone else see that we aren’t seeing in ourselves? When you learn to accept yourself for who you are and realize you are a beautiful person and you accept
Yourself for who you are and stop attacking Yourself , that’s where your self esteem and confidence will rise and that’s mainly what attracts someone else to you , When you accept who you are and value yourself worth , a positive energy forms around you that others will be drawn to , Someone isn’t going to tell you that you are sexy AF if you aren’t sexy AF , so either you were raised thinking you were never good enough or you suffer from anxiety , or you were bullied by others saying you aren’t that attractive , that could
Lead to you having anxiety about yourself , Anxiety makes you think others are talking behind your back and makes you think you aren’t good enough , I dated a girl with severe anxiety and damn that was hard lol so if that’s the case , whether they are talking about you behind your back or not , Always remember this , if someone else is wasting their energy talking behind your back and criticizing you or belittling or they say it to your face , they are more than likely jealous of you and insecure about themselves. when someone else is concerned about someone else’s appearance , that person is insecure and jealous of themselves , they can’t accept themselves for who they are so by knocking someone else down makes them feel better about themselves without them realizing in themselves that they look like a piece of shit. So surround yourself with people that find you attractive , that find you sexy AF , and distance Yourself from people that can’t accept you for who you are , and word
Of advice, stay off of social media as much as possible , Social media and tv is all bullshit , a money maker
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Because you're looking at the wrong places I would bet you're absolutely gorgeous I bet you're absolutely beautiful but see I would need to look into your eyes to confirm that because true beauty comes from the inside it's who you are it's who you really are the outside of you it's just all an extra bonus if you don't know yourself and who you truly are make a choice because you get to choose who you want to be in life just by the things you say and do if you're feeling ugly I'm sure it has nothing to do with the outside I'm sure it's who you are and who you want to become on the inside but when you have more confidence more wisdom you will have everything I can tell just by reading your words
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Good question. Were you neglected in your childhood?
Because you're a woman. You think there's a minimum requirement of compliments from guys each day. If you don't get it then you think there's something wrong. Because guys MUST pay you tribute.
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I don’t know do something to make yourself feel better and confident
You have ugly parts. Even if we are good looking there can be ugly aspects to each of us.
Because you are insane. Which on woman terms is completely normal.
You're making a choice.
Because people are desperate and you know better
Low self esteem
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